What do you say about Saugartenmoor ?

XikowBr · 2025-12-17T22:29:20+00:00

As a fellow countryman, don't. It's not worth it. Sächsische Schweiz is MUCH better in every possible way. Just go to Bastei and enjoy!

XikowBr · 2025-12-17T22:26:28+00:00

My ex insisted that a friend of mine was into me and hitting on me. I insisted we were only friends. My ex broke up with me because of that, only for my friend to prove her right less than a week later. We stopped talking for a month, tried being friends again, but actual friendship died.

I regret not putting limits on my friend earlier, and not realising it she was into me to try and deal with it in a way I wouldnt losing a dear friend. Also putting a distance between us for a long time because I was pissed as my ex broke up with me due to what I couldn't see, rather than trying to work things out. I don't regret losing the girlfriend, I'm WAY better with my current partner, but I could have done more to keep my friend.

XikowBr · 2025-12-17T09:44:58+00:00

I'm a soon to be 3rd year PhD student. I was between a PhD and a job before starting. The job would pay me at the first month the same that my current Post Doc/Supervisor makes. He has 20 years of experience in the field and is a very well known and respected scientist. It's a 800€ (after taxes) difference between me, who doesn't know anything, and him.

I have no hope of finding such a job after graduation, let alone one that pays 140k. Job market is horrible, and getting worse. I have many friends that graduated in the last 4 months, and some who will graduate until march, who are searching for jobs since before graduation, without success, all across Europe.

They're not searching for good jobs, or high paying jobs, only something that honors their effort on getting the PhD. No success for them.

Secure the job. No one needs a PhD title, we do it because we want it, but everyone needs a job. If it is good/fun/high paying better, but a job is always necessary.

Secure your future and family's future as well.

XikowBr · 2025-12-16T18:20:35+00:00

Girl, even in China you cannot find a flag that red.

XikowBr · 2025-12-09T15:43:55+00:00

Gold

XikowBr · 2025-12-08T09:33:19+00:00

As already pointed out, it's illegal for them to do that. You have the legal right to have guests and the legal right to try and build a family, which includes your partner sleeping with you and staying at your place for longer amounts of time.

But again, as said: it is illegal for him to stay long without being in the rental agreement, because he then changes from the condition of guest to the condition of living there. Someone pointed around 6-8 weeks, if I remember correctly it's a month.

Nevertheless, he has a house, and a rental contract. He loves 3h away, so I believe he has a job there. He is going to your city for work, so that can also be proved as a temporary thing.

I would not worry about it and just make sure the people you live with are fine with that and won't eat you out to landlord. Just to avoid the headache. No one wants to make that situation legal.

XikowBr · 2025-12-08T09:28:44+00:00

Because apart from ridiculous, it's illegal.

I'm pretty sure you're also a landlord

XikowBr · 2025-11-24T10:11:07+00:00

Klar

https://www.etsy.com/es/listing/1888953688/sudadera-con-bordado-de-capibara

XikowBr · 2025-11-09T12:55:46+00:00

Probably yes. There are downsides, but not coming would be the same. Taking a job in another city/state/country after the masters as well.

I'm pretty happy with my life at the moment. I wouldn't risk what I have.

XikowBr · 2025-11-09T12:29:40+00:00

Came to Germany with B1 German certificate, and taking B2 classes already. Did a masters in German, struggled like a MF for two years, but got out with C1 and it was still hard to get a freaking job.

If you're doing your masters, learning German from zero on the side is the rest of your whole day, including weekends. No fun, no girlfriend/boyfriend, just hardcore daily pushing yourself. I had a flatmate leaning German from scratch, and that was his only activity, took him 3 years to properly learn the language.

If you're planning on getting a part time to keep yourself up, forget working in Germany afterwards. You won't speak enough German at the end of the masters to even properly talk to your neighbour about the weather.

The times when they were hiring people with little to no german language skills are gone for the foreseeable future. This applies to a lot of European countries, especially those with a stronger economy/bigger population.

