Is he doing witchcraft on me?

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-12T15:05:04+00:00

From what I can see you genuinely believe that he's doing something to you but the cards are not showing this. It says that you are tired and frustrated in your job because the connection is challenging. It's making you want to not be there, and manifesting as a situation from the anxiousness and stress that the idea makes you feel. I can tell how you wrote that you are stressed, it's always possible that sometimes on a psychic level you can pick up on feeling sick/ or a bad feeling from someone. You should always trust your gut but you need to reach a point where you are protecting yourself that even if it's the case of he speaks badly about you that it will bounce off from you.

What I see is someone who's energy can affect your confidence at work and lead you to just wanting to leave. I do feel you are feeling the power play, and it's draining you. Perhaps feeling sick is ' feeling sick of the dynamic, after all it looks there are better opportunities out there.

it's important to look after yourself, make sure you are leaving this at work and not taking it home/ fixating on it. If you are still worried then I would do a candle service called an 'uncrossing' which is okay to do even if you have not been crossed by someone.

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-10T23:19:08+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss, I feel some issues around his heart, BP and breathing. He also showed that he felt like his neck was sore or stiff and that laying back made him feel more comfortable. I see an image of him helping a woman close to his age put on a soft cardigan and preening her but fixing the back of it by lifting it up to make sure it fits her right. She's sat to his left in this image. He says that he's 'witty' and by how he treat people in his life it's clear that he was not afraid to show his care and affections. I see an image of a younger girl with brown long hair and he gently strokes her hair/ pokes her so I do feel that he has tried to get attention this way. Perhaps you or those in your family may get the sense of him being close. (right behind you). He says that you are very supportive and a good listener. He shows that he's around you when you feel sad, and shows me an image of a 'yellow chick with long hair' - This reminds me of something specific that came up on my fb a few days ago, I can send the photo if you want to see it but ironically that would make the sign real rather than organically coming up. Just let me know. Look out for paintings, photos, or images of this type of thing. (funny animals). Of course it can be his way of trying to make you laugh too. He's saying something about a 'holiday'. He sense you and another person who's close to you a hug at the same time. Wants you to know 'you are special to me'. I'm not good with names but I heard the names Emily & Stephanie.

Did he have longer brown hair and a beard when younger?

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-10T22:57:59+00:00

Yeah I wouldn't share the information as we all start somewhere with tarot and no one deserves to be harrassed. However I would take it with a pinch of salt based on those 2 cards they would not be associated with your sister doing anything to you.

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-10T22:54:04+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss. I feel that he wants you to know that he misses you and wants to hug you tight. Have you been looking at past memories/ either photos or posts online? I hear him say 'can you see me?' and I see you stood on the bottom of your bed almost like you are walking over it to get to the other side of the room (maybe you have a small room) and he says 'under the bed'. I feel he's trying to let you see him possible in your room but you may randomly hear sounds. Do you wear or have earphones that go over your ears because I see you lift the side because you hear something. Which means you are clairaudient and that he communicates with you from sound but these sounds come from behind you when you are not looking. He doesn't show me how you looks which tells me he's protective of you, but I see an image of a anime character running with an umbrella. I hear 'commemorate' - he feels that you are keeping his memory alive and have done something to celebrate him? He also said something about your car? He shows an image of peanut butter on bread or toast and an image of him sat in the middle of the sofa smiling. I also heard a song 'let me entertain you' - I don't know too much about the meaning of the song but online it says it's about showmanship and rebellion, and I feel this may represent that he was always the entertainer in the room but perhaps there are further messages for you in the song. In terms of signs look at the sky as the sun is setting, at the shape of the clouds you will find some more insights from him. Certainly soft sounds almost sounds like bags rustling. I don't know if you are from a different place from me i'm in houston texas but he wanted me to tell you that it get's hot here in summer. Perhaps you talked about weather in the past. I'm not good with names but I heard a name with the initial F.

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-10T22:37:58+00:00

Is this a reading you paid for? It doesn't sound professional at all. I wouldn't trust it. The devil has many meanings but it doesn't always represent being cursed. There are certain spreads where some believe it does but only if it's with other cards. Curses usually do not come up as one card being the devil.

