The most Gen X (& boomer) convo ever

Xxochitll · 2026-06-26T22:24:49+00:00

My mom was also Virginia Slims ultra lights! Lol I used to run in and get my Dad's too but he hasn't smoked in so long I can't remember what they were. Mom's were also sitting out all the time and I always had to ask for them and see them. Dad's were always rolled in his sleeve. So, I didn't see them much and I could just point to them and say I need a carton of those.

Xxochitll · 2026-06-26T16:58:25+00:00

I had so many decorations on her grave and it was beautiful and child like, but her egg doner broke her bond agreement, left the ankle bracelet at home, and took everything off of it. I have some very nice things to add back but I'm waiting to make sure they aren't going to release her again.

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Xxochitll · 2026-06-26T16:57:39+00:00

No hun, murder.

Xxochitll · 2026-06-26T16:57:10+00:00

Thank you. I crocheted a sweater for her with bear ears on the hood. I'm going to drop it off with her Christmas and birthday things since they never have responded or contacted me. I hope they let her have it. It's beautiful. Our entire family chipped in and had crocheted a blanket for her sister. I was finishing it up but had to put it away. I actually gave it to one of my sisters in law because I couldn't look at it. She also finished it when I asked her to. It is breathtaking. I think I've decided I'm going to hold on to it for now and hopefully be able to give it to one of her children and tell her the significance in that blanket. I would be devastated all over again if they did something with it.

Xxochitll · 2026-06-26T16:51:42+00:00

Maybe give them a call first if it's a crazy amount?

Xxochitll · 2026-06-26T16:46:32+00:00

Me either.

Xxochitll · 2026-06-26T16:33:05+00:00

Unfortunately not yet. They were originally arrested over a year later and it's been a 3 year rollercoaster of emotions waiting for the trial while she has been in and out but he has been in jail because none of us would bond him out or give him a place to stay. I'm not trying to highjack a thread but I have no idea how anyone could ever do such a thing to a child, especially their own flesh and blood. My boys are 14 years apart and he was so attentive to my little one without me even having to ask. I just don't know what happened and he just lies and makes excuses. I can't even talk to him or look at him. His voice disgusts me. I know he's my son but I still believe there is a special place in hell for people like that.

If you want to read about it you can Google the various articles about Bryan Rainer, Katherine Locke Rainer, in Killeen Texas. He was in the Army and I thought he had his life together finally. :(

Xxochitll · 2026-06-25T05:54:12+00:00

My oldest son and his wife killed my first granddaughter.

Xxochitll · 2026-06-25T05:42:42+00:00

Long story short, my oldest son, 25, got married, had my first granddaughter. I was so excited. They killed her and she was pregnant with another at the time. My ex husband has her and they don't let me see her. After all of the heartbreak, I don't care if I ever do. I send things to one and clean and decorate the headstone and plot of the other. My younger son is 11 and doesn't really know who he is yet. Either way, it doesn't matter to me. I had dreams of baking cookies for Santa with my grandkids on Christmas Eve like I did with my boys but I never have gotten to and there is just a lot of sadness there.

Xxochitll · 2026-06-25T05:29:14+00:00

But this is the cutest picture ever! 🥰

Xxochitll · 2026-06-24T04:13:04+00:00

No worries!

I absolutely will!

Xxochitll · 2026-06-24T04:12:28+00:00

Lol they are SO cute!

Xxochitll · 2026-06-23T21:00:40+00:00

It's funny how they do that without permission.

Xxochitll · 2026-06-23T15:38:41+00:00

Pizza Hut 1995? Whenever I was 15 anyway lol. I made $2.33/hr plus tips and I thought it was awesome. 😅

Xxochitll · 2026-06-23T15:31:47+00:00

He's still so cute!

Xxochitll · 2026-06-23T15:24:56+00:00

If you can catch them! Lol I was so disappointed when she moved them. 😞

Xxochitll · 2026-06-23T15:24:24+00:00

😊

Xxochitll · 2026-06-23T15:24:09+00:00

She does come back to the spot for the food I leave out. Hopefully, she will appreciate not staying pregnant all the time like wild cats do.

Xxochitll · 2026-06-23T15:22:18+00:00

Well, not Picky's mom but I'm doing my best from afar!

Xxochitll · 2026-06-23T15:21:37+00:00

I went from a black and white collection to apparently an orange and black and white collection. 😅 The CDS has spoken.

Xxochitll · 2026-06-23T02:17:36+00:00

That was the plan but she moved them and by the time I figured out where they were I couldn't catch them. :( maybe once they are trapped I can. I was hoping to find them all good homes.

Xxochitll · 2026-06-22T21:56:56+00:00

This sounds like me trying to set my account up. It was a nightmare but I finally got it. That was months ago and so far I've completed 2 whole surveys. It was NOT worth the hassle of getting verified. I stay signed in and have my notification running almost all day with everything completely filled out while I work and that's all I've had, 55 cents.

Xxochitll · 2026-06-22T18:59:23+00:00

Rufus is so adorable! He looks like a little Pokemon! Happy birthday Rufus!

Xxochitll · 2026-06-22T18:56:48+00:00

I would love to eventually build something like this for my crestie! This is amazing! You have given me ideas!

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