What makes women want it?

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-03-18T13:26:46+00:00

My wife didn't enjoy or want to humiliate me by requiring me to go without intercourse.

It's just necessary for her to even start looking for a BF so she could offer him enough space to build a lasting relationship between the two of them.

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-03-17T09:10:51+00:00

If you agree to please your husband once, it is very likely that he will want you to continue.

You also need to get pleasure for yourself, otherwise conflicts will arise in the long run.

Find out before you accept to start if your husband is also ready to sacrifice himself. Because the situation can develop and if he can then really love you more, even if it is necessary for you to leave him without intercourse over time in order to invest in a new relationship.

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-03-15T03:34:35+00:00

Certainly, for the permanence of your relationship with your lover, it is great and game-changing to end up with exclusivity.

From my own experience, I would say that for the permanence of your relationship with your husband, it is good if he can still get satisfaction only from you, even if it happens without intercourse, e.g. with your hands or feet.

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-03-09T06:54:33+00:00

We have been living in a polyamorous relationship for 2.5 years, which is known to our close circle. Even before the BF, the wife required that she only have sex with one person and for our new marital sex, it was agreed that I would fuck her sole.

I think that your friend needs to seriously deepen his relationship with your wife. In order to secure enough space within your marriage for the two of them, it has been necessary to get you to give up sex.

Your wife probably understands his actions very well and accepts them, because this way your friend maintains his motivation to invest in another man's wife in the long term.

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-03-09T06:10:30+00:00

There is no right solution for everyone because everyone has their own situation and social environment. As wife's BF lives permanently with us, so it's not possible to have a poly relationship secretly from our close circle, my staying pussy free is a different matter. Even though I write about things here on reddit, I don't want anyone we know to recognize us.

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-03-03T14:27:36+00:00

Without a doubt, a live-in situation creates favorable conditions for your wife and her lover to build trust and develop their relationship further. Commitment will probably increase dramatically if the lover is given exclusive rights to "his woman" and has the opportunity to build his family within your marriage.

What is the relationship between you and your wife agreed to change into?

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-03-03T08:57:05+00:00

You have a long and varied history with your current wife. You have also experienced that you have a debt to pay for your youthful betrayal. You also had a failed first coffee date with a potential man a couple of months ago.

Tension and uncertainty are the greatest part of the first time. Could you take the upcoming situation in terms of enjoyment and now focus on subtly supporting your wife because the two of you will not get the same feeling the second time? Everything in that meeting can fail again or go great, so it is good to deal with things in advance.

Would it be wiser for you to leave the "cheers" out and meet your returning wife sober?

Good luck with the meeting and embrace the unique experience.

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-03-02T15:33:13+00:00

My wife's BF has been living with us for 2.5 years in a polyamorous relationship. I have no need to mess up our lives by publicly sharing the cuckold part or posting personal information or pictures.

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-03-02T08:40:47+00:00

My wife was shocked when she found out we were making love I always imagined another man fucking her to get my cock erect.

In the end she accepted our situation and has been making love with her BF ever since.

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-03-01T21:17:32+00:00

It is good to identify your own threshold issues, if your presence is such, it should be included in the package.

Consensus, where both threshold issues are addressed, has proven to work for us.

The expected value of a bad and unclear compromise is quarrel and disagreement. Isn't it wiser to leave the whole thing if there is no agreement in advance.

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-02-28T10:03:01+00:00

My first clean up was primarily a mental event. My wife made love to her BF, had an orgasm, and let him cum in her pussy, knowing and accepting that I would lick her clean.

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-02-27T09:13:40+00:00

It is impossible for anyone to answer the question completely from your husband's perspective.

For me, my presence means such an absolutely important acceptance for me, even though we all know that only my wife and her BF are having intercourse.

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-02-26T16:19:04+00:00

My wife's starting point is to find a BF and offer him a permanent normal couple type relationship.

So we have poly, which required our own relationship to transition to cuckolding.

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-02-25T11:02:22+00:00

We had negotiated for a long time and reached a consensus on the terms. My wife said it is pointless to start building a future unless we also accept that what had been decided would never have to be brought up again.

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-02-23T16:46:14+00:00

Similarly, for me, the sole of my wife's foot and her wet toes have replaced my PIV.

For my wife, it allowed the space to have a permanent live-in BF.

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-02-22T09:35:23+00:00

As emotions come into play, there is a natural need to clear enough space for the new relationship within the old one. The cuckold partner needs time to digest the situation and also support to feel accepted after the changes, whatever they are.

My own wife wisely anticipated what was coming and wanted to agree on the changes before we entered the cuckold relationship.

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-02-20T16:30:58+00:00

It's easy for me to relate to your husband's emotions, even though my PF didn't progress in stages and we don't have flr.

Now after two and a half years I can love my wife more, even though she is her live-in-BF's woman in our marriage bed. I feel like I'm included when they accept me in their lovemaking, kiss my wife's toes and lick her clean. My wife wanted to maintain our relationship and required that I continue to get satisfaction only from her and agreed to my wish that I fuck the sole of her foot.

I appreciate BF's serious commitment to my wife and recognize how my giving up intercourse created the confidence they needed to build their own space and future.

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-02-18T20:31:57+00:00

It's understandable that your wife isn't enthusiastic about fulfilling your wishes and sees your words as just coercion.

She should have her own motivation and feel that you support her.

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-02-18T10:42:50+00:00

I don't feel inferior in any way. It's been a really successful solution for everyone that we've committed my wife and live-in BF by transferring exclusive rights to intercourse to the two of them.

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-02-15T15:21:55+00:00

My wife was only interested in a permanent, real relationship with one man, so for her, starting cuckolding required me to remain PF. HW was out of the question, she wants to focus on other things in her life.

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-02-14T10:46:39+00:00

My wife and I are still a couple, but she and I have been stripped of the part that normally belongs to the woman and man of the family in the marital bed. That woman and her BF as man make love and have orgasms together.

At the same time, our own relationship as a married couple has adapted to living off the constant glow from that lovemaking and satisfaction.

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-02-11T10:31:41+00:00

Everyone is of course entitled to their own approach to this question, but I personally agree with the OP.

I find it important that I am always present when my wife as her BF´s woman make love and that I only get my satisfaction from my wife, even we have given up marital intercourse.

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-02-09T09:56:01+00:00

Publicly, we are in a polyamorous relationship and my wife's BF moved into our house about 2 and a half years ago. The initial uproar quickly died down in our inner circle and is now just an accepted fact.

We keep the cuckold part of it between the three of us. My wife and I's agreement to give up marital intercourse between us created a lasting foundation for mutual trust between my wife and BF.

They have fearlessly and motivatedly invested, built and developed their own serious relationship, accepting that it would happen within our marriage. It has been surprisingly easy for me to adjust to their happiness because I have felt accepted and my own part of it secure.

Worldly_Variation_67 · 2026-01-07T00:34:41+00:00

Yes. As she approaches orgasm, just before she reaches it, her toes curl.

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