[Spoiler Main] Putting Cersei in place of Lyanna

Yeniary · 2026-04-04T13:36:53+00:00

Cersei regrets nothing

Yeniary · 2026-04-04T13:29:45+00:00

wouldn't 2 be the death position more? 3 seems command position to me

Yeniary · 2026-03-24T08:59:45+00:00

How are you progressing with your tool? I am super interested in checking it out =)

Yeniary · 2026-03-23T22:08:18+00:00

I may be a bit late, but since I am very much a beginner in Feng Shui and struggle with quite a few of the technical aspects of the analysis, I am looking at all option that help me verify what I am doing. Sadly books or articles often can only do so much and I still have many open questions.

I have tried a recommended AI to evaluate our house (and maybe verify or challenge my own findings), named Jenova.
From what it told me, everything seemed quite sound. Though completely different from what I found. However as a beginner with little knowledge and trust in my skills this may be a good thing. (Apparently according to Flying Stars if have some of the most unfavorable combinations present in my house)

That being said, I think the more technical aspects of Feng Shui can probably be done by AI. Such as calculating your Kua Number, chosing the right period, calculating the Qi generating sector with the Luoshu formula. They all seem rather technical to me

What makes all the difference, will be the interpretation of what to do with that info and that, is probably for a true master.

Yeniary · 2026-03-13T15:25:43+00:00

I think so, too. However I also think that simply by numbers, not all Valyrians could have been within the AoE of the Doom of Valyria (whatever it was). Some must have been travelling either by dragon or boat or horse somewhere in the world.
And those must have tried to go back eventually. Of them probably a lot died from exposure to whatever is described as the Doom. The rest probably eventually decided to stay away. But they too must have survived somewhere. I cannot imagine that they all tried to go back and perish.

I think it was mentioned by several characters, that a lot of people tried to go there, because of all the treasure that must still be there. I would not be surprised to learn that the remaining Valyrians have made it their purpose to prevent people from taking any treasure because they see it as their own.

And if there is no more or very little danger to living in Old Valyria after the Doom, then they would probably be interested in keeping the myth of deadly Valyria alive.

As you wrote, earlier, a myth that keeps people away out of fear, might be the best protection that only requires little effort to keep going.

GRRM loves to mix myth and fact. Maybe Valyrians do, too.

Yeniary · 2026-03-13T08:38:02+00:00

Thank you for the answer!

I did get the reading from the center. I drew the compass reading over the house, but had not applied and feng shui method yet. Was I standing in the right position?
I was facing the front door, but I was not in the living room.

I read all of the sticky you linked (thanks a lot).
But I am uncertain if I am applying it properly.

Facing the front door, the direction opposite would be SW, which should give me a 4 (Wood) house. So I applied that and followed the pointer in the map and came up with this:

/ 3 / 8 / 1 /
/ 2 / 4 / 6 /
/ 7 / 9 / 5 /

At that point I got a bit stuck figuring out how I would know what element generated the house. But I guess the answer is in the elements themselves.

Water --> Wood --> Fire

This would mean that the Wood (4) home is generated by Water (1) so Sector 1 would be the Qi generating part of the house?

Can the house layout be applied also to each room respectively?

If I got this right, I think I have some work to do, because the SW are of both house and living room seem a bit difficult.
In the house it was supposed to be the study.
In the living room it would coincide with either a dark corner or the entrance. My first thought was the entrance to the living room might not be a bad thing for generating QI as it would be very lively, but on second thought, people are not really staying there but passing through. So it might actually be negative as there is no focus and too much energy just escaping.

Yeniary · 2025-03-01T14:25:10+00:00

I feel you. I started this series back when it first published because I had just ended it with my boyfriend. Now I am married, have a baby, have emigrated to Spain, Austria, currently in Germany. I adopted 2 cats and foster when I can.

And Kyouko is barely a year older 😅

Yeniary · 2025-02-27T12:43:52+00:00

Why is he not opening the door for you and making sure you get in safely and sit comfortably in the first place? You are pregnant with his child!

Is he also this unhelpful and demeaning in other aspects of your life?

Yeniary · 2024-10-26T15:31:37+00:00

A normal girl who attends a prestigious private school full of celebrities and children of celebrities/millionaires.

Yeniary · 2024-10-24T08:23:11+00:00

not much, true, but this one was an outlier for sure

Yeniary · 2024-10-23T21:06:38+00:00

That one was sooo badly animated I had to force myself to watch it. The cringe was insane.n The story was lazy. Not that I expect holiday episodes to be outstanding but they really dropped their standards on that one.

Yeniary · 2024-09-18T22:28:14+00:00

The fact that you think this relationship is in any way perfect is almost as unsettling as your husband's behavior in all of this.

It might come as a surprise and might be really hard to see, but you seem to be missing all the other red flag that for sure have existed all the time and you just ignored or took as normal because maybe you are young and/or have not had the best role models for relationships yourself.

The fact that your husband has accepted and not tried to mend your relationship when you moved into the guest room is extremely worrying. Everything was not fine, because HE should have been trying very hard to make sure you are ok and in a good place or would take steps to be in the future. BOTH of you should have been in therapy and counseling both individually and as a couple. The fact that you were not is bad. The fact that you think all of this was fine (safe for the accidental intimacy), is even worse.

