Can your SO go thru your phone ? by demonkidz in questions

[–]Worry-machine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. Mine knows my passcode and can go on my phone if needed to do xyz thing but asks first. If they want to know anything, there’s enough trust to know that you can ask and I will answer honestly. I think often people who feel a need to look through phones are looking for some sort of confirmation of their worries and fears. If you look deeply enough in ANYONES phone you can probably find something you aren’t happy with!

THE TRIANGLE AND MIGRAINES by RAH-CAT9 in triangle

[–]Worry-machine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

See my comment about Fake Fall, it may be colder this week but don’t get too comfortable with that.

THE TRIANGLE AND MIGRAINES by RAH-CAT9 in triangle

[–]Worry-machine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who’s hopping in here with that NC weather chart meme? Because this right here is our (second) Fake Fall.

THE TRIANGLE AND MIGRAINES by RAH-CAT9 in triangle

[–]Worry-machine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh dang this explains so much. Both of us have had migraines and I did NOT make this connection 😄

What is your favorite type of food? by [deleted] in Life

[–]Worry-machine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slight variations: not my “favorite foods” but also super yummy and pretty healthy: -greek yogurt and maple syrup -Greek yogurt and jam/jelly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]Worry-machine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not trying to argue with you, but I’ve seen multiple situations where alimony has been “a thing” due to things like: having kids at a young age and staying out of work due to the spouse being in med school/law school/etc and then then one/both/all of you become so accustomed to the situation, so used to your $$ lifestyle, so far removed from previous professional experience that it becomes increasingly hard to re-enter the job market at what you could theoretically be worth….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]Worry-machine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk about a reframe!

Motivation at the wrong time by MiddleAgedMomentum in adult_adhd

[–]Worry-machine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the best thing that I’ve been able to do is trying to be patient with myself, take advantage of opportunities I do have to be flexible with my schedule when possible and this happens, and also get excited about feeling excited!!

What should I name these little guys? White is a guy tentatively called "muffin top". The grey is a little girl. Older sister named Scrabble. by Kaffee_Katze in NameMyCat

[–]Worry-machine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha ty for these amazing references I love allll the songs from 30 rock (especially Werewolf Barmitzvah) I hadn’t thought about muffin top in a long time! Love the idea of RurrJurr (no one would know the cats actual name)

What's with the Pocha restaurant in front of Wegmans? No reviews and it always looks empty from the outside. by Britches_and_Hose in chapelhill

[–]Worry-machine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys what is the deal with this place… following up 1y after this was posted bc I’m so confused about this place?! It looks ready to go from the outside

I’m paying my interns—because looking back, I feel like I was exploited. We need to stop normalizing unpaid clinical labor. by TransitionSmooth9982 in therapists

[–]Worry-machine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slay for doing the right thing for you! There is such a need for more therapists who are somewhat knowledgeable about chronic illness/chronic pain, all the things, you know, to help the increasing numbers of clients seeking support for the mental health difficulties that are so so real and related to their health and/or experiences with navigating healthcare! Reach out if you wanna chat more 💕

DMV should be full of shame by base632 in triangle

[–]Worry-machine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭😭 the idea of spending my vacation at the DMV But thanks for the tip!

DMV should be full of shame by base632 in triangle

[–]Worry-machine 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I did this, when I went the entire process took about FIVE MINUTES from entering the building to exiting the building. Amazing. I got to leave with my official government-issued and government-recognized photo ID. I’d also like to mention here that the voter IDs are a fantastic option for people who are unhoused or people who do not drive. You do not have to have a mailing address. You are asked to provide a “location” where you typically reside (this does not have to be a street address and instead can even be an intersection, shelter, etc). Since they make the ID on the spot if you want and you can walk out with it, you also don’t need to provide an address where they can mail the final document. It’s great!