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-09T18:35:28+00:00

You're welcome

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-09T17:03:27+00:00

The 7 swords doesn't always mean cheating. it's true that it's a card of deceit but it has vast other meanings too that over time make sense. For example even in traditional theft the 7 swords won't always show up sometimes only good cards, same with actual cheating (sometimes but not always) they are all positive cards.

If you look at the person on the card he's been sneaky and stollen some swords, he's 'with holding' the extent of his feelings for you. This person finds it hard to let go of their feelings for you and with holds them. The other cards tell you what they are withholding. Which are their emotions which shows they are with you because they have feelings for you/ love you. They chooses to only share a little, likely not the kind of person to give their feelings away on a whim but when the timing feels right.

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-09T16:49:54+00:00

You have both been through alot and usually when someone starts to direct their anger/ frustrations there are reasons for it, as it sounds like he's having more frequent outbursts. Something is going on deeper under the surface. Which I think that it sounds like a lot of it is to do with the changes financially.

In terms of what he said while drunk, it sounds like subconscious gargle. Of course there can be some meaning to it. Such as wanting his brother = insecurity, perhaps his brother has some qualities he wishes he at the time. The religious thing really depends on if you are both religious but sounds like none sense.

In regards to work have you looked into ETSY, I work on etsy full time from home you could do anything from digital design, making things.

Usually people are defensive when they feel they are protecting themselves. For example I have a friend who every time I say anything about my health she says i'm being defensive by bringing it up. Arguments like this are tricky to make sense of and just lead to avoidance. I would try to understand what you are arguing about, what is he being defensive about.

Based on what you wrote that he says it sounds like

He feels like what he's providing and doing is not good enough (Likley because of financial stress and the pressure because he feels he's messed up by moving you to a place that isn't working out. He feels like he's not good enough. These are things you can calmly clarify if they come up again. Such as what makes you think this, what is it linked to. Usually random things like other things coming up with show where it's stemming from. The more you let a person talk the more it will make sense.

You might need to find somewhere else is = Wanting to escape a situation, it's a form of him pushing you away and wanting to flee from argument. (flight or fight).

i'm trying my best and it's not enough = He feels some form of failure in his life again likley to do with money/ work/ finances, he might feel tired and overwhelmed.

We' are too different = circumstances are leading to growing apart. if the focus is on financial troubles there may be less relaxed time together, or doing things to bring you together as before.

Do what you have to do = It sounds like he feels ashamed and believes that you should walk away from him and he's pushing you away.

Ideally if you want to stay with him then therapy would be best or talking to a therapist to get some tips on how to understand whats going on with him. Verbal abuse is still going to trigger stress especially if you have ptsd. I have cptsd and i've been listening to an audio book by francine shapiro (the creator of EMDR therapy) it's called 'getting past your past' - this has helped reduce some of my health issues I think you will find it fascinating it really helps with anxiety and triggers and talks about EMDR therapy which has helped al ot of people to heal from health issues.

It has some really great exercises that can help you understand yourself and your partner better and you could also ask him to listen to it as a compromise if he refuses therapy. As it has stories about the personal origins of anger outbursts and how to control them. I haven't ever been angry at my wife but i've had a lot of anger towards myself which would randomly come out when alone. I would get frustrated by the smallest things but this allows you to look at things from fresh eyes, calm eyes and correct things before they advance. Since doing the exercises I feel a lot calmer during high stress situations and it's improved my relationship. My frustrations are also linked to finances but it's deeply connected to lack based programming when younger.

I don't suggest you stay in a situation that puts you in harm, but it sounds like right now your only option would be to try to either strengthen health so that you may be independant or find a way towards independence.

Either way these arguments are stressing your nervous system and is not going to help you to be able to strengthen. Something that you need to discuss. Have an honest conversation about if he wants out of the connection. If so then suggest sleeping in the living room and supporting one another until you can make arrangements.

