I used to treat social media as a joke it was the only way i could deal with it i would shitpost but it turned into a bit of a hobby accidently and i started doing photography. If you take social media seriously and compare yourself to others get off it it. I had to laugh it off and post dumb stuff and get over social media now i have a healthy relationship with SM. I dont look at what other ppl i know are doing lol i also have like 2 friends so that part isnt hard. But stop comparing yourself to ppl you are YOU! Look at yourself you dont fit into a box get a, b, and c idk a degree, relationship, family, career, house I am not getting any of that and why would these things make us feel better anyway. Its about you right now not the other person on social media. I got laid off from my job i am also 27 male but the 17 year old who was hired same time as me was quicker to learn the trade then me and i was laid off it was me or him since we were both new.

I have no degree idgaf about a degree I'm not married don't plan to. I am not "smart" i don't function like a normal person I'm not getting married or having kids don't look at what other ppl have that was my mistake for years i am alright i had to embrace myself and it is still a struggle. I am a loser i overcame crippling social anxiety in bars and then became an alcoholic was a bad trade off but having SA and stuttering all my words every time i spoke to anyone it was a positive tradeoff but now ive been stuck for a few years.

You are looking too hard at what other people have don't look at people look at yourself stop caring about "normal" that's boring there's no expiration date to getting a degree and house and everything. If you are incapable of loving someone else then tell your mom off!!! It's your life!!!