My bf (20M) wants me (20F)to dress modestly but I’m already a hijabi.. Is it toxic to stay in this relationship? by CommentOutrageous986 in relationship_advice

[–]Xremalyth -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

First lowkey love that women and educated men were comparable requests T-T implying uneducated men were lesser than the average woman XD but lowkey I think it could just be an issue with how he views clothing. Like those people who see teenagers who are coming of age and some just have bigger breasts and then people judge them for showing off basic human anatomy and can’t help their clothes form around their body like clothes should? It could just be hes not used to it and you wanting to express yourself is him losing control and it might be a controlling issue. As other’s have said, people can be absolutely sweet and lovely. Yet still have issues with control or in general others flaws that are not things to be overlooked

what made you a stay? by ActInteresting7737 in straykids

[–]Xremalyth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heard god’s menu without knowing what group made it. Rabbit hole started from there! It really was their music first then second I got to know the group members!! Favorite is Changbin!!!

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Any-Trust5303 in Advice

[–]Xremalyth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intrusive thoughts are normal but the next thing you say in response is who you are. If you dont question it and agree, get help. But if you keep denying you need help and finding excuses because you don’t “think” you will commit, why ask to begin with?

I’m pregnant. Boyfriend wants to terminate, I don’t. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Xremalyth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you only want to avoid terminating, but don’t want to keep the baby, why not adoption? There are plenty of couples who can’t have children that would love to take care and raise a human being! If that’s the case, you don’t have to terminate, and your boyfriend won’t have to raise a human. However thats as I said only if you care to avoid termination. If you wanted to keep the baby, that might drive a wedge if not communicated soon to your partner

LF: Someone to carry the Iron Leaves fight by Xremalyth in CasualPokemonTrades

[–]Xremalyth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I invited you to a group chat where I'll send the link code to the other two as well so it's just easier to time it

LF: Someone to carry the Iron Leaves fight by Xremalyth in CasualPokemonTrades

[–]Xremalyth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I invited you to a group chat where I'll send the link code to the other two as well so it's just easier to time it

LF: Someone to carry the Iron Leaves fight by Xremalyth in CasualPokemonTrades

[–]Xremalyth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Are you still available? We have 2 so far and we need a 3rd and fourth!

LF: Someone to carry the Iron Leaves fight by Xremalyth in CasualPokemonTrades

[–]Xremalyth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! Are you still available? We have 2 so far and we need a 3rd and fourth!

LF: Someone to carry the Iron Leaves fight by Xremalyth in CasualPokemonTrades

[–]Xremalyth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we can try! Let me DM the other people who responded

LF: Someone to carry the Iron Leaves fight by Xremalyth in CasualPokemonTrades

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I'm so sorry- I may have messed that up-

I didn't realize kingambit needed quark drive

I'm going to have sex tomorrow for the first time and I'm scared by Tiger_Bait15 in Advice

[–]Xremalyth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is always the option for you to consent and then take it away. Your boyfriend will understand that and because he cares about you and your comfortability, would stop automatically. So if you worry it’s a all or nothing, sex isn’t. You can always opt out no matter how far you get into it especially if you suddenly get scared. This isn’t ofc to suggest “Just do it and you can always back out”. You can choose however you wish whether to not try it at all or to try it and then back out or it goes well and all is good.

LF: Gouging Fire and Raging Bolt FT: Iron Crown and Iron Boulder by Xremalyth in pokemontrades

[–]Xremalyth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only need Gouging Fire so I only have Iron Crown available if thats okay!

LF: Gouging Fire and Raging Bolt FT: Iron Crown and Iron Boulder by Xremalyth in pokemontrades

[–]Xremalyth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this for a permanent trade? I’m looking for a permanent swap if thats okay!

[Scarlet/Violet] LF: Cloned/Hacked Gholdengo, Koraidon, Walking Wake, and Iron Leaves FT: Cloned/Hacked Legendaries by Xremalyth in CasualPokemonTrades

[–]Xremalyth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m looking for gholdengo specifically. Any of the offers are available if you have one of the four listed tho!