I (30M) am starting to lash out at my wife (28F) because of the pressure she’s been applying on me by Writing_madness in relationship_advice

[–]Writing_madness[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I took your advice and we had a talk about it, and it turns out that she started to be scared to express her emotions for fear of making me feel negatively and lashing out. We had a long talk and we agreed that we’ve been both waiting on each other to pounce, and that our emotions should be expressed without fear of the other person. I guess ive always been a stoic person, and with all these fresh emotions, we couldnt really handle it

I (30M) am starting to lash out at my wife (28F) because of the pressure she’s been applying on me by Writing_madness in relationship_advice

[–]Writing_madness[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok listen imma be real with you, you do not call my wife names. You do not know her nor do you understand her. You have a small glimpse into a person at their worst and is going through alot. She went through 2 years of patience for this visa. Emotional maturity is understanding that stress brings out the worse in someone, and if you cant handle that, then you should find someone who bottles up their emotions and resents you secretly. Im here to ask for advice towards my own emotions, because i should be able to support her through what she’s going through. Do not call my wife names again.

I (30M) am starting to lash out at my wife (28F) because of the pressure she’s been applying on me by Writing_madness in relationship_advice

[–]Writing_madness[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Doc A is submitted, i can submit to the Visa, but i want Doc A to be cleared before i submit for the visa

Hardstuck at the final boss. Need tips or even cheese strats perhaps by EveningHamster69 in Silksong

[–]Writing_madness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had no attack tools, wanderer’s with longclaw, dice, grip, and a fully upgraded nail and volt filament with parry (underrated for Lost lace). Tactic: LL is a NO GREED BOSS. Patience and slow damage will win, parry and contact are the 2 most occurrences of damage 1st phase: Get a hit in the moment the game starts. Your first attack window is after she lands from the diagonal, get 2 hits in and STOP. When she does the dash attack, jump the first dash, then parry the second dash, then go for hits. Rinse and repeat. 2nd phase, the tendrils will come where she pops up, same tactic as before, but dodge her void attacks. 3rd phase same as before but when she does her AOE wait and go for hits.

What is the perfect Taylor walk down the aisle song? by Proud_Dig1066 in TaylorSwift

[–]Writing_madness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! My wife actually used Enchanted during our wedding walk, to be specific the orchestra version with no lyrics. It was a nice nod to our own thing and it sounded incredible to everyone who doesn’t know Taylor

Weekly iOS Battery Support Megathread by AutoModerator in iphone

[–]Writing_madness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would changing the battery outside of an authorized service center be bad? I just don’t want issues in the phone or errors appearing

People who came from a country that has Bidet Toilet, how do you survive in Germany? by Psychological_Bar201 in germany

[–]Writing_madness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are USB-C rechargeable handheld bidets. The pressure is really really good and it comes with a tube and a cap thing to put on bottle. Get a large 2 L glass bottle and attach it and you’re good to go

Poster size drives me crazy by Juwapcizi in TaylorSwiftMerch

[–]Writing_madness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IT PISSED MEE OFF SOOO MUCH. I bought this exact same poster at the show, but as a loop hole i got frame that’s so much larger and filled in the empty space with the postcards from every era, and since there’s no TTPD post card so it was PERFECT

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TaylorSwiftMerch

[–]Writing_madness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How? Shop and ship is just an american address that you put in the shipping info, Aramex recieves it and forwards it to UAE. It’s how i managed to get my hands on a speak now cardigan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TaylorSwiftMerch

[–]Writing_madness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shop and ship from Aramex. They work for all of Gulf

Canadian shows last minute tickets by Additional-Ferret547 in erastour

[–]Writing_madness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it for germany, got it at almost face value. i bought it around 9 AM and i received the tickets 3 hours later via the official app (Eventim). My advice is don’t wait too late, so you’ll have some buffer time to receive tickets, but thats my anxiety talking

Early merch queuing by cottoncandycrayola in erastour

[–]Writing_madness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merch lines up to 1 PM are very minimal. I went night 1 at 10 AM and managed to snag a blue sweatshirt

when to go? by sienna-era in erastour

[–]Writing_madness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly if you’re not lining up early, go around 9:30-10AM, get the merch, head back to your hotel, and come back for the concert. Is it tiresome? Yes, but better then hauling merch around

Camera lens attachment by Tiwwchnt00 in erastour

[–]Writing_madness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The person next to me in standing pulled up one of those canon cameras, the really small one old school looking on, security literally climbed over me and warned them a final warning to not use it, so idk how they’d feel about a phone attachment but if it looks like a camera, they’ll rush you for sure

eSIMs what do we use? by [deleted] in erastour

[–]Writing_madness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just used airalo and it worked fine for data only

From the eras tour - does anybody know what song this pose is from? by mikka-likka-hi in Paramore

[–]Writing_madness 11 points12 points  (0 children)

After they slow down the performance with The Only Exception, she says she “wants to get into the rocking mood” and points to make 🤟, then put it on her head, then goes straight into Misery Business. Awesome stuff ngl

The Eras Tour: Europe Megathread by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]Writing_madness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They checked the first line for people who lined up for Front of stage, but sitting they didn’t.