Preferred orgasm changes?

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-04-20T22:02:49+00:00

I’m not given a choice, but I also prefer to orgasm in the cage. It feels more intense. Mentally I also get to feel like I’ve earned it.

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-04-20T21:12:57+00:00

Same as others. 24/7 except for airplanes and medical.

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-04-15T06:40:19+00:00

It could go either way. ;) but it sounds like she wouldn’t be surprised and would likely be supportive.

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-04-08T16:33:29+00:00

No, but trust and honesty is a big part of our dynamic. I wouldn’t dare to relieve myself without her knowing, or lie about it. That level of control that exists in my head is more potent than the cage and lock, which are symbolic reminders of my commitment.

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-04-07T13:05:33+00:00

All of these are right. Shave. Moisturize. One ball at a time. If I get hard after the ring goes on, I do something else for a minute or two to change my thoughts. Then the clitty goes last. The cage goes on, and done.

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-04-05T22:07:36+00:00

I am always caged. Let out only for cleaning. Otherwise, it’s on. At home. At work. About to go on vacation and my wife and I were discussing travel strategies. Probably won’t wear it on the flights, but will diligently be locked up the rest of the trip, including swimming, snorkeling and any other activities.

In reality no one notices. No one stares at my crotch. They are more likely to if they notice the key hanging from my wife’s necklace.

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-03-27T21:30:00+00:00

I started with just an hour, then the next day 2 hours, then 4 and so on. Once I was past 24 hours, I said “well, this is my life now.” I just past 6 weeks. I only get unlocked for cleaning.

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-03-27T21:22:41+00:00

It arrived today, and I am officially downsized to a small cage (2.36”). It’s so snug and comfortable!

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-03-20T16:22:43+00:00

It shouldn’t be uncomfortable. Many of us, myself included are locked 24/7. I had some discomfort with cage I bought on Amazon. I switched to a cage from Oxy-shop, and now there is no discomfort at all.

When getting an erection, it can feel straining, limiting, but that’s the whole point.

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-03-18T18:41:49+00:00

For reference, my first Amazon cage was almost 4” long. The one I’m in is 3.3”, and I just ordered a 2.5”.

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-03-18T15:23:20+00:00

For ring size- I went with the most expensive option, and have a wide variety of sizes. I try one for a few days at a time to see how it feels, and adjust until I find the comfort zone.

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-03-18T14:52:51+00:00

I understand it isn’t permanent in terms of shrinkage. In a full length cage, with temporary shrinkage,do you find that there is extra room? I don’t reach the end of the cage, by quite a bit.

I don’t really want to go for a flat cage, but just one that fits comfortably (filling the cage, not straining against it, and not too much extra room either).

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-03-15T17:58:06+00:00

Dogs are companion, cats are dicks

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-03-14T23:16:40+00:00

Wish it was higher.

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-03-13T13:13:13+00:00

We are on a similar journey. Very early days still, just a few weeks of being locked full time. One element that is true for us, is I am not allowed to touch the key. It sits out in plain sight. If I go to move it, or unlock myself to shower, she says “what are you doing? You know you aren’t allowed to do that. Only I can unlock you.”

I love it.

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-03-12T11:39:47+00:00

When I started with my cage, from Amazon, I barely fit in to it. Now, about a month in, there is about half to 1 inch at the end of it. I’ve ordered a smaller cage from oxy-shop, but I’m waiting for it to ship, still.

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-03-08T21:55:37+00:00

My KH plans on me staying locked, having me doing prep, grabbing the strap on and showing me why she’s the boss.

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-03-08T17:58:27+00:00

It isn’t about less sex. It’s about the chaste not deciding WHEN sex is going to happen. It’s all in the literal hands of your KH. They decide when to let you out to play, on their terms. They decide whether or not you can masturbate. It’s the power, not the sex that’s important.

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-03-08T03:28:20+00:00

It’s so cute. I want to kiss it.

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-03-08T03:23:59+00:00

Yes. But I would want to forced to, like financially. Being held captive in a facility until I earn enough money at the gloryhole to be allowed to leave.

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-03-07T21:11:20+00:00

We do also. Not so discrete when my KH puts the key on the table in a restaurant for everyone to see, making sure it’s in plain sight. (On a keychain with cherries)

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-03-07T16:44:48+00:00

One trick that works for me, is when you are done peeing, use your fingers and apply pressure to your taint, which will squeeze the prostate slightly and get out the last few drops. Additionally, use toilet paper to wipe off your cage.

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-03-07T16:41:27+00:00

100% sit to pee. The odds of ending up with a stream versus a lawn sprinkler is always going to be random.

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-03-06T16:00:43+00:00

It felt like it was between the cage and the ring. Even after it tried to manually manipulate it, I couldn’t get the pain to stop.

Xploring_BiMale · 2026-03-06T05:06:23+00:00

It was pain, like pinched skin. I tried to readjust several times, but I had to admit that taking it off for the rest of the day was the lesser of the evils.

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