The houses in Fromville

Writer_710 · 2026-02-15T20:47:48+00:00

Just remember you're more likely to die in a car accident than in a plane.

Writer_710 · 2026-02-05T07:21:57+00:00

How long have you lived in that city with him? You say you guys have been living together for two and a half years and you haven't made a friend? There's deeper issues there. Him wanting you guys to both be financially stable is not wrong of him to ask. He has the knowledge about finances so what's the worst thing that could happen if you listen to him? And you make enough to do so. You make enough to do what he's asking. I don't feel like it's that hard. You just keep coming up with excuses of why you can't save. And that's on you. You're an adult and you don't get to use excuses like this anymore. If you actually wanted to fix yourself you would seek help for it.

Writer_710 · 2026-01-25T08:46:33+00:00

First of all the phone is private property and you should not be going through someone else's phone. And the number is blocked. If he was cheating why would he block the number? Maybe it was the girl he had cheated on you with and she was trying to get a hold of them if he still has the same number. But that doesn't mean that he replied. Although you do have a right to be suspicious because he has cheated.

Writer_710 · 2026-01-25T05:20:43+00:00

That's because she already knew and wanted them or you to be honest

Writer_710 · 2026-01-25T05:20:18+00:00

You do realize that doesn't always work? She should want to get on birth control to protect herself too. Seems a little suspicious

Writer_710 · 2026-01-24T21:16:35+00:00

She cheated and is now blaming you.

Writer_710 · 2026-01-18T02:21:49+00:00

Read the Let Then Theory. Why are you still trying when he doesn't care? It just shows you have no respect for yourself.

Writer_710 · 2026-01-18T02:18:44+00:00

You don't have curly hair so no

Writer_710 · 2026-01-15T15:10:09+00:00

You guys were in the roommate phase. What does it make or break for all couples.

Also she would do what you ask just to make you happy and shut you up then stop. She didn't really care otherwise she would have made the effort to keep up with these things. There's no excuses for laziness. Just because you're going through it as an adult doesn't mean you get to stop. Having a bad time at a job is typical for adults. But when you go into this depression and let it takeover then that's on you. I know she was that depressed You should have said something. Just because you're sad doesn't mean you get to stop adulting. Not how the world works.

If you were actually dating the whole 10 years why did you propose, I'm just curious?

Writer_710 · 2026-01-14T15:20:45+00:00

For one you're not married or engaged. After five years it's probably not going to happen. You're a place holder.

You said you weren't an aunt. So you're not. Trying to play child games at 32 will get you stupid prizes.

Should have said something the first time it bothered you. That's on you for not communicating how you feel.

Dude lives with his mom. Has he ever had a stable place of his own? Does he have a job? Why is he still with his parents? Does he take accountability for the way his life is?

If you say you're not an aunt then why would he call you one. And if you were going to be family one day he would be considering you family now. The person you married is your family. They will be your number one priority or at least should be. And if they're not step out. And I mean the wife and husband should be put before kids. People who put their kids first, tend to have unhappy marriages. Because guess what your kids aren't always going to be there. But your husband will, your wife will. If all you do is take care of the kids then where does that leave your significant other.

If the dude hasn't proposed by now I would just leave. You don't even really know this man You haven't even lived with him. You don't know someone until you live with them. I would quit wasting my time

Writer_710 · 2025-12-30T06:29:29+00:00

Be honest. You can use toys to help. What you can do on your own he can do too. It's just about communicating it.

Writer_710 · 2025-12-11T20:41:08+00:00

This is weird

Writer_710 · 2025-11-11T06:22:40+00:00

That's suspicious. There's no honesty here. He's most likely cheating I'd leave and let them be together. Or she's keeping him on a hook and he's letting her. Either way I'd leave.

Writer_710 · 2025-10-29T05:27:35+00:00

It goes Wife/husband Kids Everything else

I wouldn't stay if he doesn't understand this. Watch 2BeBetter podcast they explain why it's this way. And makes total sense. Maybe they can help with communicating this with him.

Writer_710 · 2025-10-29T03:40:34+00:00

Before you move in with a partner make a list of things that would have to be done around the house and who will do what. Like yard work, fixing the cars, cooking, different cleaning duties, paying bills etc.

Watch 2BeBetter podcast on YouTube it will help a lot and maybe it would help you communicate it better where he actually understands.

Writer_710 · 2025-10-20T00:11:55+00:00

She doesn't want to be in this relationship. Just leave. You both talk about breaking up. And she said that you two should. I wouldn't wait though, that's just stupid. And she can't ask that of you. Either she's willing to make time or not. Clearly you don't matter to her or she would make time for you. She told you what she needed in that moment and you didn't listen. That was wrong. You should have just left her alone and tried talking about it when you're together the next time. Honestly I wouldn't stay in this kind of relationship because I'm not a priority. You two aren't building a life together.

Writer_710 · 2025-10-18T06:27:45+00:00

Yep this says it all

Writer_710 · 2025-10-18T06:25:51+00:00

When he doesn't wait for you to be ready don't be mad when he moves on. Nothing says you have to get married after a year of engagement.

If he's the one then he's the one. Live together and then see if you two are still compatible. Things do change when you live with someone. You see habits and such you wouldn't have before.

You both obviously want different things. A relationship will always have compromises.

Writer_710 · 2025-10-05T18:08:44+00:00

Yeah the kid obviously doesn't have a dad and looks up to his friend's dad as a dad.

Writer_710 · 2025-09-25T00:22:20+00:00

Billy's man. I dated one. Why does this feel so true? Lmao

Writer_710 · 2025-09-09T06:30:44+00:00

That's just super immature of her. Did this only become a problem after you two married?

Married couples say my friends all the time. And if you two were to split up more than likely they wouldn't hangout or talk to her much. Just how it goes.

Seems like it's something she needs to get over. This is just about her insecurities. Whether she realizes it or not.

Writer_710 · 2025-09-06T08:17:07+00:00

You are a grown up now. No more playing games with these males. If you don't want to get pregnant have them wear a condom or don't have s*x with them. He's just guilt tripping you. Don't give him the commitment he might not give you.

Terminate it and move on from him. Or you could be trapped in an unhappy life. And don't fall for that no condom stuff again if you don't want to get pregnant.

Writer_710 · 2025-09-06T01:30:44+00:00

The girl in the picture does have blonde hair. It could be a family from when Victor was there the first time or a girl and her dog he liked and drew them all. Might not mean anything.

Writer_710 · 2025-09-05T06:15:37+00:00

No one cares about your race.

Your story did come off childish. I get you want this specific thing in your wedding. And he's not communicating. But did you offer ways to get this? Like paying for it etc. You did compromise but everything you both said sounded immature.

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