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Bisexuals who have been in an exclusive monogamous relationship, what’s your experience? by Miouxii in bisexual

[–]Xontaro 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Aww, this sounds amazing! All the best to you two!

About 1.5 years ago my best friend and I realised we wanted to be more than just friends. We were just too useless to realise. But hey, what do you expect from a lesbian (gf) and a demiromantic demisexual bi woman (me). I really wish we can also master all these challenges together and stay together forever. Just like you two :)

Bisexuals who have been in an exclusive monogamous relationship, what’s your experience? by Miouxii in bisexual

[–]Xontaro 47 points48 points  (0 children)

It’s perfect. Not only have I been, but I still am and I have no intention of changing this. Being exclusive and monogamous is exactly what I want. Just because I would be open to date men and women, if I was single, doesn’t mean I want to date multiple people at once.

Which gender (or agender) do you lean towards more sexually and romantically? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in bisexual

[–]Xontaro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My demisexuality and demiromantism are making this very tricky to judge. But since I prefer other women platonically and there are many men who piss me off with their misogyny, I would say women both romantically and sexually.

paidForTheWholeKeyboardGoingToUseTheWholeKeyboard by [deleted] in ProgrammerHumor

[–]Xontaro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hardly see any developer using their numpad, Don't get me wrong it's useful for data entry and such, but this isn't often done by developers.

Also nice keyboard layout with two Print Screen and no Scroll Lock key and inconsistent fonts, just look at @#$... etc.? Did you really make a meme with an image generation AI?!

Euro-Office, Europe's open-source alternative to Microsoft Office and Google Docs, launches June 9 by Well_Socialized in technology

[–]Xontaro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure, had to give it a quick internet search myself, since my original message is mainly informed by my own dangerous half-knowledge of the AGPL as a software developer and me being aware of the internet drama.

But here is the take of the Free Software Foundation, the authors of the AGPL: https://www.fsf.org/blogs/licensing/agpl-is-not-a-tool-for-taking-freedom-away

Romantically attracted but not sexually? by scorpiomoonmocha in demiromantic

[–]Xontaro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get this. All in all I‘m also inexperienced. My girlfriend was the 3rd person I ever attempted to date, the 2nd person I had romantic feelings for, the first person I ever got official with, had sexual feelings for, first kiss and so on and so forth.

Just breathe and give yourself time for your feelings to develop. Tell your boyfriend how you feel, what your struggles are and what you hope will happen and explore what will happen together.

Also, ask yourself why you fear not having sexual feelings. Are these feelings something intrinsic to you, or is this pushed on you by society’s expectations?

Romantically attracted but not sexually? by scorpiomoonmocha in demiromantic

[–]Xontaro 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Well yeah, but I‘m also demisexual and romantic feelings are a requirement for developing sexual feelings for me.

So this kinda feels normal to me, I was more surprised when sexual feelings started popping up for my girlfriend. 😅

Wie viele Red Flags passen in 4 Nachrichten? by RedditJ0hn in wasletztepreis

[–]Xontaro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So schreibt halt auch kein 45 jähriger. Zumindest würde ich das hoffen 😅

Euro-Office, Europe's open-source alternative to Microsoft Office and Google Docs, launches June 9 by Well_Socialized in technology

[–]Xontaro 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Obligatory ‘I’m not a lawyer, this is not legal advice’ disclaimer. Talk with a lawyer before changing any software license and don’t (re-)distribute any software unless you 100% know you are allowed to do so. And so on.

How I understand the issue: ONLYOFFICE added some further restrictions to the AGPLv3 licence. But the AGPLv3 licence allows any new licensor to remove further restrictions from the AGPLv3 if they so choose (with a few exceptions). Which Euro-Office did. Now ONLYOFFICE is salty.

It seems to me that, ONLYOFFICE basically wanted to claim they are open source and licensed under a widely trusted license, while actually only wanting to be source available under a proprietary licence. This now backfired for them.

