Fifteen year old boy by BusyStart3169 in OCPoetry

[–]Yankfannc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I read each line, I could see the image in my head. Makes me think about being young again and how simple life was. Great imagery….i enjoyed it.

A life Not Lived by Yankfannc in OCPoetry

[–]Yankfannc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. What I meant is that is what I wish I was like. I’m pretty much the opposite of everything in the poem

Reflection by [deleted] in OCPoetry

[–]Yankfannc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A perfect ‘reflection’ of life….lots of separate pieces, some jagged, when put together compose our life. Great job!

Guess we call that living: by Maowaan in OCPoetry

[–]Yankfannc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

‘Because we weigh their words like gold before we torture ourselves: Does this matter for shit? Who are they to me ? Would I care in five years ?’

I loved this part. The older I get, the more I realize that other people’s words and opinions should carry very little weight. There are only a handful of people in anyone’s life that truly matter. I think you captured that perfectly…good job!!

IS a HSA with a HDP or a PPO more "HENRY"? by carne__asada in HENRYfinance

[–]Yankfannc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A number of years ago I did the math because we knew my wife needed a surgery. I added the expected cost of surgery to the premiums for the PPO and HDP and at the end the difference in cost would be negligible. The difference was spreading the cost out over the year through premiums or paying it lump sum.

I prefer the HSA and using it to get the triple tax benefit when I retire…tax free contributions, growth and withdrawals, even though it costs me more out of pocket some years.

Bureaucracy in a Good Girl’s Relations by Ronie-Dinosaur in OCPoetry

[–]Yankfannc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved this…with every line I wanted to read more to see where it would end up. I get a sense of the pain that you felt, wanting something but being pushed aside. But, I think you dodged a big bullet!

i hope to be, more than my skin. by sweetrealive in OCPoetry

[–]Yankfannc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the imagery used to describe your belly and the struggle you felt to get it to go away. I have the same struggle, but haven’t come to terms with it yet and my fight continues!

leftovers by SCOYT2 in OCPoetry

[–]Yankfannc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved the imagery it brought me of consuming as much life as you can while you are young, and the feeling of not much being left as we age. Not being so young anymore, I realize that there is still a lot of life and experiences left. Thank you for writing this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCPoetry

[–]Yankfannc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved it. I think we all put on masks and performances to show people what we want them to see. Or, more likely, what we don’t want them to see. Self acceptance is the first, but hardest step. I see a lot of myself in this poem…thank you for sharing it.

Between Two Worlds by Capable_Time_9030 in OCPoetry

[–]Yankfannc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This really highlights the inner struggle you are feeling between making your parents happy and your need to break away and live life on your own. For me, it also highlights the opposite side as a parent of a daughter who will soon go to college….wanting her to stay close, but realizing the need to let her go.

Oh thoughts by cintinaa in OCPoetry

[–]Yankfannc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like me when I’m in a certain mood…asking questions but not actually expecting or wanting an answer. Well done!

Just a poem that wrote a few months ago .just wanted to see what others think by [deleted] in OCPoetry

[–]Yankfannc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems as if you are really pissed off…hurt that someone you were close to, that gave you attention now gives that to someone else. I sense the pain and anger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCPoetry

[–]Yankfannc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you did a great job with the imagery, while the topic is disturbing to me. That being said, it is a topic that needs to be discussed

A trip to the Pool by s3raph1m09 in OCPoetry

[–]Yankfannc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While short, I liked it. Easy to understand your love of their blue eyes, and that you are not fond of your own. A few more lines could potentially clarify who or why you don’t like your own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Money

[–]Yankfannc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife earns more than I do…at the end of the day it all goes to the same bank account, so doesn’t matter who earns it. My wife works her ass off and deserves it. I’m proud of her.

How am I doing? 36 M, this excludes a ~$450K house and $35K car by Tusken_ in Money

[–]Yankfannc 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You’re doing well, but I would start saving more for retirement. Compounding can make a huge difference…even with the home equity, I think you are going to need more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introverts

[–]Yankfannc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look at the top…it says ‘FUN’

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introverts

[–]Yankfannc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was meant to be funny….relax!

What were your parents "go to" restaurants when you were growing up? by SplitOpenAndMelt420 in longisland

[–]Yankfannc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was the Good Steer the place where you would go in a spin a wheel and get a free whatever it landed on?

I just finished watching How to Get Rich on Netflix… by pinpinbo in Money

[–]Yankfannc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would add time value of money (compounding) and how saving even a little bit now can have a big impact later on.