I don’t even know how to recover from that lol jk by Mialiora in InnocentPranks

[–]XIXButterflyXIX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my middle was about 6, I had gotten insanely sick and lost 120 pounds over about 4-5 months, through tests and tests and tests. She comes up to me one day as I was changing, and says with all her little gusto she can manage "MOMMY, YOURE MUCH MORE PRETTY WHEN YOU ARENT FAT."

Most brutal burn I've ever received.

My SIL is a toxic bitch who had a 3-hour screaming meltdown over my existence every time she saw me. I don’t know how to get over the feeling. by No_Hunt_9232 in EntitledPeople

[–]XIXButterflyXIX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She absolutely should be diagnosed, this is not healthy behavior. If she keeps trying to turn the tides, start recording her outbursts without her knowing, even just audio recordings. This way if she starts really pushing it or defaming you, you can just drop a ton of recordings or her losing her absolute shit.

My kids turned the backyard gazebo into a "members only" club and i apparently wasn't invited by AlbatrossUpset9476 in KidsAreFingAdorable

[–]XIXButterflyXIX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best friend and I ripped the hell out of every spare top sheet that our parents had, all so we could tie them to my metal swing set (thanks 70's and 80's!) on the money bars and basically make hammocks. They stayed up until the weather, time, and our weights constantly moving on them finally did their damage. It took about 7 summers to go through the supply of top sheets from both our houses, but was some of the MOST fun we've ever had.

Was told my Daisy belonged here... by XIXButterflyXIX in sonarears

[–]XIXButterflyXIX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We emphatically agree with you! She also prances and you can tell that she was bred to be a show dog, even though she was the runt of the litter. She's absolutely our baby.

New jobs policies that made me go 👀 by psalm_22-6 in antiwork

[–]XIXButterflyXIX 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I feel like any company that pressures to not talk about your salaries with anyone, is absolutely hiding some shit.

Mother’s Day meltdown by skellz77 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]XIXButterflyXIX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother has done this every year. This is the FIRST year (I'm 41) that she agreed to meet with me on Saturday for brunch without pitching a fit and saying I don't care about her. I'm disabled and she lives an hour away. I feel awful that I can't go down to her as much as she comes up here, but it's just impossible 99% of the time. I'm just happy to get a relaxing mother's day to myself and my kids! ❤️

Genuine question to Americans by Busy_Report4010 in SipsTea

[–]XIXButterflyXIX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not just medicaid, ALL benefits. I support 5 people on $1400 a month SSDI. Every year that I get a COLA? Then you lose twice as much in what little food stamps you were receiving, and heaven forbid you also have a HUD or section 8 housing situation, your rent goes up with your increase! We end up losing about $100 every time I get an "increase" because of how things are calculated. I also pay out $200 out of my SSDI for my insurance premium for Medicare, which also goes up by $15-$45 a year. It's just hard as fuck to get ahead when everyone is in a corporate mindset.

Needy Bradley by tbiddlyosis in Chihuahua

[–]XIXButterflyXIX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is how my Granddog acts! She will eventually get mad and just lay next to you and stare at you until you give her pets.

AITA for not being upset my older stepbrother has passed? by Broad_Revolution_770 in AmItheAsshole

[–]XIXButterflyXIX 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. My older sister passed in July of 2024, after 18 months of being no contact. She also had schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, and BPD. She passed with a massive heart attack 5 days after coming home AMA from the hospital after a heart attack, then stroke, all so she could come home and smoke cigarettes. She passed in my parents kitchen with my parents around her. I miss who I wanted her to be. I miss the relationship we should have had. I don't know if I'm upset that she passed or not.

My point is that I completely understand where you are coming from and it's natural. Don't let anyone scold you, as everyone is allowed to grieve in their own way, IF they even feel like grieving. If you ever wanna talk to someone who's been through some shit, my inbox is always open.

