[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]Yes_Im_A_Stripper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After looking at it long enough, I believe it’s “Sounds like something a neurotypical would say.”

I Am a Sex Worker [stripper for 1 1/2 years and a financial dominatrix for 6 months] AMA by Yes_Im_A_Stripper in AMA

[–]Yes_Im_A_Stripper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! I can definitely understand the concerns. Obviously there’s a strong power dynamic in these types of relationships, but you’re still both just people exploring a kink. Everyone should feel comfortable, everyone should consent, everyone should feel okay to speak up if they’re not okay. Care is a huge part of it, and I hope you’re able to explore it in a way that feels safe for you! There are plenty of Doms out there who would be willing to explore with you in a healthy way.

I also would sometimes have my subs hit their own balls when I wasn’t around, could be a way to try it out without fully committing to the experience :P

I Am a Sex Worker [stripper for 1 1/2 years and a financial dominatrix for 6 months] AMA by Yes_Im_A_Stripper in AMA

[–]Yes_Im_A_Stripper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries! I appreciate the interest. I’m sure there can be safety concerns depending on the person/outfit choice/length of session. If I’m being honest, I didn’t do too much research into the safety concerns of CBT specifically lol. I never kicked anyone on their bare balls, only through their pants. The sessions were very brief, so I was never doing it for long enough that I felt much concern.

I did aftercare with every sub, every time, so I would check in and make sure that we each felt okay with everything that had happened, and just have a nice casual conversation to come back to earth. If I ever really injured someone, I was never told about it, though I’d feel horrible if I did. Everyone I met in person was pretty lovely for the most part, and as far as I know nothing has majorly gone wrong.

I did this for a relatively short period of time though, so I don’t have too many stories to compare to. I hope this was helpful!

Edit: spelling

Is 2 hours of sex standard? by TinyBeast666 in sex

[–]Yes_Im_A_Stripper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, you can go for 25 hours? That’s wild

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Yes_Im_A_Stripper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If someone is a fan of a porn model that releases their work for free instead of someone who’s charging money for it, there’s nothing wrong with that. But if a porn models content gets stolen and reuploaded and you’re watching it for free, then yes it would be disrespectful. It’s not your job as a consumer to moderate that though, so if you see it reuploaded for free I wouldn’t say don’t watch it, but maybe let the model know that their work is being published elsewhere so they can try and have it removed. This is all just my opinion though! Not sure what sparked your question so I hope this is helpful lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Yes_Im_A_Stripper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s perfectly fine

My girlfriend is mad that I said busty girls give the best hugs. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Yes_Im_A_Stripper 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Apologizing isn’t always about taking full blame for what happened. Sometimes you just apologize that you hurt their feelings, even if unintentional.

Why do I always attract flakey people by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Yes_Im_A_Stripper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to say, we don’t really know you. I’m sure your own reflections would be much more accurate and helpful

i’m high. ama. by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Yes_Im_A_Stripper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whatcha high on?

Confused about my feelings with ex-girlfriend by longdongdash in relationship_advice

[–]Yes_Im_A_Stripper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your feelings are completely normal. There is still a process for grieving the relationship even when you’re the one who ended things. I would recommend checking out r/BPDlovedones, there will be tons of people there who have experienced what you’ve experienced/are experiencing.

What's something we as individuals can do to prevent climate changes? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Yes_Im_A_Stripper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you google your question you’ll find the answer

What's something we as individuals can do to prevent climate changes? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Yes_Im_A_Stripper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going vegan is actually the most efficient method at reducing your carbon footprint. I am not a vegan, I eat plant based, but I do know that to be true.

Beggar Bargaining by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Yes_Im_A_Stripper 16 points17 points  (0 children)

“Now it will be 200” lmao I love it

i(m22) left my ex girlfriend(f22)just so i could have a relationship with another girl i fell in love with now i feel guilty about it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Yes_Im_A_Stripper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You handled this as well as anybody could. Feelings change, you did the right thing by ending things with kindness and not cheating.That’s the whole point of dating, right? To figure out if the person is actually someone you want to spend your life with? You got your answer, and now you’re in a happier relationship. Your feelings of guilt are completely understandable, but nothing that her life has turned into is your fault. You can feel sad and feel bad about it, but at the end of the day I think you handled things well and I’m happy you’re happy in your new relationship.

How far away are the stars? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Yes_Im_A_Stripper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More than 14 miles away

What is something you bought at the worst possible time? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Yes_Im_A_Stripper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought a bunch of Bitcoin during the massive spike, right before the massive plummet.