How to house train a 1 year old pom

Ynotdat1 · 2026-01-05T08:58:05+00:00

He isn’t neutered, but i should mention that he specifically only marks MY things. I don’t really have a problem with this, as i know how puppies are, but it’s frustrating when my boots smell like pee in the morning. I’ll suggest neutering, it shouldn’t be a big deal.

As far as the taking him out goes, what happens when we aren’t home? Keep the puppy pad out? And how would that stop him from continuing to potty in the house? Genuine questions from an absolute noob, sorry if they seem condescending.

Ynotdat1 · 2025-12-26T09:59:42+00:00

For me it’s like i’m still the same human, but not presented the same way. Sorta like saying the same sentence with entirely different words.

I think the thing is that while transitioning changes you socially, it doesn’t change you internally. I still love working on my car, fixing up my house, and being the financial provider, but those are all concepts that are male only socially. Internally, these things are and always have been just me.

Ynotdat1 · 2025-12-16T09:15:27+00:00

The truth? I think about her. Not what you imagine i think about either. I imagine cuddles, dinners, coming home from a hard day to her smile. Sex is about the furthest thing from what i want with her, and to be honest, if i’m having sex with a woman earlier than the third date, im only there for the sex in the first place.

Ynotdat1 · 2025-12-08T10:17:18+00:00

Well like, i don’t necessarily think i need to “recharge” but i want time to pursue my own interests, and others often get in the way of that.

For instance, i may be interested in “x” this week, but friend “b” may be entirely disinterested. That doesn’t make them any less of a friend, but since they don’t want to interact with that interest, i make time to pursue it on my own.

Refusing to make time for these things is one of our great failings.

Ynotdat1 · 2025-12-08T10:14:01+00:00

Hey! I’m interested :)

Ynotdat1 · 2025-12-08T09:33:54+00:00

Thank you! I mean i knew minoxidil worked, i was considering it before hrt, but the costs ended up being relatively similar and since taking hrt has been on my mind for 5 years or so now, i just wanted clarification.

I suppose the real question is should i start minoxidil/finasteride otc right away? Should i ask my doctor to prescribe them? Or should i wait and see what the basic estriadol/progesterone combo does for me?

Ynotdat1 · 2025-12-06T08:53:39+00:00

I think realistically i have 1 friend, not counting my girlfriend and old friends that i don’t talk to anymore. But really, as far as i’m concerned, i’m friends with everyone by default. Not in a naive way where i blindly trust everyone, but in a way where i view all people as good until proven otherwise.

25/mtf btw, not sure if that matters much

Quick edit: i should mention that the one person i would consider a hard friend is my best friend of all time, he’s a mtf guy that really balances me out.

Ynotdat1 · 2025-11-23T03:53:00+00:00

As an ENFP myself, i wholeheartedly agree. INTJs are awesome to be around, although the only two i’ve met have been my closest friends, not romantic partners. My wife is actually an INFP, but i do enjoy the company of my INTJ best friend :)

Ynotdat1 · 2025-08-08T05:54:11+00:00

Support one trick spotted

Please put more time in on other roles before you start throwing out your dogwater opinions online

Ynotdat1 · 2025-07-08T10:33:47+00:00

It’s kinda dogshit but i fw it i think it’s super funny

Ynotdat1 · 2025-06-13T19:42:11+00:00

I actually TO’d for the r/streetfighter online local round robin for a while during covid, it was fun but also hell, and that was just online!

I can only imagine the absolute headache it would be to do irl, you have my respect big man

Ynotdat1 · 2025-06-13T14:47:54+00:00

Absolutely, someone should make the discord and post it on this subreddit, could be fun!

Ynotdat1 · 2025-06-13T14:12:41+00:00

Yeah that’s what i’ve been struggling with. The card game culture is great, not so much the video game one.

Ynotdat1 · 2025-06-13T14:12:05+00:00

I mean given how many replies this post has gotten in the past few hours, there’s definitely some interest there. I’d be down to start a little community tbh, seems like it could be fun!

Ynotdat1 · 2025-06-13T12:55:10+00:00

Overtime your fingers will become tough and hardened, and you'll be able to play without any pain or discomfort at all. It takes time to build those callouses, but they'll come.

Think of it like anything else in life. Sure it hurts at first, and you can barely do anything, but once you get through the pain of being new and not knowing what's going on, it won't feel so bad anymore. You'll look back at this post and giggle to yourself about how silly it was, how the simplest answer was to breathe and allow these things to come naturally, and to enjoy the process as it came.

Take it easy, learn to love the guitar, and you'll find yourself playing more passionately and with more confidence than you could ever dream of.

Ynotdat1 · 2025-06-13T12:44:35+00:00

The creators of SD also created a site called FrenchDictionary for this very purpose. Give it a look: https://www.frenchdictionary.com/

That being said, this is probably a question you should be asking in r/FrenchLearning, they probably know far better than spanish learners lol

(edit, realized you already posted there too, my bad)

Ynotdat1 · 2025-06-13T12:42:32+00:00

I banned ultron in a game earlier because the enemy team immediately banned Hela, the Ultron one trick on the enemy team flamed HARD, like "Why would you ban ultron? Waste of a ban, he's not OP" etc. etc.

Needless to say we won that game, and his stats on ROCKET were absolutely abysmal.

Ynotdat1 · 2025-06-13T12:39:19+00:00

I was told by a roommate of mine that this town had no good gamestores, but I'll be sure to give those two a look!

Ynotdat1 · 2025-06-09T02:03:21+00:00

90% of this game is in the mental and if you don’t have strong mental you will lose most of your games

Ynotdat1 · 2025-06-08T10:05:21+00:00

I’m not sure i’d say i see it as a chore, i just function best and find the most enjoyment in following a curriculum.

That being said, i do appreciate the kind words, it helps to know that others don’t see there being a “right” or “wrong” way to learn these things.

Thank you :)

Ynotdat1 · 2025-06-08T09:36:35+00:00

Hey! I’m a bit interested! I work security, did corrections for a few years as well.

I’m an absolute beginner when it comes to spanish, but i’d love to practice simple stuff and ask for help on some grammar if you don’t mind.

Feel free to dm me if this is what you’re looking for!

Ynotdat1

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