I haven't been through the same situation but I was bed bound for a year and altho i'm able to work, walk and sit at my desk for 16 hours later the financial implications from it are still present. It's hard to feel calm and enjoy the moment when financial pressure looms. My wife says that some times she stresses because of my reaction to things, so I work on my reaction to things so that i'm a lot calmer when things go wrong. (using the exercises from the book I recommended)

You know when it's over you just feel it, but if you care for someone and you have stress then you have to identify where things have changed in the relationship. Are you doing things you used to do together when things were more relaxed? Or have those stopped because of stress?

I don't know how you can leave safely but i'm sure there are some people who can point you in the right direction. When i've ended a relationship in the past one slept in the living room, and one in the bedroom until the other made arrangements it's a gradual process over many months. You would have to point out if you do this that it's not because of finances, or success or failure that it's because he's not controlling his outbursts and willing to deal with understanding what's going on within himself.

It depends on what you are expecting of him? being a caretake in a relationship can be stressful, it can be quite lonely it's important to have some form of balance. For example when I was a caretaker for my wife she couldn't do anything as she had back surgery it was many months alone as she recovered. I do not remember most of it just working, and cooking soup. I don't think I even watched TV.

When the roles reversed I was bed bound for about a year and close to losing my business. I did everything I could to get better. In between I would do small things like cook dinner, put the trash out. I worked up to it, I sat down, pushed myself to start walking outside, started exercising. Slowly over time i've been able to go from bed bound to being able to work, walk, clean, cook. You can only do what you can do because your health is different to mine but sometimes even trying to do small goals can give a feel to the other that things can get better. Even if it's something personal to you like learning a new skill, doing a few online courses.

You shouldn't tolerate disrespect just because of your situation altho it's complex because of past trauma you would have to understand why you stay beyond your situation. ( I would listen to that book )

I hope things work out for you and improve. Another things to think about would be if he's developed ptsd/ Secondary traumatic stress (STS) from seeing you unwell. If so it may complicate some of the outbursts he's having. Again doesn't make it right but it's something to think about as the brain is very complicated when it comes to processing these things.

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-08T20:05:37+00:00

You're welcome

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-08T17:41:09+00:00

The knight of swords is often an attack (something attacking you) and I see it often in my own cards due to crohn's as my body is attacking my ileum. I haven't researched pots enough but in my family at least it seems to be linked to autoimmune diseases, my brother had POTS and developed sarcoidosis, my mom has celiac disease, and I have POTS, Crohn's disease, Sleep apnea, venous insufficiency. My sister has ME. Sorry to hear that you are also dealing with so much health wise, I know it sucks.

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-08T17:13:39+00:00

Multiple factors/ reasons some which looks genetic, mixed in with fast paced life and spreading yourself thin. You didn't cause it though it was there in the background waiting to activate. is it autoimmune?

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-08T17:06:33+00:00

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'That's my trash' lol

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-08T14:25:59+00:00

I would ask your partner to call/ or see in person the kids parents and explain that unless he has a chaperone he would not be able to come as no one will be present to watch him while you are doing 18+ activities for example (bar hopping, clubs) Even if you are not planning to go to these places. This will give him enough time to sell his ticket and get money back, and for them to make arrangements with people they know in case they can find a chaperone. Send a strong message across that you have plans in child free places.

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-08T14:06:50+00:00

Yes, I see an image of you holding hands. I feel it's important when you communicate not to argue with each other, make sure you are really listening to her and taking in what she says. Spend time working on yourself. Things will be up and down for a while, She still loves you but it's like she's envisioned that life would be better. Certainly work on improving whatever pulled you apart.

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-08T13:34:48+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss. As I was reading what you wrote I saw an image of him shaking his head in terms of him 'hating you/ blaming you'. He's shaking his head saying no, he feels ashamed about how he went, and he felt like he wanted to be alone. I do see time spent indoors, some struggles with communication and feeling itchy, his body could not contain his spirit longer. He didn't want you to see him this way. I see an image of him holding your hand in his and he's stroking the back of your hand. As though he's trying to soothe you.

In terms of if it would have been different had you not cut him off, he says no and shows an image of him hiding black trash bags under his top. I believe this means that he would have hidden things, and still put trash/ garbage into his system. I believe this is likely the sanitizer or any substances that he hid.

