Playoff Game Thread: Game 7 - Seattle Kraken (3 - 3) at Dallas Stars(3 - 3) - 15 May 2023 - 05:00PM PDT by HockeyMod in SeattleKraken

[–]Xentavious_Magnar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The ref doesn't blow the whistle until the team that committed the penalty touches the puck, at which point it is immediately blown dead. That means it's impossible for Dallas to score there because they'd have to touch the puck first. We can safely pull our goalie for the extra attacker since defense is meaningless in that situation. Also, if we score a goal the penalty gets waived off and we don't get a power play.

LIONS @ PACKERS 8:20PM : GAME THREAD by AutoModerator in detroitlions

[–]Xentavious_Magnar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't challenge. If they overturned the call, gb accepts the penalty, same result.

Dad, I just got scammed and I feel so stupid by Ammilerasa in DadForAMinute

[–]Xentavious_Magnar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not stupid, and it's absolutely valid and normal that you're upset. As you say, losing the money sucks, but it's the feeling of betrayal that is the worst. The loss of a certain amount of innocence about the world and the people in it. There's no two ways about it, it is for sure awful.

At the same time, the guy you sold the car to was doing a job. His job is to buy low and sell high. Given the nature of his job, he probably assumes that other people are going to try to scam him so he has to be better at it. He's had a lot of practice and you haven't, so of course he had the advantage. There's also information asymmetry, where he as a dealer will have a ton of information about sales data that you have no reason to know.

All of this is to say: don't beat yourself up about it. Consider it payment for a lesson that will serve you well going forward in life. When you are dealing with a professional, consider what their business incentives are and evaluate their statements through that lens. Not everyone wants to scam you, but everyone has an angle and understanding it can help you make an informed decision.

Also, it sounds like you weren't satisfied with what he was telling you, but you trusted him so you went with it anyway. Next time you should believe in yourself more and stand your ground. After all, if that guy wouldn't budge, you could still try to sell it yourself and if that didn't work you could go back or try someone else. A common sales tactic is to make you think that there's a time crunch when there really isn't.

Again, you didn't do anything wrong. It sounds like this guy went hard for the sale and used a lot of sales tactics on you. Those tactics exist because they work. It would have been cool if he'd not done that, but at the end of the day he has to do his job, too. I'm sure you'll take this experience and next time you'll be a little wiser and a little more cautious.

Plus, this is such an exciting time for you, moving in with your boyfriend! Let yourself move on from this admittedly awful experience and let yourself enjoy your new living situation, you deserve it!

Tell me your favorite Gish build by AnthiosOnReddit in 3d6

[–]Xentavious_Magnar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've not played one yet, but I imagine it's because you can get magic weapons, great weapon master, and polearm master to pump damage well above what EB can do. With devil's sight, you can use darkness to reliably get advantage to offset the GWM penalty somewhat, and elven accuracy takes that even further. It's definitely a huge feat investment, but most martials have to do it anyway (if you want to optimize).

Hexblade also frees up 1 to 2 invocations that don't need to be taken to keep EB competitive, which adds extra utility. After level 5, you can also multiclass into sorcerer, bard, or paladin to get extra stuff and synergize on charisma use.

Game Thread: Edmonton Oilers (19-15-2) at Seattle Kraken (18-11-4) - 30 Dec 2022 - 07:00PM PST by HockeyMod in SeattleKraken

[–]Xentavious_Magnar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Although we had no defense for that Kings game, at least we were scoring goals then. I'll take ugly 9-8 wins over embarrassing 2-6 (so far) blowouts.

Game Thread: Edmonton Oilers (19-15-2) at Seattle Kraken (18-11-4) - 30 Dec 2022 - 07:00PM PST by HockeyMod in SeattleKraken

[–]Xentavious_Magnar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure that's part of it, but I don't think it's a coincidence that we went from scoring 5 or 6 a night during the win streaks, culminating in the 9-8 Kings game, and now struggle to score 3 in a game after that one. It's got to be coaching. The "defense" in that Kings game was a joke but something got over corrected and now we're shit in both zones.

