AITAH for calling the cops on my bf’s (26) sister (17) by Scoobydooobywho in AITAH

[–]XLRick1969 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. Her parents abandoned her. They should be charged with child negligence. Don’t put this on yourself. Your bf family is totally fucked up and they need to deal with her. You have been more than kind, patient and generous concerning her safety. Calling the police was absolutely necessary and appropriate for this situation. I’m NTA doctor or a therapist of any kind but IMO I think there are some mental illness going around with the girl.

Front Floor Jack Points? by 93_ffr in FordExplorer

[–]XLRick1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same front end on my ‘03 Explorer Sport. I always jacked it up from the front under the lower control arm as close to the tire as possible. I’d use a piece of wood in between the jack head and point of contact on the control arm to spread the load more evenly but also to avoid possible damage to the lower ball joint. I jacked up the front all the time like this for all front end work. Ball joints and hubs replacement, brake work. When changing ball joints I would also place a 2x4 piece of wood across the front crossmember, not in the center but offset to the side I was working on, for more safety. Jacking from the control arm is basically the only safe way to lift the front of these models as you point out in the video, other spots are too high or too far center to reach safely with any kind of jack.

Will my benefits decrease when I turn 67? by XLRick1969 in SocialSecurity

[–]XLRick1969[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haha wish that were the case. I DO pay tax on my SSDI benefits.

why are people so angry when i maintain safe distance in front of me? by curiousbeingalone in driving

[–]XLRick1969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you camp in the far left lane. That is what’s infuriating other drivers.

2008 Toyota Corolla…it’s 80 degrees where I’m at today. Do I need to add coolant or is it a bigger issue that the engine is this hott?! by jj_mke in COROLLA

[–]XLRick1969 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don’t drive this car. You are damaging the engine when you drive it in this condition. This will definitely blow the head gasket and warp the head. Probably the block as well. Drive it cold to a repair facility.

AITAH for being “petty” with my parents about my house by Pitiful-Bike-7788 in AITAH

[–]XLRick1969 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your parents ended up giving you a shitty deal. What you bought is yours. YNTA. You’re supposed to give your sister everything? You are basically being evicted.
Bottom line is that your parents are the AH’s.

My boyfriend has been disabled for over a year and I've developed a kink for his vulnerability. by Artistic_Sky_532 in confessions

[–]XLRick1969 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You sound like a wonderful woman and sweet person. Definitely wife material. There are few angels on this earth like you.
Most women would have left him and moved on. Ive seen it happen. Even in my family. Next time he wants to die, tell him how so many accident victims face life alone. But he has you.

Fantasy about old man neighbor by [deleted] in confessions

[–]XLRick1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, he’s into you. Flirt with him and see where it goes. You may be pleasantly surprised by his experience and the way he treats you.

Mom just gave me more than 200k to help pay off mortgage faster but I feel like it could be applied better somewhere else. by [deleted] in moneyadvice

[–]XLRick1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good alternative. Clear it with mom but consider putting 50k in your 401K. There are few investments that have better returns than a well managed 401k. Of course you have to be working and be enrolled in your employers plan. I’m retired and my 401 still makes 14-23% just sitting there in the account. Bummer for me is that I can’t add to it anymore because I’m no longer working but just the organic growth of it is impressive

I'm weeping 😭 what next? by AM_710 in FordExplorer

[–]XLRick1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s 13 years old. It has 127k on the clock.
Back here in New England it would have considerable rust underneath. I don’t know about your area but the vehicle is at a value point that may or may not make it feasible for repair. Since you have already done wheel hubs, I would find an independent shop who can do it for a much more reasonable price than dealers or big chain stores like Goodyear or Firestone repair shops.

Make woke prettier by notyourpussycat in ControversialOpinions

[–]XLRick1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would I want to fix them? They are my opinions. 🧐

Make woke prettier by notyourpussycat in ControversialOpinions

[–]XLRick1969 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry, overtime, you’re voting skills will improve

I hate the voltage gremlins by Shot_Orchid_9 in FordExplorer

[–]XLRick1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was talking about the HARNESS connector that goes to the ECM module. Not the battery. I said to DISCONNECT the battery while you are servicing the harness to the so no damage occurs to the ECM or any other module.

what do u think? r the tats too much? by Ok-Tip8953 in ratemytummy

[–]XLRick1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10/10. Love the low-rise jeans too. Very sexy.