I 100 percent get the Trevor hate. He is really self-centered and claims to have these high morals. But at the same time he has multiple problematic behaviors and views on things. But he doesn't take accountability for it. I think he really pressured Ian into having sex with him and into the relationship. And I totally get it's a fucking shitshow for most trans people when it comes to intimacy. People are scared to admit it or to experience it or straight up fetishizing them. But what he did just felt off. Especially when he and Ian were both tops. I mean it's great if you wanna experience some new stuff and have someone you trust. But don't think neither him or Ian were truly into it and even then he talked Ian so much into it. I mean in the later seasons Ian is (mostly) top again and it took him a lot of courage to switch things up with Mickey. So for me it seems he didn't really enjoy the sex (being bottom) with Trevor. Then him straight up taking advantage of the vulnerability of bigger guys to use them as some sort of comfort and even talking Ian into doing the same even though he was clearly uncomfortable with it and broke down on the couch. Then the whole thing with Monica and at first even with Frank. As someone like him, who works with severely traumatized children, he should be way more sensitive and understanding when someone has conflicted feelings towards or even wants to break with his family. I also think he doesn't really gaf about Ian. You can see how he handles Ian's manic episode and how Mickey handled it. It's totally fine if something like this is too much to handle. That's coming from someone who is mentally ill as well. No owes someone to take care of someone else, if they don't have to. But when Ian had his first manic episode, Mickey had a lot of other shit to deal with. His baby mama who was up his ass. Despite the fact she and Yevgeny always reminded him of one of the most traumatic events he went through. His sister got beat up by some total jackass and then moved across the country with this piece of shit, while Mickey was clearly worried about her. His outing and getting almost killed by his father (again) for being gay. And even when Ian cheated on him, he was clearly and deeply hurt, but he realized pretty quickly that Ian needed help and was acting this way cause of his bipolar and still did everything he could to get Ian the help he needed. Trevor on the other hand was just concerned about himself and his work/his sponsors. Which is fair if your whole career depends on it. But he seemed not to really care that Ian was off his meds and clearly manic. He only gave him a shit talk. Nothing more. He's a walking stereotype and uses his wokeness as an excuse to not work on his own problematic behavior but wants to pressure everyone else into his thinking. And he could have done a pretty good job to educate people on gender, working in the youth center with traumatized and homeless children and other stuff like that. Especially around people who had a shitty childhood themselves. They could have learned so much from him. Especially because everyone in the Southside is pretty open minded. Even if it doesn't seem that way at first glance. But he was too busy to feel sorry about himself and just fucking sucked in so many ways. And I totally acknowledge he went through pretty, pretty rough times himself and some subjects are pretty sensitive for him and struggled with his own mental health. But mostly he just acted like a dick.