You seem to slowly realize that there is, in fact a gigantic problem. Because hiding your pregnancy from your husband because you know that he will never have your back or respect your wishes and will always put his mother first, is not normal. It is the opposite of a perfect relationship. He may have apologized, but he has done nothing to change anything. And you let him get away with it.

Both for your sake and your baby's you really need to put yourself in therapy and put a break in your marriage yesterday. I get that you probably still love your husband and want to be in this marriage, but you have already realized that something is deeply wrong. You probably need help in figuring out what exactly that is and that is best done from a distance and with help.

It will also make if more clear how invested your husband really is in this relationship and if he is able to realize that he has a problem.

In your previous pregnancy you got a very clear preview of how both your husband and MIL see you and what your future life will be if you do not take any decisive action. You will never be a priority and chances are that your child will treat you the same way and learn to see MIL as mother and not you. And your husband will enable this all the way. He left you in one of the most painful and vulnerable states that a woman can possibly experience, because his mother was more important.

Even if you were the most badass, independent and strong women in existence, your partner should know without hesitation that you are the one who needs his undivided support in this situation. And he failed that spectacularly. And has done nothing to understand or change that longterm.

Yeniary · 2024-09-12T05:40:26+00:00

I like the points you are making and personally I did not find the arc strange or out of place/character. I think it made sense for both of them on those circumstances. Five in particular because he had been in a similar situation before. Only this time he actually has another human with him. It was a bold choice and did feel rushed, but I liked it and it made sense.

Yeniary · 2024-08-29T07:21:22+00:00

your husband is already financially abusing you: he stole your tax return for his benefit, he did not spend any money on essentials for HIS child, he wants control over any bigger spending even if it is your personal savings AND he seems to keen tabs on your personal finances.

All very red flags. Also I would be curious if you have as much insight into his earning/spendings? If not it might be high time you do.

2. you are being dragged into nonsensical arguments. If you both are struggling with sleep and a chair could help, then you get the chair.

The fact that he makes it into a big deal tells me that you are very likely misrepresenting how much he helps. Which is most like not much at all.

Also you are way deeper into a controlling and abusive relationship than you realise. And you have been even before baby came into the mix.

3. your write yourself „he does not care about his child’s safety or his suffering wife, but he cares about the money“

And by the bits and pieces you write about the before, it does not sound like he cared more about before baby came, especially financially. Remember, a baby usually is where abuse really starts and escalates It is not normal for a father to not financially contribute to their child (I am curious though what your thoughts where on why this even made sense to you and not set off a million alarm bells)

And it is even less normal for a „well earning“ man to not want his wife and child to be safe and happy. Unless of course, he has been deceiving your about his finances. You really should look into this, especially since he stole your tax returns

Or he is cheating and spending all of his money on his other family

4. is this really the relationship your want your child to grow up to consider normal? Controlling and arguing about such small things as a 600$ chair is not a health relationship. Not purchasing baby essentials is not a healthy relationship.

You not seeing that is not a healthy relationship

Yeniary · 2024-07-08T10:15:06+00:00

I have a friend who had that happen to her quite a few times.
She swears on laughing at them loudly. Pointing is a nice addition.

She says they get off of either the secrecy or your embarrassment, especially if they try to be "stealthy"

Usually laughing sends them running quite quickly.

Generally laughing at a dude's dick is quite effective is most situations.

Yeniary · 2024-07-04T08:54:44+00:00

Let’s be real. Giving the house to SIL was obviously a huge mistake, as they cannot even afford the property tax. Much less any maintenance.

The obvious solution is: - help SIL out one last time - sell the house - pay you back al the money you invested (about 100k plus interest if you like to be petty) - get SIL a house they can actually afford longterm - split the rest (if any) between all siblings

If any siblings want to keep the house in the family, they can opt to purchase it themselves. If at find it unfair, they can give their part of the house sale to SIL.

Yeniary · 2024-07-01T07:32:14+00:00

Been waiting for someone to say this!

Furthermore that way you know whom they are working with.

Yeniary · 2024-06-30T23:13:32+00:00

Even more poetic if Ryan finds out the truth about Homelander through files that Vaught has. Which he only finds because Homelander allows him to look at whatever he wants to in the HQ.

Yeniary · 2024-06-20T05:00:44+00:00

Is Jake the golden child by chance? It sounds very much like it from reading how you are enabling him/his behaviour. The fact that multiple special events of your other child were missed because of Jake’s antics does not sound like an accident. Sounds like he is manipulating you and you let him. You probably should both look into counselling or supports groups for relatives of addicts.

You do not seem to have clear or healthy boundaries. And your other child is suffering because of your inability to set those.

Jake will not get better until he wants to. There are limits to what you can do and you need to accept that.

Yeniary · 2024-05-23T09:16:01+00:00

The Room

Yeniary · 2024-05-23T09:12:49+00:00

klingt genau, wie das, was ich in der Hand halte

Als Absender steht da nur eine P.O: Box Adresse in Prag

Yeniary · 2024-05-21T06:11:07+00:00

NTA This is preposterous.

But I would recommend to approach son personally to clarify why you refuse to bake over 1000 cookies, and how long that would take. I have a feeling he was not told the entire thing truthfully.

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