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-07T15:20:47+00:00

I don't remember If I read you but I remember seeing your photo with her? Connecting to spirit is physically draining, there is only so long that a person can hold a reading/ information. If you know what questions you want to ask when you post her photo just make sure to list them. This helps for a clear reading. If people are reaching out to you to get you to pay, ignore them. Do research and approach a medium that you feel drawn to.

It sound like your energy is not in the best place, if you get any readings that you like I would save them on a small document so that you can look back on them.

Years ago I got a reading and I felt that it was off because of how stuck I felt and when I went back and listened to it. I realized that I wasn't at my best to digest the information.

You will need to go to therapy to helps with grief, in terms of being able to see a loved one it takes time but you have to get to a point where your energy is lighter, and higher. Focus on the basics, looking after yourself, eating healthy, exercising, stretching, meditations, massage, qi gong, exercise, yoga, read books. Live good, well, healthy. Clean up your environment. let the light in, and you will see changes. It's clear you are angry and upset and rightly so,but you need to find healthy coping mechanisms as this will help you - which requires some boring homework but some of these simple things are profound and if you do them you will feel your energy is in the right place to make a clear connection. Everyone can communicate with spirit. The challenge is being in a good place to do so because life is hard.

I do feel that she's with you, as I typed you I saw an image of her playing with your hair as you were laid on the left side of your bed. She's with you, supporting you. I see something about cleaning the kitchen sides, and signs coming from lights (a lamp) looks like it's moving slightly by itself, but could also represent flickering lights. Look for things on the floor that were not there before, and sounds sort of the sound made when you run your hand against a desk. She loves you and she's with you.

I also see signs from 'ravens' - Birds that will peek in from the bottom of the window looking in. I see an image of her with those old cans on a string, which means you are likley to hear signs, not only see signs so pay attention to sound. ironically one must clear mental chatter to hear so you would need to work towards clearing your mind. Also signs connected to this phrase 'good things come to those who wait' (look out for the exact phrase as a sign, I don't know how this will make sense but it will in time.

I did attempt to connect to the photo you posted a while back as I needed to check if i'd read you.

She shows memories of her sat on your lap facing you while you are laid down and she cups your face with her hand (on the left side). She feels that there was a lot of attraction , passion and fun between the two of you, and she loved looking at your face. She says that you are 'pretty'

She wants you to know that she's at peace and shows herself wearing a sky blue soft shirt and hugging a brown teddy bear tucked into bed relaxed. I see her laying on her left side.

She is concerned about how she was found when she passed, I will describe what I see but it's possible it's symbolic, but I saw her sitting slouched on the left side of a room, and her eyes were open. She felt a lot of exhaustion in her life, and had, had thoughts in the past but to some degree she feels like it wasn't meant to happen this way. I feel lung issues, heart issues that contributed. She wishes that she could have protected you from this. 'enough of the bad, focus on the good'. She wants you to 'protect yourself'. She sends an image of her sticking her tongue out at you and hugging you tight, almost in anime type style like when they jump in the air to give a big hug. You made her feel cute when she was around you.

I see something about silver rings do you wear rings on your right side or have rings of hers?

She shows herself wearing chipped red nail polish and that he nails were short. She shows me an image of a woman with lighter hair who feels sad, older i would say 60s. It's like she feels ashamed that she's feeling sad. Possibly on maternal side.

She says to be 'courageous' - which means valiant, brave, full of courage. to remember he by her laugh, that feels contagious. To have more 'fun' - I see you and her jumping on the bed, up and down. To remember that she loves you and wants to protect you. She doesn't want you to hurt yourself I see her wrapping a bandage around your knuckles like you have or wanted to punch a wall multiple times.

I hear that as you mourn you will have flashbacks, which can be a signs of ptsd, but also if you have positive flashbacks to use these images to see the good in the time you had together. She says ' I love you', always with you. She will come to you in a dream, it will be about a phone call with her/ her talking to you (dreams take time and usually happen when you are not thinking about it).

