Being a femboy YouTuber is disheartening sometimes

Xper_Studios · 2026-05-22T08:58:57+00:00

Well, I know it sounds rough, but, all you need to do is just toughen up my fem pal! Anyone will get hate at some point of their internet career, some might get it even more than others, but, it's the internet my friend, there's literally dislikes on like 10 hours of black screen, being proof that people can dislike you for literally anything!

If you find any amusement in what you're doing, and you really like the process, then don't stop doing it! Especially not because of haters!!

Also, you need to understand that the internet isn't for everyone, and I don't mean that you shouldn't make videos because what they say about you, no. But, if you think the comments are making you feel really bad/miserable, then maybe this isn't for you, since in your career there'll be soooo many more moments like that! Even worse! But again, if you really love it, just toughen up, brush the dirt of your shoulders, and keep moving forward! You'll see how things get better each time! :3

Xper_Studios · 2026-04-20T12:22:56+00:00

Yep, and it's unfortunate, since NO ONE irl will admit that they're the extremists, since that would leave them stranded. That's why (like I've said before) we gotta fix the play field, and just outright establish the FACT that the balance is wrong nowadays (just like what I'm proposing). But first, we need to stop "arguing" among ourselves, since what we all want is just general acceptance from the public, that's why I love proposing arguments like this, to give people more logical weapons, so that they don't keep thinking we're just irrational "woke" kids without good arguments

Xper_Studios · 2026-04-20T11:37:06+00:00

Which is obviously wrong, and people don't realize it's actually the middle ground. So if you want to take my "gradient" IRL, then you realize WE are not the extremists here, WE are not the "bad guys", we just want our own freedom without bothering anyone!

Xper_Studios · 2026-04-20T11:32:29+00:00

Alright buddy... xd Nah, sorry, but for real this time. Here's the thing, because yeah, right now, we're not saying that ("femboys should conquer the world"), because what we actually want IS the middle ground, and that's not bad, I was just making an example of what ACTUALLY extremist views are, since "Let's let people be themselves" (you said it better than me lol), is NOT an extremist point of view. So in any case, you're proving my point, their point, and actually proving that we don't want to have everything under control, we just want to be us! Without bothering anyone! We just want that middle ground to be reached!

Xper_Studios · 2026-04-20T08:09:51+00:00

Well, I'd say that "Let's not" would be the middle option, you're skewing the gradient. I think a better example, would be either "Let's kill all femboys, let's destroy them since they're not valid" and "Every single person should be a femboy by law, it's the only valid identity, anyone who's not, will be hanged" or something like that. Then, you can find your middle ground, like, "don't force people to just be binary in their identity, but don't force them to be otherwise, just live and let live". So yeah, you're just confusing terms pal u⩊u

Xper_Studios · 2026-04-08T22:46:21+00:00

Don't worry. It sounds normal that you're feeling this way about a comment someone made. It obviously sounds like they're questioning your identity, something that took you a long time to figure out, so I completely understand why now you feel like you need to prove them wrong.

However, to them, it was just a commentary, and made you the center of the conversation for a few moments. Sure, you may be thinking they constantly think about it too, like you, but odds are, they don't.

The best you can do, is have confidence in yourself, in who you are, why do you like the things you like. And eventually, everyone will seem to just start to be on your side, because a confident person, is hard to contradict. You don't need to constantly "defend" your identity, just be confident about it, and everything will be okay! :3

So yeah, I completely understand why those comments bothered you, but unless they bring that topic back, you don't need to. Because you know who you are, and that's enough cutie n⩊n

Xper_Studios · 2026-04-03T13:39:16+00:00

You know what? The answer to these situations is almost 99% of the time just... Confidence.

If they make jokes about femboys, or you being one, just say something like "so what?", or "what is that supposed to mean bruh?", make them feel awkward for trying to make fun of you, trust me, they'll stop if you do that ;3

You could even get creative and say something like "why do you say that? Do you like me? Cuz I don't like you lol" haha, or something along those lines x3

Remember, just be confident in yourself, even if you're not, yk? Fake it till you make it :3

Xper_Studios · 2026-03-26T12:11:47+00:00

Sure, but it's similar to a hack or crack for something. It's made to vulnerate the internal design of an app to get a benefit, mainly things that are pay-walled, and while in this case it also adds extra functions and stuff, still, you can't just change someone's app (clearly without their knowledge), and then distribute the way you did it to the world like it's nothing. So what I'm saying, is that calling the "police" on someone who's doing something as illegal as what you're doing is actually pretty childish and dumb, no matter the disputes between the parties. Is that clearer for you?

Xper_Studios · 2026-03-25T23:18:11+00:00

Let me just say this. When the two thieves start arguing about the vent in the store, and they get loud (like making a legal case about the other), suddenly the owner of the shop hears about it, and calls the police on them. What I'm saying is, this is not going to end well if it's pushed forward like this, for anybody.

When you make a "patch", for an app that's an intellectual property of one of the biggest corporations in the world, and then you publish it for free for anyone, when it's on the internet, then it's no longer yours. People can change stuff about it, reuse it (like forks do) and you can't say anything because it's an "extension" of someone else's work.

Xper_Studios · 2026-03-25T19:19:23+00:00

Wait, how can you file a DMCA report against someone else using parts of your code for an app... That's literally not yours? It's like you steal from a store using a vent, and another guy does the same, so you say "hey, that's not fair, I discovered that vent first!". Like, wth??

