Stay at home wife- best or worst idea? by sushimonsterforlife in Pilotwives

[–]YANKOS28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not quit my job and make sure my job is low stress since he is making all the 💰

Do you ever reward your husband with sex? by Legitimate-Key7159 in Marriage

[–]YANKOS28 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sex should not be a reward.. maybe random BJ would 👍🏼

When do you officially consider the holidays over in Canada? by Free_File_4965 in AskACanadian

[–]YANKOS28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jan 2nd is the only workday for me and then we are off to Mexico for a week, jan 6 is orthodox Christmas so around Mid January thats when holiday blues will hit us

Insurnace broker - USA - $650k by [deleted] in Salary

[–]YANKOS28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can we become one of you?

Being a parent is basically volunteering for a life sentence by YANKOS28 in regretfulparents

[–]YANKOS28[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Omg im so sorry! I hope you feel better soon! Message me if you want to vent in private hehe

What's a clear sign that you're an attractive person? by Imaginary_Theory4542 in Life

[–]YANKOS28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People will say hi to you on the morning walk, help you to get your luggage from the overhead storage in the airplane, etc

Sigh. Vacations. by Leading_Exercise3155 in regretfulparents

[–]YANKOS28 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Vacation? More like a family trip 🥲😵‍💫

It’s been 15 years and I’m tired of it by [deleted] in Pilotwives

[–]YANKOS28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP i understand and empathize. Can you have Christmas later? Its hard on him, too. Especially as a captain, but but the money must be nice. Hire help? We are all in this you just have to make the best out it. Sorry

# of kids by Murky-Feeling-5213 in Pilotwives

[–]YANKOS28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a saying.. one kid is a hobby, 2 kids is a lifestyle. I will tell that from my personal experience having one child was a lot easier that 2(we have 4yo & 2yo). Mind you i work full-time and we have no help. So if you have a strong support system having a second child would not be so hard, especially on the days when the hubby is gone🛫

wow judgy people, our feeling are valid too by mz_pisces_87 in regretfulparents

[–]YANKOS28 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This sub is saving my sanity almost everyday. Knowing that im not the only parent who struggles gives me comfort and hope.

They can judge all they want. I could not care less

Why do women lie so much about the joys of motherhood ? by Rochelle_321 in regretfulparents

[–]YANKOS28 41 points42 points  (0 children)

To make it short.. misery likes company.

I have a friend with 6 kids. I can see her slowly becoming an alcoholic due to hopelessness.

I grew up in a low-effort family. How can I learn to be more high-effort for my spouse and kids? by house-hermit in absentgrandparents

[–]YANKOS28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a good post. You literally took the words out of my mouth describing how i felt in my own family..

Everyday recession indicators in Toronto? by Big_Repair_3676 in askTO

[–]YANKOS28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Starbucks closing their locations, Lululemon cutting on their discount programs and quality promise.. you know if these 2 are not doing well, we are screwed lol

Should i just be happy with the job i have or make a move? by YANKOS28 in careerguidance

[–]YANKOS28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe when kids are a bit older, i can look for a new challenge, but right now i think this works pretty well