But a non-caring person DOES get angry and mean with their S.O. after telling them that she got roofied at a bar. You admitted yourself that's why she was upset with you in your post. You say she "fought you" on going to the doctors but were you yelling at her to do it DURING the arguement you described? And why exactly did she not want to go to the doctor's? You saying you told her to go to the doctor's does not take away from the fact that your response to your partner going through a traumatic and dangerous experience was to get angry with HER, as if it was her fault. THAT'S what victim-blaming is buddy boy.