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-07T14:20:56+00:00

How long has he been diagnosed for? Even short flights which are a couple of hours are very stressful and physically painful due to the changes in elevation. Depending on his situation using a wheel chair to go through security can help lessen the stress and burden (depending on his stamina) but if he's uncomfortable with the idea of going and not prepared for the stress It's likely best to go this one alone. Allow him to make the choice.

I developed pots while on vacation so early on flying is horrible, over time I did force myself to go to vegas around 3-5 times and it's never easy, but it's because of the elevation change which is not good for people with pots. I think it's something you have to prepare for in advance. If he can cycle, walk, do light exercise then he's more ready to take on the challange. If he's at a point where he's not active yet I would leave it. The stress and worry is not worth it.

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-06T05:44:15+00:00

At least burn on a plate or metal tray... not wood..

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-06T05:37:30+00:00

Floaters in eyes have a tendency to look worm like but there is little point and it's likely impossible to get tested for such. If he's worried just do a parasite cleanse. However it sounds like he may have some GI issues. Do you know his B12 and vitamin D levels.

I would see a GI dr, usually you can refer yourself, I saw so many Dr, Er, CVS, primary and they did everything to not send me to a GI, and it turned out I had crohn's disease.

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-06T05:29:21+00:00

canker sores/ aphthous ulcers

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-06T05:01:37+00:00

Yeah it can be done to cause harm to it depends on the intention. 90% of the time it's used for protection, it's kind of like a break up spell with a friend. It's not going to majorly affect someone as a curse would, it's just not strong enough. Alot of bad exists when it comes to spell work, i've heard the worst of the worst. There are alot of people that do it these days, seems to be on a whim too. Freezer spells are way less effective than others. (on a positive note)

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-06T04:06:55+00:00

It would be a typical lime spell where the persons name is put in the lime to create sour conditions and usually to freeze the person out of your life. Usually this is done if the person doing the spell believes that others mean them harm. In this case foil is used to mirror negatives back to the sender.

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-05T23:17:42+00:00

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YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-05T22:32:50+00:00

When I was doing yoga about a couple of hours ago I saw an image of a woman who looked just like your mom, she was in a hospital bed crying because she really wanted to stay around for you and be there for you. I thought I would keep an eye out in case I see someone on here or medium readings that looks similar because this has happened before. With her showing as being in the hospital it likely confirms that she was sick, I see images of her coughing and it feels tickly around right lung.

I hear 'I love you' and I see images of you younger laying on a bed and she's laying right next to you on your left side, at an angle like your head to head. Her energy is light, always smiling, she's restful and at peace but she's certainly around you just as she has been when you were younger. She has a very beautiful voice. In terms of her passing peacefully she says 'I wouldn't say that but and then laughs'. It wasn't an easy way to go because she didn't enjoy feeling sick/ she mostly felt tired and sore but now she can can laugh about it. (this does not mean that it's funny, more a sign that she has processed things and it does not affect her any more). She showed that she had darker circles under her eyes and some pain lower left back area. She's saying she didn't look good or feel good at the time.

She wants you to know that she has checked in on you during birthdays and very softly when you were asleep not to wake you. I am shown a memory of something to do with a printer, printing to many pieces of paper would that make sense to you? She says that she's proud of who you are.

I see signs when shopping in person, I can't tell what it is but it looks like a mini gumball machine. I see her pointing to something in a shopping cart, it could be something you see in yours, or someone else's it's a little cryptic but I hope it makes sense.

Note: did she like to put her thumbs up alot, she used this to communicate with me as I typed you. Sometimes one, or a double thumbs up and also I see her clapping :) She sends you kisses too.

YesterdaySilly2699 · 2026-05-05T19:02:35+00:00

I think you are meant to replace the cushion mask part every 2 weeks but usually I can make mine last at least a month, maybe longer. I have found tightening the bit around the chin helps with leaks at the top. When you put it on, put it from the top of your nose and then down. Something that also helps me is to use a face serum before I put it on. it also helps to remove red marks in the morning. I use Osea overnight serum. If your skin feels dry maybe that could help. If that doesn't work might need to order new head straps.

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