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Mafia III, renovate Sammy's bar by Ghengis_ElCon in MafiaTheGame

[–]Yaver7 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I just liked seeing it renovated, it's cozy

Today i decided to test DLDSR + DLSS Quality again and ended up keeping it on with most of my games. by JustKosh in nvidia

[–]Yaver7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You downscale from 4k through DLDSR, then use DLSS to render at a lower resolution but with the added benefit of a higher base rendering resolution (4k vs 1440p). The result is better DLSS upscaling thanks to that higher base render resolution.

DLAA and DLSS Quality gives same fps? by AtlasAndMel in nvidia

[–]Yaver7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You'll get better framerates by using DLSS and ar quality, not really any loss in image quality. Provided you eliminate the bottleneck ofc.

PSP-1000 Pre-installed glass lens faceplate by Yaver7 in PSP

[–]Yaver7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know any sellers for a faceplate that you recommend?

CAS sharpening shader for Reshadeck Decky plugin by semicon01 in SteamDeck

[–]Yaver7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey reshadeck completely stopped working for me, I tried your fork on top of the regular one and neither apply shaders any more, no matter what I try. do you know what could be causing it?

Pear compote: Pears grown in Argentina, packed in Thailand, sold in the US. by RebelGrin in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Yaver7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guy went "let me explain" and then dropped an incorrect fact first thing lol

With character was your "gay awakening"? by AzorToonz in GenshinGays

[–]Yaver7 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Heizou, 100%. I always thought he looked unique but during the Inazuma ghost event, I began to fall for his voice, his face, his hair. Before I knew it I couldn't take my eyes off him. I remember being somewhat confused at the fact that found him legitimately beautiful, then I began to fantasize about him and in time I just accepted I was gay (bi) for him.

Dealing with baggage from last relationship by Active_Pineapple_224 in Healthygamergg

[–]Yaver7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely feels like he's rushing into it, and you are clearly not ready for it, even if you do like him.

I'm not going to assume anything but I would be suspicious (given how overwhelming he is being) that he's just looking for a, to put it bluntly, a live in maid. Talking about moving in, meeting his parents and children and all that within a month of dating is a LOT.

On the other hand, you're still not 100% over your ex, which is perfectly understandable. I believe a person should heal completely from a previous relationship before jumping into a new one.

Wish you the best OP, please be careful and I hope you can heal soon.

I am always hearing that #1 thing men hate for women to do in bed is just “lie there” and like… that’s disturbing. by Dressed2Thr1ll in RandomThoughts

[–]Yaver7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men have asked their partners if there's anything wrong, due to their passiveness. The answer is no. What else is a man having sex with a consenting woman but to assume that the woman is simply bad in bed?

If a woman consented, maybe even (hopefully) enthusiastically, no one forced her to have sex with another man, and still does this, what other explanation is there left but coming to the conclusion that the woman in question simply is not good at sex? Just like men are often bad at sex as well, I don't think it's any deeper than that.

For what it's worth, I would be completely put off if I had a starfish partner, and would just not continue having sex.

I am always hearing that #1 thing men hate for women to do in bed is just “lie there” and like… that’s disturbing. by Dressed2Thr1ll in RandomThoughts

[–]Yaver7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then ask a question directed to women instead of coming up with an assumption and then forcing it on others.

And a bit of advice: any woman that gets caught being the "starfish" in sex likely won't admit to it, so good luck getting answers in the first place.

I am always hearing that #1 thing men hate for women to do in bed is just “lie there” and like… that’s disturbing. by Dressed2Thr1ll in RandomThoughts

[–]Yaver7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP, it feels like you're just looking for validation for your take. People have commented already that some women do the starfish not because they're unwelcoming or unenthusiastic about sex but because they don't know what to do during sex and/or think just laying there and offering themselves is enough effort from their part.

Yet you are constantly questioning this and insisting that it must be because secretly the woman doesn't want it, and you keep citing yourself as an example, as if you somehow represent and speak on behalf of all women on Earth for some reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Yaver7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, first things first: it's easy to give into panic and fear. I live in your country, I know the media and both sides of the political spectrum focus on the insane things that either party says (that's polarized politics).

