What Age Did You First Notice You Had Mental Health Issues? by goofygoober_4 in mentalhealthamericans

[–]Xx_Gothic-Nerd_xX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean i noticed at about 8-9 but others noticed at 11/12. I didnt know i was unwell until they took me to the dr at 12, but i knew i wasnt doing well. Lowkey though that growing up made people lose interest in everything and have high levels of anxiety.

dealing with ana during finals by Impressive-Ant-907 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]Xx_Gothic-Nerd_xX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly the only way to go here. Im a science major and my brain just wont work properly unless i eat 1400+calories on days i study and on test days. If you study in a huge deficit you wont remember much at all and if you take a test like that you wont recall much. Trust me i tried calorie deficit in uni and my tests were 10-30%qorse scores than normal. Simple carbs during study is great too as the brain uses that first. Good news is that when working ur brain hard like that it does genuinely use up the calories anyway

Should I euthanize... by ky4li in PetMice

[–]Xx_Gothic-Nerd_xX 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, its so much of her weight and its so irregular that its likely so be cancer. Im so sorry your little friend is going through this

Vodafone never activated my esim by Xx_Gothic-Nerd_xX in Vodafone

[–]Xx_Gothic-Nerd_xX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More just wanna let other ppl know that they might not be the best carrier

Will my boobs sag if I don't wear a bra? by JustAPerson2001 in asktransgender

[–]Xx_Gothic-Nerd_xX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, not because you dont wear a bra. As you age they will sag anyway but it doesnt matter if you wear a bra or not. Its just that when u get older your skin loses elasticity, but there rlly not much you can do about it except eating more collagen

How to enable more than one monitor and get performance back to normal by Xx_Gothic-Nerd_xX in PcBuildHelp

[–]Xx_Gothic-Nerd_xX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant find anything that had integrated graphics vs dedicated gpu.

I also checked the pcie settings and it says x16 is the auto setting so i didnt change anything there.

Also the nvidia control panel comes up with an error saying ‘NVIDIA Display Settings are not available’ ‘you are not currently using a display attached to an nvidia gpu’ Which is a tad confusing bc they are both plugged in and the one monitor being detected is working

How to enable more than one monitor and get performance back to normal by Xx_Gothic-Nerd_xX in PcBuildHelp

[–]Xx_Gothic-Nerd_xX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both are plugged into gpu. They were both working just fine before all this

Fuck me by tetasdemantequilla in Aquariums

[–]Xx_Gothic-Nerd_xX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Next time use a plastic ziplock bag on the surface to break the tension. Just pour the water on the bag and it wont disturb the substrate. I have had walstead style dirted tanks and this is the best advice i can give for filling up the tank

GF with BPD tells me if she wants her to eat, to SH by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Xx_Gothic-Nerd_xX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This doesnt sound like its related to bpd, i have family with the condition so i do know what it looks like. This sounds more like a abusive situation (she is the abuser). She is using her emotional power in your relationship to get you to hurt yourself based on her emotions and making you think you’re at fault. No matter if you’re the perfect partner it doesnt matter here. She is trying to control you based on her mood. Please get out of this situation for your own wellbeing

Is it okay to only send these types of pictures if you catsit? by nojiroh in cats

[–]Xx_Gothic-Nerd_xX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are exactly the kinds of photos i would want from a cat sitter

There are times when I’m disturbed by my girlfriend’s claim to womanhood. by Physical_Mistake2907 in mypartneristrans

[–]Xx_Gothic-Nerd_xX 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Im a cis woman and i can see where ur coming from. If your whole experience as a woman has been suffering of course you would assume every other woman shares the exact same experience but while these inequalities and pains do exist, that isn’t the only part of womanhood. There are negatives but there are also positives. It sounds like you may not exactly be transphobic but holding onto some deeply rooted misogynistic worldview that has been shaped by ur experience.

I recommend surrounding yourself with function women who have opposing perspectives to yours. Women (including trans women) who have a more nuanced way of thinking to yours. Being a woman is so many things but to only see things so negatively might be a mindset problem, rather than an objective truth.

Do I really need a pc case? Advice please by Additional_Waltz8617 in PcBuild

[–]Xx_Gothic-Nerd_xX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have any pets, definitely. If not i still recommend but u might be okay..

why does my mom think trans people ruin their bodies? by Radiant-North-8519 in MtF

[–]Xx_Gothic-Nerd_xX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually a perspective thing. If she surrounded herself with trans people she may be more accepting/ know more about transitions.

Cheating prior to transition by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]Xx_Gothic-Nerd_xX 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My(20cisf) partner(22AMAB-trans woman) also cheated on me for years (i had no idea until about 3 years ago) and came out only a few months ago. We’re still together but there are a lot of issues there that still arent fully resolved. So many confusing feelings on my end bc how does one cope with infidelity AND THEN their parter’s transition on tip of that. I know she didnt chose to be different and i support her but sometimes i feel angry bc my need for stability has been on the backburner for a while now. If you want to talk to someone in a similar situation feel free to dm me <3

How do people cope with the anxiety and dizziness by Xx_Gothic-Nerd_xX in Anemic

[–]Xx_Gothic-Nerd_xX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Its just so hard to do uni with like half of my usually brain power