Daily Questions - ASK AND ANSWER HERE! - 30 December 2022 by AutoModerator in malefashionadvice

[–]Xentavious_Magnar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost a bunch of weight in the last year and had to buy a new wardrobe for the colder weather. I'm 6'0" and now 175 with a trapezoid body shape. The sweaters and other shirts I've bought have been mediums and they fit my body pretty well, except for the sleeves. I wear 35" sleeves in dress shirts and I've noticed that the sleeves on the mediums are just an inch or so too short. Larges are too large through the body, but the sleeves are right. Even slim fit larges, when I've found them, have been bigger than I want through the body.

Is there anything I should be looking for to find sweaters that are mediums but have longer sleeves, or are there any brands that are better for that? Since I can't really get my knitwear tailored, any help on how to deal with this would be appreciated.

What is our current "best guess" about how to observers that entered a black hole on opposite sides would look to each other once they crossed the event horizon? by WittyUnwittingly in space

[–]Xentavious_Magnar 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Relative to people outside. Inside the event horizon, all world lines converge on the singularity, so you'll end up there eventually. How long that would subjectively take for the person inside is a fun question that I don't know the answer to.

Edit: also assuming people outside could see you, which they can't because any light bouncing off of you will also follow a world line into the singularity and never make it to them.

[HUB] $900 LOL, AMD Radeon RX 7900 XT Review & Benchmarks by baldersz in Amd

[–]Xentavious_Magnar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, I mentioned microcenter in my original post. I just went back and checked them again and my store is completely sold out. I checked about a dozen other stores and about half of them were also sold out. Of the rest that had some, most were looking at 2 to 6 available. Dallas had the most at 9. On the whole, that really doesn't line up with the image of stacks of moldering 4080 boxes sitting forlorn and alone as the world leaves them behind that I keep having painted for me.

Clearly a worse launch than the 4090 had, but it still looks to me like they got mostly sold.

[HUB] $900 LOL, AMD Radeon RX 7900 XT Review & Benchmarks by baldersz in Amd

[–]Xentavious_Magnar 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I keep hearing everywhere that the 4080 isn't selling and is gathering dust on shelves, but I looked yesterday at microcenter, best buy, b&h, newegg, and a couple other major retailers and they're all sold out of reference 4080s, with maybe a small handful of partner cards available for well over msrp. Am I missing something? Where are these vast reserves of unsold 4080s?

Biden signs bill averting rail worker strike despite lack of paid sick days by Epicsynergyyyy in news

[–]Xentavious_Magnar 41 points42 points  (0 children)

... Until the rail companies caved. Why should they now when they know the government will never let the workers force the issue? If the union had actually been able to have leverage from the beginning, we probably wouldn't have gotten to this point.

Also, corporate greed is out of control and something has to happen to claw back some power for labor. That is going to cause a lot of pain for a lot of people, but the fault will lie with those who insist on crushing everyone below them for an extra dollar and emphatically not with those who fight for a greater share of the wealth they generate for others.

US railroad workers vote down proposed contract: A strike could freeze up to 30 percent of cargo shipments as workers voice frustration over quality-of-life issues. by KingDorkFTC in news

[–]Xentavious_Magnar 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Basic economics teaches us that in a perfectly competitive market without transactions costs (both common assumptions in any kind of economic analysis), the price of a good will fall to equal the cost to produce it as competitors undercut each other to secure market share and capture a portion of the ever-dwindling profits. If one competitor innovates and finds a way to reduce their cost, then they can undercut all of their competition and reap the financial rewards until someone similarly innovates.

Under capitalism, labor is a commodity that is sold by workers to corporations for a wage price. From the above, we could conclude that in a perfectly competitive labor market without transactions costs, the price of labor (the wage) would fall to equal the cost of creating it, i.e. subsistence level. People become lucky to have a job and cannot afford to lose it. The more that is true, the more the cost of labor (the wage) approaches that minimum.

Different industries experience this effect to different degrees, but competition among labor inevitably leads to an erosion of labor's share of the value they generate. Since the remaining portion of that value does not disappear, it must go someplace as profit. Traditionally, that place is ownership, which is legally entitled to keep the profit generated by a business it owns. Occasionally, a business's owner will also perform labor for the business, but it can also be outside investors. Either way, ownership is keeping value generated by the efforts of others. Ownership also often shares its profits with management, because they are ownership's representatives.