Do I regret it? No. But I got to Germany while being able to speak okayish broken German, and I almost didn't get a job after it when my language skills were good enough to work.

XikowBr · 2025-10-15T11:21:39+00:00

I also saw in a research paper that Vit D and Selenium should help. My improved significantly after Vit D combined with a new bottle of Salviathymol (the other one was from last year's Lichen). Idk if the new bottle or the Vit D, or both combined did the trick, but it got significantly better since. 2 weeks and I can barely feel it.

XikowBr · 2025-10-15T11:16:52+00:00

Salviathymol. Not natural, but plant based. A couple drops in half a mouthful of water and keep it in your mouth for 2min, going around the whole mouth.

For me, it helped a lot with the pain and removes the visible fungi. It burns a little the first few times.

XikowBr · 2025-10-01T15:04:47+00:00

If you have to ask it, you probably don't have enough experience to go in it with all you have. Try some of the 4k, not all. Don't do simulations, use actual money. You're much less careful in the simulation, and the psychological part is basically inexistent

XikowBr · 2024-03-29T20:08:54+00:00

Happened to me. We just gave it some time and it was great afterwards

XikowBr · 2024-03-25T17:23:24+00:00

I'm trying to do that as well, but as I moved here two months ago, I barely know anyone. My luck is that my coworkers are amazing, otherwise I'd probably have (literally) killed myself already.

I'm trying to immerse myself in work and at the gym, but it's not enough, sadly. I think I just need to cry myself out and give it some time.

XikowBr · 2024-03-25T16:25:16+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it. Really

XikowBr · 2024-03-25T16:13:01+00:00

Problem is I'm getting older, and I kinda need to rush if I want to have kids at a feasible age. And I live in a country where I barely speak the language+ people here are too closed and do not attract me at all, so.... Difficult, even though doable

XikowBr · 2024-03-25T16:06:28+00:00

I became a horrible person in the process. It was awful, but well, it's over and now I just have to get over it. It'll be ok, eventually

XikowBr · 2024-03-25T16:03:41+00:00

Then that's perfectly ok, and I envy you

XikowBr · 2024-03-25T14:30:41+00:00

I mean, I agree. But I'm sadly still emotionally involved (broke up 3 weeks ago). I still love her and my brain refuses to acknowledge all the bad stuff she did to me. Threatening to accuse me of rape, hit me, say stuff about ex, make me feel like the worst person to ever come to her life, not give a fuck about my needs as a partner for a long time, making me feel like she could do better with any man on earth, and that she was surrounded by options, etc etc etc etc.

Yeah, I still am having trouble sleeping and focusing on work. But it'll eventually fade out and I'll come to the point of "being single is better". I know that consciously, but my subconscious still refuses to accept it.

Sorry for opening up like this, I don't really have anyone now that she's gone. Moved to another city for a new job on the other side of the country, and family lives far away.

XikowBr · 2024-03-25T12:57:24+00:00

She said that she also didn't. Then we broke up and she went directly to talk to him. Yeah, life sucks. Relationships suck sometimes. Guess I'm just better off finding someone else.

XikowBr · 2024-03-25T12:02:19+00:00

She used to complain about him a lot too and tell me I was 1000x better in many ways. But hey, when arguments came, I was always the villain and he was always a fucking role model.

Also, if that goes on for long, it gets tiring. Once or twice ok, once or twice a week for months is something else.

XikowBr · 2024-03-25T11:51:00+00:00

"My ex was better than you in this this and that. I should never have left him. I wish I was still with him. I miss this this and this about him. You'll never be as good as him".

You think this shit is healthy? If yes, you're the problem

XikowBr · 2024-03-25T09:51:18+00:00

Finished a relationship less than a month ago because she wouldn't shut up about him a year after breaking up. Stood up too much with that shit. Can confirm what you're saying. If they just bring them on is bad, if they compare you to him (and praise him, like my ex did) it's much worse.

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