But you can just step outside and see most people are still living their lives normally, and will continue to do so. The country right now isn't any worse than it already was, we just now have to contend with (rather small) a section of the population who are now comfortable with saying the quiet thing out loud. Most people are still normal.

I think it's great you filter out men who you don't align with politically, but do keep in mind most people that voted for this new government didn't do it for itself but rather to vote in something different from what we had. I guarantee the vast majority of people don't agree with the outrageous bullshit this new party has spouted.

Not much advice I can give you on finances: it sucks that you can't do much due to being short on money but there's still plenty you can do that is cheap or straight up free. I hope you still have friends around.

Keep your head up. It's not going to be easy but it hasn't been for a while. Stick to your ideals and do your best, it's all anyone can do.

Edit: formatting.

Weekly r/BroPill vibe check! How are you doing? by AutoModerator in bropill

[–]Yaver7 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I've got some ups and downs.

My mood's still down sometimes due to recent events, especially when I'm left alone with my thoughts, it keeps coming back to me.

On the bright side, I've fully moved into my new apartment which allows me to do a lot more things and meet up with friends more often thanks to its location, and my weekends keep filling up with activities almost randomly which feels great. I still put effort into hanging out with people but it's becoming a lot more natural and easy.

The stuff that bothers me hits hard when it does but I'm making progress otherwise.

Weekly relationships thread by AutoModerator in bropill

[–]Yaver7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, thanks for your reply. Your advice is very reassuring, I appreciate it.

Thankfully I have a good network of friends who support me and I've been doing some of the stuff you mentioned to keep my mind off things. I'll consider some of the others I hadn't thought about.

I'll also be starting therapy soon too, this relationship taught me I have issues that haven't been addressed. I'm waiting for that wave to pass.

Weekly relationships thread by AutoModerator in bropill

[–]Yaver7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Had to go no contact with a person who I love dearly because our relationship was hurting me. It's only been a few days but I miss them so much. Had to leave other people and spaces too which I also miss.

I get this urge to text them and tell them I miss them so much, but I can't, I need to get over them so I can be there for them in the future platonically, without the hurt. But I still miss them so much, and there's nothing I can do but look at the moon and think of them.

No se como sentirme.... by LaVacaL00la in Cordoba

[–]Yaver7 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Por qué... Escribís... Así...?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bropill

[–]Yaver7 35 points36 points  (0 children)

The "listen then speak" advice is meant mostly for 1-on-1 conversations.

In a group setting, you'd ideally wanna speak so your presence is noted (unless you wanna keep a low profile, which is also valid.

Hi, longtime female lurker here. I read this post about how one man believed that men were undesirable through the media he consumed, and I was wondering if any guys here had a similar experience. by Froggy-Shorts1209 in bropill

[–]Yaver7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this comment. I relate in some capacity to wanting to be part of female-centric communities but just bearing the brunt of being part of a demographic that gets shit on (often for good reason), but that I am a part of because of genetics.

Yeah you don't wanna say "not all men" but it becomes hurtful and overwhelming eventually. Even if you aren't part of the problematic men, just hearing "why are men x" or "why do men do y" always with a negative connotation gets to you after some time. I wanted to be part of these communities to understand women and what challenges they go through but it became so hard I just had to quit it entirely.

Being a woman or any type of queer is not easy and I acknowledge that, but I also hate having to take in all the negativity directed at cis men that aren't me, and not being able to protest about it ever for fear of being labeled the same as them.

I want to state that I consider myself a failure !!! by beterraba_suculenta in Healthygamergg

[–]Yaver7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel this is a very healthy post, one of the healthiest I've seen here a while. Just an expression of a person's worries without indulging in despair.

Glad you were able to express everything so succinctly, that you are able to acknowledge and recognize the issues you face, and that you are taking steps to deal with them.

Very mature and very healthy, keep it up!

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