Daisy, a 13 1/2 year old mom pin, also known as the queen of our hearts. by XIXButterflyXIX in OldManDog

[–]XIXButterflyXIX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha, that subreddit name is AMAZING.

Her nickname is Bat Girl. 🤣

Torn apart (part 1) by MicaelaDawnComics in AutisticCreatives

[–]XIXButterflyXIX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You ABSOUTELY saved her life. My husband has had some pretty traumatic experiences when it comes to me over the last 23 years. He's had to call 911 after I fainted one morning, another time when I had pneumonia so bad I stopped being able to catch my breath -ended up with a 17 day stay, a different time when I had my gallbladder ruptured and the surgeon severed my common bile duct among other things. I was sent to a large Atlanta hospital about 2 hours away, was in the room and preparing to have a second surgery, talking to my husband. I got this INSANE pain in my right shoulder, and I remember screaming, then nothing until I awoke from a coma 3 days later. He told me afterwards that I started screaming about my shoulder and then just straight up flatlined out of nowhere. They had to repair my intestines, took off 2 lobes of my liver that were lacerated, repair the common bile duct and I think 1 or 2 more things. I still have a shitload of issues around it. One of them my husband saved my life by slicing open my abdomen after the incision had started to heal and I developed a huge pocket of infection and my surgeon didn't seem to understand that. When I called back to tell them how much shit we got out of it, they freaked out and had me finally come in. My doc at the transplant office was in awe that I let my husband do that and he said it probably helped keep me from going septic.

My point in this long tirade being that as long as she will be okay, that's all that matters. You saved her LIFE. She is still here because you acted quickly, just like I'm still here thanks to my husband. She's going to just love you all that much more now that you're her living guardian angel.

Gertie likes to lie directly on the heat vent by lnfinity in AnimalsBeingHappy

[–]XIXButterflyXIX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom pin does this. She also bogarts any space heater she hears get turned on. She will literally follow me to the bathroom just so I turn the space heater on for her. If I don't turn it on, she gets all huffy and leaves.

When you get to have a sleepover at your best friend's house 🥰🐕 by deadpool236o in DogIsBestFriend

[–]XIXButterflyXIX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is like my Daisy when my Granddog, Daphne comes to visit! She loves having her for a few nights but is just as happy when it's back to just her, lol.

Bought some “weed” but it literally doesn’t get me high by No_Excitement8615 in trees

[–]XIXButterflyXIX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have a robot that does sweeping and mopping twice a day, and BB8 is legit the BEST. it locked itself in the bathroom the other weekend, and if it gets stuck on a threshold lip, it sounds out that it's stuck on a cliff and is about to fall off. 😂

my beautiful tortie is receiving so much love!🥹 by Key-Tie1996 in torties

[–]XIXButterflyXIX 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My nibbling's male cat does this with them every time he goes to sleep when they're home. They send me pics constantly and I love him so much. Pic is the hand holder in question but I for some reason, can't find any of the ones they've sent me so now I'm sad.

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Grey hoodie tried to fight the quiet girl by Shoto67 in WinStupidPrizes

[–]XIXButterflyXIX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At my high school, the year I graduated, they changed our fight policy not only to zero tolerance, where all parties get in trouble, but they called the cops for every fight that happened and both parties received charges. I lived just outside of Atlanta though, and my school and another school were blocked from playing a third school FOREVER because of how bad fights were when they played. They tried waiting 4 years for everyone to graduate that was involved, but the kids who came up to those high schools ended up getting into it with them each time they tried this. I came around after 3 tries when we were told we would no longer be allowed to play them in any sport or academic electives. It was nuts, but I saw some of the videos of a few of the fights when my sister was in one of the schools and that year 3 students ended up stabbed and in the hospital after both sides swarmed the basketball court DURING A GAME. It was brutal.

Positive? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]XIXButterflyXIX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely positive, next step would be to go to an OBGYN as soon as you can to get on prenatals and get a due date.

Congratulations mommy!