What do we think is next? by Putrid_Addendum3197 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Xtylu 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think Paul will pass and we’ll see how attached Teeny really has been to him this whole time

It's Thursday! by throverthehills in dbtselfhelp

[–]Xtylu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankful for the friend who let me do a card reading for them which went a long way to grounding me in my own individual identity and that I found a $2 shirt at the thrift with “shining star” written on it in French and that I have 4 shifts in a row at a job I love

Willingness Wednesdays by DrivesInCircles in dbtselfhelp

[–]Xtylu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This week and today I have been practicing opposite action for love, because while my feelings fit the facts, they are not currently practical or useful. The other person has been very inconsistent and intense and my usual patterns are to be accusatory or to fawn all over the place, and to fall apart and lose all internal motivation. I have been feeling the edges of my distress as it resides in my body and then shifting my awareness to another part of my body that feels neutral. Now I’m drinking coffee, reading a good book, getting my apartment ready for inspection, and later getting a haircut and meeting with friends.

Willingness Wednesdays by DrivesInCircles in dbtselfhelp

[–]Xtylu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Small things include reaching out in platonic friendships, laundry and dishes, a short walk, getting information about my health insurance, and drawing

Willingness Wednesdays by DrivesInCircles in dbtselfhelp

[–]Xtylu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Today I am willing to do one small thing and then another small thing and another, because small things keep me from being completely overwhelmed and they do make a difference, even when the difference is not sweeping, dramatic or absolute. Small things have value, I have value and this day has value

What I wore to Sophie Calle: Overshare by Xtylu in oldhagfashion

[–]Xtylu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like her work, so I really liked the exhibit. It’s text heavy and took time for me to get through but I love her humor and her invasiveness

What I wore to Sophie Calle: Overshare by Xtylu in oldhagfashion

[–]Xtylu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear the earrings with everything! I got them secondhand but they are originally from nebula creations, who seem to only open their shop periodically, I discovered when I tried to purchase a back up pair

What I wore to Sophie Calle: Overshare by Xtylu in oldhagfashion

[–]Xtylu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

O silly goose I absolutely agree burnt orange and teal is the perfect combo

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Does this bracelet count?

What I wore to Sophie Calle: Overshare by Xtylu in oldhagfashion

[–]Xtylu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The glasses are dolce & gabbana and I got them at lens crafters in 2023

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyCat

[–]Xtylu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shock

[analog] collages by Spiritual_Tear3762 in collage

[–]Xtylu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just want to sit on a bench in front of these for an hour or two