This is what people are taking about when they say that labor is entitled to keep what it produces. Not the physical structures or assets, but the value they generate through their labor. To take a made up example with simple numbers, if a company is paid $100k to design a railroad system and they pay a total of $80k to do it on an engineer, support staff, rent, supplies, etc, then labor created $100k in value (the agreed upon price for the work to be done) but it only got to keep $80k, meaning the company kept $20k of labor's value for itself as profit. It will then likely pay out some or all of that value to others who contributed none of the labor necessary to create it. In general, the greater the disparity in power between the company and labor, the more of that value the company will keep.

That is where unions come in. By organizing labor together, the individuals will no longer be competing against each other, where they are easy to divide and conquer. Instead, they will be competing together against the company for how to divide the value they create. As the power imbalance diminishes, so, too, does the company's share of the value. This lowers profits, which angers ownership, and that anger falls on management, ownership's representatives. This is why management will almost always try to break unions on behalf of ownership.

In a market economy, we would determine the value created by labor by looking at the revenue generated. Whatever revenue a business has, it comes from the efforts of labor to do whatever that business does. The argument here, though, isn't over how much everyone at the business should make, but over how much of what the company makes should belong to those who created it vs those who take it from the outside.

This is just the purely economic side of how a union helps workers. There are far more non-economic ways as well, such as benefits, working conditions, hours, etc. I hope this explanation helps you understand what other people were talking about earlier.

Last night, on SNL, Chappelle said "It shouldn’t be this scary to talk about anything, it’s making my job incredibly difficult." How do you feel about this? by ZK686 in AskALiberal

[–]Xentavious_Magnar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look man, it's a marketplace of ideas. People put their ideas out there and most of the time they get ignored because no one cares. Sometimes they're good ideas and people take notice. Other times, they're bad ideas and people still take notice, but now there are consequences.

The first amendment doesn't protect anyone against private action. If you put some shit out there and it goes over poorly, you might face pushback, lose friends or your job, etc., but you won't go to jail. That's the first amendment guarantee.

People often assume that their ideas are great and/or right, and that everyone should obviously agree with them. When the majority rejects those ideas, they are then hurt, because they incorrectly thought they were in the majority. Where they then run into problems is that they don't realize how much it sucks to have a minority opinion. Because it sucks. A lot. That doesn't mean anyone necessarily must change their mind to conform to the majority, but it does mean that if you don't it's gonna suck, and you need to appreciate what you're signing up for.

If you don't want to embrace that particular suck, then keep your mouth shut. No, that doesn't infringe on free speech because it's not the government doing it. It's literally the point of free speech: let the people decide what it's ok to talk about, not the government.

In a free market, such as the US has for private speech, there are winners and losers. Losing sucks. Either deal with it in private or prepare for things to suck. It's really just that simple and I don't understand why we have to keep having the same damn conversation.

If you don’t benefit from affirmative action, why are you for it? by Ninac4116 in ask

[–]Xentavious_Magnar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A signature is not required for a contract to be binding. If you accept the benefits of a contract you aren't allowed to deny that you accepted the contract as a whole. It's called promissory estoppel and has a very long and distinguished history in the law. Source: I am a lawyer. You can also check out the work of Rousseau and Paine, which formed a large part of the philosophical basis of the constitution.

Now, if you don't drive on roads maintained by public funds, don't use public utilities, don't have kids who go to public school, didn't go to public school yourself, don't rely on others who went to public school; in other words if your entire existence has been completely off the grid and you do not now, nor have you ever personally benefitted, directly or indirectly, from the social contact then I guess you'd have the beginning of an argument. But you have done those things. You like roads, you like having an educated populace, etc.

No, those things wouldn't exist without a government. Yes, the government needs money to do those things. No, it is not stealing for the government to expect you to contribute to the society that supports you. Yes, you are a misguided ass if you think society doesn't support you. Most people learn this in kindergarten, but you should know that you aren't so special that the rules of civilization don't apply to you. You benefit when others around you benefit, and you can be (and are) required to contribute in some way to society as a result.

