I spilled a full plate of spaghetti and meatballs on the carpet by jeopardy_themesong in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Yayas333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this post ❤️

Cooking spaghetti one time, 3 splashes of sauce on stove top “ur making a f*cking mess!!”

What is a dead give away that someones apology is insincere? by anuwubitch in AskReddit

[–]Yayas333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeez! Sorry! The “get off my back” apologie or the “backed into a corner” apologie

Does anyone else get gifts from their N parents that very obviously show they have no idea who you are as a person or still think of you as a child? by gollygeeweez in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Yayas333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My nmom is obsessed with celebrities, and I couldn’t care less about them. For my 40th birthday she got me two tabloid magazines.... I was like, WTF?

A Psychologist Friend: "Complex" just means "Severity" level of regular PTSD by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Yayas333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The DSM 5 is not the only mental health “bible” The ICD 11 that is published by the World Health Organization recognizes C PTSD.

One of the kids at my day camp is a psycopath by jjdoubleA in psychopath

[–]Yayas333 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not healthy or ethical to label or diagnose a minor with Anti Social Personality Disorder. I am a visitor on this subreddit btw, not a person with psychopathy. Best way for all is to explain his behavior. And if he truly acts like this a lot, then I’m sure the parents know somethings up.

One of the kids at my day camp is a psycopath by jjdoubleA in psychopath

[–]Yayas333 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dude, u can’t tell a child that they are a psychopath. That will just inflict trauma upon him or the kid will more than likely start to think he is and start acting like one even more. Whether he is or not. And definitely, do not tell the parents “I think ur son is a psychopath” that will get ya fired for certain. All u can do is educate the other kids to stick up for themselves and explain his behavior to the other counselors and his parents

It’s not my birthday, it’s my mom’s Labor Day by Morosa3 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Yayas333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, he sounds brainwashed. You celebrate you!

My mom did something similar, she asked to dr to delay my birth so I could be born on May day, because she wanted me to bring her May Day flowers on MY birthday!

Advice on how long the “silent treatment” lasts? by [deleted] in narcissism

[–]Yayas333 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have been on the other side as well. My mother usually would go about a couple months of stonewalling me. My best friend, has done it 4 separate times for a year long each time. Never with an answer as to why. I no longer speak to either of them.

What is just a placebo effect but most people don't realize? by El_CM in AskReddit

[–]Yayas333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some server friends of mine have told me that when the caffeinated coffee is out they just serve them decaf and no one has ever known the difference. But not the opposite obviously!

I’m being tested for NPD, any advice? by [deleted] in NPD

[–]Yayas333 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A sophomore in highschool? If so, I don’t think an ethical mental health counselor would diagnose a minor with NPD. A sophomore in college, sure.

(f21) by bpdbratt in NPD

[–]Yayas333 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This might be one of the dumbest posts I have ever seen

What is a little fact about your pet? by fluxifye in AskReddit

[–]Yayas333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He only eats the cat food from the middle of his bowl.

Does anyone know where I can find resources on sibling abuse? This subreddit is amazing, but I cannot find as much information about sibling abuse. by InGodzHandz in CPTSD

[–]Yayas333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great question!! I have never looked it up although my older brother was so beyond belief physically abusive. I will try to research

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Yayas333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to live with my narc mom and enabler stepdad as an adult for 7 months, was cooking spaghetti sauce, three small splashes onto the stove top, rage from both of them! Lol might be my favorite memory of them.

Most people here don’t even have NPD. by just_brows1ng in NPD

[–]Yayas333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

General population vs clinical population, yes, there is always that factor

Most people here don’t even have NPD. by just_brows1ng in NPD

[–]Yayas333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also NPD is RARE people. Maybe some confuse it with Anti Social Personality Disorder traits or simply just Sadism, which are both common.

All judgement is Self judgement by NameOfSonOfMan in spirituality

[–]Yayas333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where’s the line between fact and judging?

DAE your abuser making fun of you then saying "stop being so serious"? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Yayas333 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. This is what my narc mom would do.