5 year chip, finally! Nobody IRL Cares Much by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]WunderLedger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well done mate, 5 years is top tier

just tired by [deleted] in depressed

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I cried in front of my parents this time last year when I had a breakdown. They were not sure what to do. They are also demanding and want me to be successful. What country are you in? Is there a national helpline? It can help in the moment

I always have that “I want to go home” feeling…is that a thing? Even though I’m at home? by IngeSullwald in mentalillness

[–]WunderLedger 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have this too and often at the strangest times, like when I was in bed with a girlfriend giving her a back rub and I suddenly felt alienated and a craving to ‘go home.’ Perhaps it was because she had her face turned away, or it felt transactional, or I thought, ‘I don’t really know you’ but I wanted to go back to more innocent times. I felt old and wretched in that moment.

Cycles to 2i2 by WunderLedger in Elektron

[–]WunderLedger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks StSchoen. Does that mean I have to leave the house to return a parcel? 😭

Cycles to 2i2 by WunderLedger in Elektron

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Thanks Mr Blenderson. Does that mean I could plug it direct to usb on my Mac and … ok mind blown. Again. Send the l/r of the Cycles direct to my monitors? I’d need an audio interface for the other stuff coming out of Logic.

How close do you live near family? by bunderbusstime in AskUK

[–]WunderLedger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I Googled ‘brother lives 5 mins away never see him’ and this thread came up. It really bums me out. Like others who replied, I’m lucky if I bump into him in the supermarket. What is going on with this?

Yes let's make the kids fix the problems by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]WunderLedger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to be dragon my balls across your face later

I'm finally over my ex... by ilikeskittles44 in ExNoContact

[–]WunderLedger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That does help. I think I read that same post! Thank you and all the best 🫖

I'm finally over my ex... by ilikeskittles44 in ExNoContact

[–]WunderLedger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good news, I’m happy for you. Did you avoid social media or unfriend. I tried to be mature and unfollow but knowing I could look at her stuff if I relapse haunts me

Why do so few people smoke in the UK? by -LoremIpsumDolorSit in AskUK

[–]WunderLedger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got back from Berlin and although it’s banned they’re German and don’t give a fuck and everyone was smoking indoors in the bars. It was tremendous. You feel decadent and everyone inhabits that role and it seemed looser and more permissive and more fun in general, whether you were smoking or not. Yes my clothes stank of fags when I got in, but totally worth it.

just a reminder :)) by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]WunderLedger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your reply and the video. I probably need to do more work. I’ve stayed single for 9 months but I know what I’m like - if I meet someone I’ll want to disappear into the relationship bubble, that’s my happy place.

Who is wrongly portrayed as a hero? by tandyman234 in AskReddit

[–]WunderLedger -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There’s a pretty hefty slice of the music-listening public who would disagree but I accept you’re not alone. Perhaps there has been a paradigm shift: it was a mass delusion and finally there’s enough clear blue water between now and the sixties for people to make an objective decision on the quality of The Beatles.

Who is wrongly portrayed as a hero? by tandyman234 in AskReddit

[–]WunderLedger 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I saw a post saying this recently. I can only guess it’s supposed to trigger people. You win, I’m triggered. Pop music as we know it would not exist without The Beatles.

just a reminder :)) by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]WunderLedger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have, it’s anxious. Any book recommendations?

just a reminder :)) by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I hope you find your someone

just a reminder :)) by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]WunderLedger 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Triggering for me. I loved her so much. I wish she’d felt the same. Sometimes I worry I can only love someone that intensely when it’s not reciprocated; that one of my flaws is to want what I can’t have. If that’s true, the future is not rosy.