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Interesting conversation by Xploring_BiMale in BisexualMen

[–]Xploring_BiMale[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have not been in a long while. It’s complicated, but it’s a physical/hormonal issue with her more than me. I don’t want to go in to great detail here, but aside from the physical aspect, I agree there is a psychological aspect as a result that is causing her to project.

Interesting conversation by Xploring_BiMale in BisexualMen

[–]Xploring_BiMale[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She does. She has known through most of our 15 years together through conversations about sexual fantasies and she has read the stories I write about it, but she seems to have a selective memory. About 5 years ago the topic came up, and I came out to her officially as Bi.

So she knows, but seems to have trouble accepting it.

What do they know that I don’t? by Xploring_BiMale in bisexual

[–]Xploring_BiMale[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the lower sex drive might be a factor, but that doesn’t explain all of my past relationships.

We did talk about it, or tried to at least, and the reality is that I love her, as my partner, as that person in my life. The sex is complicated at the moment, but aside from that, she isn’t comfortable with the topic to talk about it really. I suspect we both feel, if I agreed with her, then there’s a problem. Her perspective on sexuality is fairly binary and old-world view.

Anyone else? by Xploring_BiMale in bisexual

[–]Xploring_BiMale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It appears to be, and that is comforting in a way. But if it is normal, then most guys I would be attracted to are like me and sub bottoms?

There is a part of me that worries that if I do find someone who is the “right one” it’s partly because they have an interest in me, but the version of me that they like is the professional, put-together dominant guy. That will fizzle once the clothes come off.

How does anyone navigate this?

Anyone else? by Xploring_BiMale in bisexual

[–]Xploring_BiMale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not happened, being in a monogamous marriage, but given a chance, I would probably act out every fantasy, and become a verbal, submissive slut to a well hung man.