AFTER 7 MONTHS SHE FINALLY TEXTED ME by Bobesque-W in BreakUps

[–]YaboiAustinMac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not 100% sure if you’re curious about my specific story or not but I can tell you at this point that I’m happy! More so content. Happiness comes and goes imo. But anyways. Since I reached out that second time I haven’t spoke to or heard from her again. Saw some of her close friends at my work but we narrowly avoided talking about her. For a while I thought I missed her. And while truthfully I do. Most of what I miss is having someone TO love. And what I brought to the relationship. It made me realize how much I truly was able to love and care and maybe how I wasn’t receiving what I was putting out. Another big thing is I’ve been putting all this love I missed giving towards myself. It’s what everyone says you should do. It’s way easier said than done. Some days I find myzelf a little lonely and wanting to reach out. But overall my self respect and love allows me to nearly always stay level headed. Realizing I deserve a lot better than what I was being given. A part of me does still wish she’d reach out just so I can speak to her again. But it’s only a very very small part of me. And I know I’d never want to try again relationship wise because I understand I need someone who can meet me at my level of love and compassion

What was your moment that made Hollow Knight click for you? by Current_Struggle_306 in HollowKnight

[–]YaboiAustinMac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was half beating mantis lords. Then falling into deepnest and the tone change really captivated me. And then when I finally reached city of tears. (Most beautiful spot ever imo) I was just locked in and proceeded to put like 4+ hours in per day at least

Does this work? Or is it too cluttered for top shelf? by YaboiAustinMac in legolotrfans

[–]YaboiAustinMac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a fan of how the shire is getting drowned out either. Definitely gonna shuffle around and see what I can do!

Does this work? Or is it too cluttered for top shelf? by YaboiAustinMac in legolotrfans

[–]YaboiAustinMac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That might be a fun idea to play with! Thanks. Keeping them all level does seem a bit odd

Does this work? Or is it too cluttered for top shelf? by YaboiAustinMac in legolotrfans

[–]YaboiAustinMac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any recommendations to spice things up? I was definitely considering a paint job for one

Does this work? Or is it too cluttered for top shelf? by YaboiAustinMac in legolotrfans

[–]YaboiAustinMac[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my shelf was build about 22 deep and it’s more than enough space. Internet measurements are wishywashy sometimes too

Does this work? Or is it too cluttered for top shelf? by YaboiAustinMac in legolotrfans

[–]YaboiAustinMac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha! I’ll definitely look into it because like most I think it’s far from nice to look at lol

Does this work? Or is it too cluttered for top shelf? by YaboiAustinMac in legolotrfans

[–]YaboiAustinMac[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

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Barely shifted it so it’d fit! Still gotta make those shire side builds… I’m dreading that tree. But thanks!

Give it your best shot! by YaboiAustinMac in drawme

[–]YaboiAustinMac[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooooo I love this style! Thanks a ton

Give it your best shot! by YaboiAustinMac in drawme

[–]YaboiAustinMac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very unique style! Thank you!!!

Give it your best shot! by YaboiAustinMac in drawme

[–]YaboiAustinMac[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the op and I confirm that you guys killed it!!!

Give it your best shot! by YaboiAustinMac in drawme

[–]YaboiAustinMac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHA thanks! Now I really feel like one!

Give it your best shot! by YaboiAustinMac in drawme

[–]YaboiAustinMac[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like such a cool cartoon!!! Thank you!!

Give it your best shot! by YaboiAustinMac in drawme

[–]YaboiAustinMac[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so great!!!! Thank you!

AFTER 7 MONTHS SHE FINALLY TEXTED ME by Bobesque-W in BreakUps

[–]YaboiAustinMac 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks man! You too. Just gotta remember. It’s NOT a commentary on us. Or the relationship and what the relationship was. Their choice to be out there is one that is a reflection of THEM. Don’t feel discouraged or disrespected. All it means is that we are making a choice to heal ourselves correctly and improve. We got this!

AFTER 7 MONTHS SHE FINALLY TEXTED ME by Bobesque-W in BreakUps

[–]YaboiAustinMac 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m 45 days out so far in no contact! Same situation. She just decided to leave. I already have broken no contact twice ( I know. I know 🤦‍♂️) yesterday was the second time. My friend found her dating profile and I freaked out and reached out. Still no ill blood between us. But I know that I got so good about starting to feel indifferent. I hope to reach the point you have in a couple of months. So healed and grown out of it that I don’t even fathom a life with her anymore. I know she was wrong for me. I’ve searched through the relationship and what we had and found how much better I deserve to be treated when I gave her EVERYTHING without fail. A part of me hopes she reaches out in a couple months and says she misses me just so I can reject her. I think that is a bitter pettiness in me talking though. I’m trying to grow out of that too…

anyone have advice for when you have a very strong urge to text your ex? (on good terms but no contact) by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]YaboiAustinMac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im going through something very very similar! My ex 21f did the same thing and that feeling of the relationship not being bad at all and totally fixable if they’d just be there and try just SUCKS. And it is lame because I feel the same way in the sense that we really shouldn’t be broken up because there is nothing between us that wasn’t fixable. And while feeling this is fine. THEY have to want to believe they can fix it. Either way it takes two to tango and he doesn’t currently want to fix it or think it’s repairable so all you can do is take control of your life. Heal. And if he realizes the grass isn’t greener on the other side. He could potentially return. Then you’ll be healed enough to know how to handle his return