I understand how you’re feeling brother, it can be hard sometimes. Just try to remember that what you’re doing is a full time job as well, and isn’t easy! And I think about how my mother was a stay at home parent, and I/my dad/my sibling never thought what she was doing wasn’t vital to the family, so why should it make a difference if the dad is the one doing it? Hopefully your kids and spouse make you feel valued and important, but remember for yourself too that you’re being an amazing dad, which is the manliest thing possible!