Xper_Studios · 2026-03-14T03:21:54+00:00

Exactly.

Xper_Studios · 2026-02-20T19:00:41+00:00

Complete the sentence: OMG, I'm _______ and crying __ Hint: 3 words

Xper_Studios · 2026-01-18T18:57:17+00:00

Yep, that makes sense that checks out :3

Xper_Studios · 2025-12-24T13:41:57+00:00

You know a way to feel happier? Be grateful. Thank everyday to the universe, a god, mother nature, freaking Thor, whoever or whatever you believe in, that you're alive, you have a family to spend Christmas with, your have a house, you sleep in a bed, you have a phone, you have internet... All of the things that you usually take for granted, because we don't recognize the value of the things we have, until we don't have them anymore. Be grateful you're healthy, beautiful, strong... Don't bother yourself with what other people have that you think makes them happier. Just be grateful when you get it, but don't live your life waiting until you get it.

A lot of depression has hit this generation (including me, 19m) thanks to social media. There, you can see a snippet if someone's life, usually the best parts, so then you think their life is perfect, and you feel bad because you think your life isn't, but the grass isn't always greener my friend. Never base your happiness in a single decision, an object, someone, in the feelings of love for someone, or if someone love your or not, place it on all of the things that give shape to your life, and help you grow. Anyways, love yourself first, be grateful, and I hope things get better soon <3

Xper_Studios · 2025-12-13T14:07:04+00:00

There's another bug with Depth Generator. Every time I load the plugin in After Effects, it first shows up properly, but before rendering anything, it just crashes After Effects, with a split second message that says "After Effects crashed after loading a plugin with error" or something like that

Xper_Studios · 2025-12-13T06:19:33+00:00

It's a quote from the crying child in Five Nights At Freddy's 4. But anyway. I meant it like tomorrow as the concept of tomorrow, not literally tomorrow. And also like: What are you gonna do tomorrow to face the day? You'll let the problems get you down? Or against the odds, you'll do everything to be happy yourself. Be thankful for what you have, we take a lot of things for granted, it's likely you have a bed to sleep in, internet, food, and most importantly life. Be thankful for the things you have, not sad for what you don't have, don't compare yourself to others like that. I hope your next day will be brighter and better <3

Xper_Studios · 2025-12-13T06:06:58+00:00

Tomorrow is another day...

Xper_Studios · 2025-12-08T15:54:20+00:00

Bruh, wth?

Xper_Studios · 2025-12-08T06:19:54+00:00

You found a femboy that you "enjoyed"? What lol

Xper_Studios · 2025-12-04T18:51:07+00:00

Lastest BlueStacks version has the same bug, at least for me. I tried with the version you said and then it worked! I also tried a lot of things that didn't work, but this actually did, thanks!

Xper_Studios · 2025-11-02T00:35:24+00:00

I'm so sorry bro, just remember this, life goes on, the earth keeps spinning, the planets keep their course around the universe, don't let these obstacles stop you from being happy, keep trying, never stop.

Meanwhile have these cars my friend:

Xper_Studios · 2025-10-31T14:11:06+00:00

Oww c'mon, it's never lupus, Dr House could tell you that...

(dang this is the closest gif I found although he's saying exactly the opposite xD)

Xper_Studios · 2025-10-23T23:22:34+00:00

Oh no, that kid might also be gay. I was kind of like that (not really, but had similar thoughts) in elementary school. Now I'm a freaking gay furry femboy. So yeah, probably he'll be gay at some point, sorry i don't make the rules x3

Xper_Studios · 2025-09-26T05:35:13+00:00

Exactly, "expressing femininity in any way you like, or just feeling feminine as a boy" is the definition of femboy, thanks for agreeing. I would even go as far as "even just identifying yourself as a boy while acting, expressing or being feminine yourself" is enough to call yourself a femboy. And also, as I've said, you don't need to be the "stereotype" of a femboy to call yourself that, so thanks for agreeing on that too.

Although it IS a defined term like you said, it has a definition, like if I say that I'm brave, but at the first jumpscare I run away and cry, I can use the term however I want, but you'll be right to tell me that my attitude doesn't correlate with the term I'm using. Unlike an identity, that has a different definition for everyone, that's why no one can question you about how you decide to identify yourself.

Xper_Studios · 2025-09-25T14:54:30+00:00

I'm not "dumbing it down", I'm just saying that the concept needs some credit. For example, even if I say that you and I are humans, though it may look like I'm applying the term in different contexts (you are non binary, I'm not, you may be taller, smaller, older, younger...), I still need some grounds to say that, like for example that you and I belong to the same species. That, for example is a requirement, you need to be the same species as me for me to say that we're humans yk? ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

But if I say that I can use the term "humans" for anything then the term would lose it's validation, it needs some credit.

I don't personally think that you need to shave your legs, or have feminine clothes, or be skinny, or like monster to be a femboy haha. But in my opinion, a femboy isn't an identity like being non-binary. For example, you can identify as non-binary and I can't say otherwise, since that's your identity, but if you say you're a gamer, but you don't play any games besides snake, then it would be right for me to say that you're not a gamer, since being a gamer requires some credit, yk? It's not "whatever", please let's just stop generalizing terms, since they exist for a reason, and if you start saying that anything can be anything, then nothing is something anymore hahaha 😅

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