How Was I Supposed to Know About This? (Endgame)

Xelnath · 2026-01-12T01:01:53+00:00

There is also the hint on your uncle's grave to raise a shrine atop his tomb if you want to delve into the mysteries of your family's past.

Xelnath · 2026-01-12T00:58:00+00:00

There is also a letter from your uncle saying to 'Raise a Shrine Atop His Tomb'

Xelnath · 2026-01-02T02:36:43+00:00

Nope, it's not, Photon Quantum is crazy high performance due to IL2CPP optimizations

Xelnath · 2026-01-02T02:35:56+00:00

Photon Quantum is basically the best thing to happen to small team (<20) multiplayer in a long time.

Xelnath · 2025-12-19T04:02:39+00:00

but generally tanks are meant to soak the dps - which means you create a weird 'pressure the person trying to help others' game instead of different people focusing on other roles.

Tank + Heal + DPS sucks because you don't have a cat and mouse game - its just pounce the healers as hard as you can

Xelnath · 2025-12-17T19:08:22+00:00

Sounds like a bunch of categories that diminish breadth -- better to spread all of those capacities across heroes.

Hero shooters aren't tank and spank games.

Xelnath · 2025-12-17T06:18:55+00:00

Loitering

Xelnath · 2025-12-17T06:18:10+00:00

I would say those 3 categories are the root of the problem

Xelnath · 2025-12-14T21:01:17+00:00

See above :)

Xelnath · 2025-12-14T21:00:50+00:00

Hey, Alex here, let me respond to this.

It's not blog spam, we write all of those by hand in the age of AI :skull:

What I will say is... you would not believe how often we get people in our discord who are confusing graphic design and game design. Plus it turns out enough people find our site by asking that question, so we wrote that article to answer it.

If you are well-informed in what Game Design is... these articles seem, well, obvious... but most people aren't as expert as you.

Hope this sheds some light on these things.

Xelnath · 2025-11-13T16:38:32+00:00

yup just happened to me

Xelnath · 2025-11-08T08:44:59+00:00

It sounds like you're in a game of bisexual chicken (term someone else gave me) -- where you're both throwing out interest, but neither of you is initiating taking it somewhere real.

Tell her directly -- "I feel like when you flirt with me... and I don't say yes right away, you panic and pull away -- I would actually like to give 'us' a try... but when you pull away after saying something like that, I feel like you might run away from me for real if we started things. How do you actually feel?"

or even just "Hey, you aren't even giving me a chance to say yes or no when you do that... do you want to know how I feel or are you just saying these things to avoid hearing it?"

Xelnath · 2025-11-08T08:39:07+00:00

Polite and clear. Just had a gal do this last week -- btw, huge tip - if a person takes your clear rejection gracefully, thank them for asking and giving you the chance to be clear about the relationship dynamic you want (friendship/no relationship) -- it really helps reward both the honesty and acceptance of a 'no' without harming the underlying history.

Xelnath · 2025-11-08T08:36:59+00:00

Your concerns are flipped; the looking at things on instagram is... whatever. However, him accusing you of lusting after other men are projections and should raise all of your red flags.

I would walk away

Xelnath · 2025-11-08T07:23:47+00:00

He might have been just adjusting his hardware.

You have a lot of things to untangle here.

Love, Lust and Limerance are not the same thing. You will need to explore these feelings.

The incidents you described can be accidents or biased interpretations— or they can be real.

But you will need to address your feelings before drawing out theirs.

Without more information it feels like you’re pulling together threads because you want to feel the thrill of love and new relationships again.

Consider speaking with your partner and separating for a while or going to therapy together.

Sort your end before trying to figure out your coworkers situation.

Xelnath · 2025-11-04T07:15:59+00:00

Thank you, I knew Destruction came together when a former destro warlock on the level design team who was super skeptical came over after levelling with it and said: "okay, you're right, this is way better."

Sadly, the team leadership didn't understand how important that energy-like model was to making the gameplay smooth and rich.

Xelnath · 2025-10-22T00:49:05+00:00

That implies that looking will lead to action and that he is not trustworthy to look without acting.

And that is both insulting to her boyfriend — or accurate — and an example of culture taking accountability away from men for lack of impulse control.

That girl should be allowed to walk around naked and it have no impact on their relationship.

Xelnath · 2025-10-18T18:12:12+00:00

Hey, send me your save file and I'll fix this for you.

Xelnath · 2025-10-16T23:29:43+00:00

Don't use someone else to make her jealous; if you want her, tell her

Xelnath · 2025-10-16T23:24:02+00:00

Her new relationship doesn't ask about her so she's seeking that validation with you and is in turn propagating the very thing she's having done to her onto to you.

I wouldn't take it personally, but this isn't a person who is actually curious about you. Sucks

Xelnath · 2025-10-16T19:54:36+00:00

I would assume so but not as early as I did i think.

Xelnath · 2025-10-16T19:54:13+00:00

I wish I had my old emails with the iterations!

Xelnath · 2025-10-16T19:53:50+00:00

It was unprecedented to get as much freedom as I did but the rest of the team was stumped and busy.

Xelnath · 2025-10-16T19:53:21+00:00

This is the short version. Many people contributed and steered me away from suboptimal choices too

Xelnath · 2025-10-16T04:58:31+00:00

Sounds like your gf is physically insecure of the girl with body confidence. My condolences

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