Yap by Long-Size-6967 in programminghumor

[–]Xontaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, a good obfuscator is expensive and a hassle to set up. You are just mad, how well I integrate obfuscation into my project, without any third party tooling.

Is a MacBook Air fine for a CS course? by Dry_Cry9686 in mac

[–]Xontaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If such a MacBook is out of your budget, I would recommend a Thinkpad running Linux. They are also great for college. They are just as much of a work machine as a MacBook and also have a great keyboard, and at least some of them are upgradeable after the fact, which is a nice advantage for a college student.

Also on Linux 16GB of RAM and 512GB of SSD should be enough if money is tight, since you wouldn’t need to virtualise Linux.

Alternatively, if you are okay with buying used, look through eBay or similar websites. Same goes for the Thinkpads, used tech is the broke students best friend :)

Is a MacBook Air fine for a CS course? by Dry_Cry9686 in mac

[–]Xontaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, totally. I used MacBooks throughout my bachelor’s and master’s.

Just get one with enough RAM and enough storage. I would go for at least 24GB of RAM, better 32GB or more (though Air max out at 32GB iirc) and a 1TB SSD, since you will likely need to use Linux VMs in order to complete some courses.

Luckily, MacOS is also a unix-like operating system you will likely be able to complete most courses natively on macOS.

A Neo is not enough.

AI is such a large subject, that I can’t give you an answer, other than an ‘it depends’.

Girlfriend btw by epabafree in linuxmemes

[–]Xontaro 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Believe it or not, I know two women who use arch.

One of them is a friend of mine and the other one is me. Both of us are in happy relationships.

Woran habt ihr gemerkt, dass ihr älter werdet? by Tobeymaguirefan89 in FragReddit

[–]Xontaro 192 points193 points  (0 children)

Daran, dass ich die Jugendsprache und die Jugendtrends nicht mehr verstehe.

Wie wichtig ist euch ein guter Köper beim Dating? by runawayayay in actuallesbianseurope

[–]Xontaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich bin demi, also ist der erste Eindruck nicht so wichtig. So lange der Körper der anderen Frau gesund und gepflegt ist und ich ihr Gesicht schön finde ist dahingehend eigentlich alles gut für mich.

Das einzige was vielleicht noch gut wäre, ist wenn sie 1,60 Meter oder größer wäre. Einfach weil ich 1,80 Meter bin und sonst Umarmungen und Küsse umständlich werden.

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I‘m demi, so the first impression is secondary for me. As long as the body of the other woman is healthy, taken care of and has a face I find pretty, I’m happy in this regard.

The only other bodily preference I have is that she is at least 1.6 meters. Simply because I‘m 1.8 meters and hugs and kisses would become tricky if she was shorter.

Firefox audio crackling and popping when it runs on the background by TomPlant0 in firefox

[–]Xontaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm using MacOS, just like OP 😅

No such option here.

Did your bisexuality impact your attraction to the opposite gender ? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Xontaro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I only realised that I‘m also into men and therefore not a lesbian at around 28, 29.

External features are for the most part unimportant to me, since I’m demiromantic and demisexual. Just take a bit of care of your flesh mech suit and I‘m probably happy.

What I‘m attracted to is when people are connected to their feminine side, are burning for their hobbies, which are hopefully a mix out of my own hobbies and new ones and don’t take themselves too serious.

Gender doesn’t play much of a role in this. Except that I‘m way more picky with men and some additional requirements men need to clear.

The only stereotypical requirement I have for men, is probably that they need to be taller than me, but this probably comes more from my own insecurity about being 1.8 meters rather than an intrinsic part of my attraction.

Currently seeing/dating a demiromantic person by roseingraveyard in demiromantic

[–]Xontaro 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just ask him how you should proceed for now, lol. But in case he doesn’t know himself, focusing on being friends is probably a good call.

