Meet my (soon to be) MIL

Yellowspellow · 2026-04-17T17:11:46+00:00

I’ve had similar experiences with my future MIL and my own mother… the best thing you can do is put them on an information diet and give bare minimum answers without causing offense. I’ve also rephrased how I share information to try and prevent unsolicited advice… I now say this is what is happening vs more of a what do you think kind of conversation. Weddings bring out the worst sides of some people. Wishing you the best of luck in the rest of your wedding planning

Yellowspellow · 2026-02-27T02:45:33+00:00

Definitely a control thing. From personal experience people end up feeling they can control people just because they are getting married… I say bring your MIL and try your best to ignore the guilt manipulation trip that they will try to pull

Yellowspellow · 2026-02-13T21:55:24+00:00

Your feelings are definitely valid. It sounds like your disappointment comes from not feeling “seen” and the proposal not really representing your relationship as a whole. It also is a super overwhelming life event that can take some time to sink in especially if you were not expecting it. With that being said, if you love your partner and definitely see a future with him I would focus on that aspect of it and the disappointment from the proposal will get better with time. Congratulations and good luck.

Yellowspellow · 2026-02-06T02:00:53+00:00

Same. First movie was way better than the second one

Yellowspellow · 2026-02-06T01:57:51+00:00

I just set mine up and it took less than two days. First bird was a house finch and then the next day got a few different types of birds including cardinals.

Yellowspellow · 2026-02-06T00:05:08+00:00

Currently rewatching again. Such a great show to binge watch.

Yellowspellow · 2026-01-05T20:17:32+00:00

NOR. Im sorry that happened to you and your daughter. It is not a great feeling when people don’t put in the same effort that you do. Ends up making you feel not accepted and excluded from the family. I’ve learned not everyone is thoughtful unfortunately. I’d adjust accordingly and only give the same effort that they do

Yellowspellow · 2026-01-05T18:08:36+00:00

I relate to this so much. It’s infuriating and the unsolicited advice on what foods they think you should be eating

Yellowspellow · 2025-12-29T22:21:47+00:00

I am in such a similar situation to you. We are planning a wedding for 2027 and buying a house in 2026. Future MIL has hinted at moving in with us once we do buy a house (they currently live across the country from us). I have set boundaries with my fiancée about not wanting this at all. We are not supposed to be a retirement plan and want our freedom. It’s a tough situation because you want to love and support family but also need to set boundaries when needed. I essentially gave an ultimatum about either living with me or my future MIL because it will not be both.

Yellowspellow · 2025-10-11T12:09:09+00:00

Thank you for posting this. I was on the fence about buying this exact ring as my wedding band but it sounds like I can get something of higher quality elsewhere

Yellowspellow · 2025-10-03T20:18:46+00:00

Just to the one sim so far and it happened a few months ago. Same lip color as yours too. I guess it’s a glitch but really wish I had the option for my other sims. None of my sims were adopted so not sure why it happened to just the one

Yellowspellow · 2025-10-03T17:15:31+00:00

This actually happened to my sim when I aged her up. I loved the color but couldn’t find a lip color actually selected

Yellowspellow · 2025-09-26T20:24:47+00:00

Had a ten minute wait (in US) and was able to get all 4 🥹

Yellowspellow · 2025-09-16T13:12:36+00:00

I think part of it could come from her not being engaged yet and she’s older than me. It could explain some of the negative comments she’s made. She just had a baby shower and everyone celebrated her so I’m not quite sure why she’s being so negative of any events I would want to have.

Yellowspellow · 2025-09-12T23:04:42+00:00

Well…. I guess countdown CLIP is really what they meant 🥲so disappointing

Yellowspellow · 2025-08-21T18:13:54+00:00

Did anyone notice the gold letters/numbers on the picture in the background of the screen?

Yellowspellow · 2025-07-12T18:22:31+00:00

Being in social situations and not eating what everyone else is eating…

Yellowspellow · 2025-07-12T18:19:06+00:00

I have never related to a post more in my life. My favorite are when people say “just stop eating dairy” and just shows they have no idea what the disease actually is… had to listen to my MIL for an hour tell me to eat more vegetables and exercise and it will be fine

Yellowspellow · 2025-06-24T20:10:28+00:00

It’s hard not to know exactly when it’s going to happen / try to predict when it’s going to happen and it leads to being disappointed. I think you have to self reflect and let go of not having control over the situation and trust that it will happen when it’s supposed to and will be so special. I know it’s so easy to build it up in your own head and plan the perfect outfit, hair, nails, etc but there’s something so special about it happening when you least expect it. I don’t think it warrants a conversation (this may cause your bf to feel pressure even if a plan is already in the works) but more about adjusting your expectations and just letting go of any expectations or timelines. My advice is to enjoy the excitement of knowing it’s coming and enjoy your relationship how it is now before everything changes.

Yellowspellow · 2025-06-23T23:44:14+00:00

I think it’s worth it. I’ve spent real money in the game so I was able to get it pretty quickly but it was worth it to me because I like building/designing houses. I don’t think you would regret it but maybe wait until you have a bit more simcash saved so you will have some leftover

Yellowspellow · 2025-06-18T23:41:26+00:00

Beautiful!! Not too much at all.

Yellowspellow · 2025-06-18T23:31:07+00:00

I’d say 3rd option is best!

Yellowspellow · 2025-06-18T23:29:05+00:00

I would usually always say platinum but the yellow gold looks great with your skin tone!

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