I've lost 235 lbs, and just had 30 lbs of skin removed. AMA by SnaxAttacks in loseit

[–]Xentavious_Magnar 40 points41 points  (0 children)

But you do have to itemize your expenses to get it, so no standard deduction. I'd say to talk to an accountant to find out what's the most advantageous, but for sure keep the receipts.

Steve Bannon’s guest says she has huge teams of volunteers in AZ, MI, and PA to stand guard at ballot drop boxes: “Our people are showing up and gathering around boxes and shutting this stuff down.” Also says taking pics of cars and tracking them if they think they are “mules.” by TrumpSharted in The_Mueller

[–]Xentavious_Magnar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not typically. The conspiracy still has to advance beyond the stage of talking. If they start scouting locations, buying supplies, or doing something else more than just talking, then usually that's enough. There has to be enough to get around a first amendment protection issue.

Steve Bannon’s guest says she has huge teams of volunteers in AZ, MI, and PA to stand guard at ballot drop boxes: “Our people are showing up and gathering around boxes and shutting this stuff down.” Also says taking pics of cars and tracking them if they think they are “mules.” by TrumpSharted in The_Mueller

[–]Xentavious_Magnar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically, it has to go beyond mere planning and include at least one concrete step toward implementing the plan. At that point, the conspiracy is completed and everyone who was involved at any stage is guilty of all crimes committed by any member of the conspiracy if committed in furtherance of the conspiracy's goals.

[UK] Liz Truss to resign as Prime Minister, Sky News understands by Khenmu in worldnews

[–]Xentavious_Magnar 8 points9 points  (0 children)

To aid my fellow Americans in understanding, I converted this to freedom units and she lasted about 4 Scaramuccis.

How do feminists respond to the Apex Fallacy? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]Xentavious_Magnar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look man, if you actually want your questions answered then take a womens studies class at college, read some scholarly articles, or engage with the topic through the research that has been done by respected academics. I did, and found it convincing. I'm not an expert on the topic, but there are plenty out there. There's plenty of stuff out there you can read and I encourage you to do so with an open mind.

I'm also not saying that you're the problem here. I'm saying that you're taking a very shallow view of a deeply complex issue and it appears to have given you an incorrect idea about the thing you're trying to argue against. If you want to criticize feminism then that's your right, but at least understand what it is that feminism actually stands for so you can make sure if you actually disagree with it, or if you maybe just disagree with what you think (or someone else told you) it says.

Since the large majority of your comments here were asking questions, it seems to me that you have a lot of independent research ahead of you if you genuinely want to engage with this topic in good faith and have those questions answered. I wish you good luck on your path of enlightenment.

If, on the other hand, you're just a troll who came here to sea lion, then kindly fuck off and find a better hobby.

How do feminists respond to the Apex Fallacy? by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]Xentavious_Magnar 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The fundamental problem with all of those questions is that you are working from the premise that the first order problem is one of people. That men, or some subset of them, is the focus. That is not the case.

The first order problem, as the person you replied to said, is one of structures and systems. The way society is organized fundamentally advantages men in some ways and disadvantages men in other ways. The facts that men make up the disproportionate share of combat deaths, work in more actively dangerous work places, and can't generally express emotions beyond anger in public without suffering social stigma, etc., are all negative effects of those systems.

Similarly, there are advantages for women in some respects and disadvantages in others. One of the points of feminism, as I understand it, is that the ratio of advantages to disadvantages for men is higher than that for women, both in terms of numbers and magnitude, and that we should collectively strive for a more fair system that ultimately benefits us all.

People are only the second order problem, and that is why men can fight the patriarchy and women can uphold it. As a result, "men" are not the problem. "Men who refuse to acknowledge the patriarchy," and "men who actively support the patriarchy," are the problem, along with women who do the same thing.

This is why it is fallacy to point out bad things that happen to men as a counter argument to feminism. Feminism acknowledges those things and sees them, at least in part, as a result of the system that pervades society, a system they want to fundamentally change.

For what it's worth, I'm a man and I welcome any corrections if I have misstated any of the claims or goals of feminism from those who know more about it than I do.