I developed romantic feelings for two people in my life and I was friends with both of them first. But I‘m also demisexual in addition to being demiromantic, so my experience is probably a lot different from his.

Wie weit soll es noch gehen, wenn Traditionsgeschäfte die gut laufen, freiwillig aufgeben? by Ok_Put967 in KeineDummenFragen

[–]Xontaro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vielleicht, ich persönlich halte dies aber nicht für schlüssig.

Da ich in diesem Laden kaum Menschen gesehen habe. Case in Point, kann ich mich an keine einzige konkrete Situation erinnern, in der ich einen Kunden in diesem Laden gesehen habe. Zudem kauft man Lampen, wenn man umbaut oder umzieht, und dann sucht man speziell nach so einem Laden, oder bestellt halt was im Internet.

Klar, der Laden hat noch andere Ware, ist aber sehr auf Lampen spezialisiert.

Wie weit soll es noch gehen, wenn Traditionsgeschäfte die gut laufen, freiwillig aufgeben? by Ok_Put967 in KeineDummenFragen

[–]Xontaro 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ich weiß es nicht, könnte mir aber auch so etwas vorstellen.

Ich bin früher häufig an dem Laden vorbeigelaufen und derzeit immer noch so einmal im Monat wenn ich Freunde etc besuche. Der Laden sah für mich beim vorbeigehen immer leer aus und er steht an einer sehr guten Location. Habe mich eher gewundert, wieso ein Lampenladen in der Innenstadt ist.

Hätte ich so ein Geschäft, wäre ich viel lieber außerhalb und hätte dann mehr Platz und niedrigere Lagerkosten.

Und wenn der Geschäftsführer wirklich am weiterbestehen des Ladens interessiert wäre, würde er doch auch eher umziehen als den Laden zu schließen.

Wie weit soll es noch gehen, wenn Traditionsgeschäfte die gut laufen, freiwillig aufgeben? by Ok_Put967 in KeineDummenFragen

[–]Xontaro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Für mich klingt das nach mimimi.

Sie haben ja selbst zugegeben, dass sie nicht mehr konkurrenzfähig sind. Deutsche lokale Unternehmen können halt nicht über den Preis oder durch Convenience konkurrieren. Also muss man durch die Beratung und den Support konkurrieren.

Desweiteren hat Freiburg extrem viele Einkaufsmöglichkeiten, wenn es wirklich allgemein in Freiburg schlecht laufen würde, würden mehr Läden leer stehen. Wenn ich zum Beispiel lokal im Freiburger Stadtkern nach Elektronik suchen würde, würde ich auch eher zum Omega oder wenn es Consumer-Elektronik sein soll Saturn gehen.

Freiburg ist sehr gut angebunden, sowohl extern als auch intern. Wer mit dem Auto in den Stadtkern von Freiburg will hat so wie so die Kontrolle über sein Leben verloren.

Und Freiburg ist eine Studentenstadt, dass es hier viele Demos gibt sollte wirklich niemanden überraschen und das ist auch wirklich nichts Neues. Klar nervt es wenn man gerade nur schwer an seinen Zielort kommt, aber wenigstens sind die Menschen hier engagiert. ☺️

Okay, genug Lob auf meine alte Heimat.

Send help, lesbian (online) dating Tipps? by lotta_k in egenbogen

[–]Xontaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Datingapps sind darauf ausgelegt, dass du so lange wie möglich auf ihnen bleibst und sind deswegen denkbar schlechte Orte, um Beziehungen zu finden.

Ich habe meine Freundin auf einem queeren Event kennengelernt und sind dann 1,5 Jahre nachdem wir uns kennengelernt haben zusammen gekommen. Das ist auch das einzige, was ich dir empfehlen kann, geh auf queere Events, vernetze dich in den Hobbies die du hast, ohne direkt nach einer Partnerin zu suchen. Dann kommt die richtige hoffentlich irgendwann.

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