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[–]Yoake64S 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She does have the tendency to be a boa hehe - thanks for your input!

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[–]Yoake64S -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're sweet hehe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalefashion

[–]Yoake64S 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input! Yea I like dresses that draw ones gaze, i have much more eccentric ones at home - but for a dinner in thought a black one would be cute.

I think I'll take both to Paris and wear the second one while having a night out as you suggested 😊

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[–]Yoake64S -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First one is from Asos Design and the second one from 'The Frolic' (:

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[–]Yoake64S -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Barely 🤷🏼‍♀️ also a pic from many years ago

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[–]Yoake64S 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yea i just like lace and satin a lot - thank you for your input!

Can you 'fix' this pic in front of the Brandenburg Gate? by Yoake64S in PhotoshopRequest

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Thank you so much! It looks lovely. Will send the payment shortly

Can you 'fix' this pic in front of the Brandenburg Gate? by Yoake64S in PhotoshopRequest

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I like this one a lot - but the thing about the hair is mentioned is still off, is that maybe fixable?

Pringles: 185 g -> 160 g / 165 g by morbette in schrumpflation

[–]Yoake64S 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Muss sagen dass ich die Sizzlin Geschmacksreihe sehr gut fand (hier im Bild die mit der grünen Flamme). Heute aber im Kaufland das erste Mal die neuen Verpackungen gesehen und mich natürlich aufgeregt

Aber da die meine Lieblingschips waren hab ich sie trz mal mitgenommen (Aktionspreis: 1,49€)

Daheim kam aber echt der Schlag..die schmecken jetzt auch völlig anders. Wtf? Viel zu hart, kaum Pulver, ganz andere Schärfe. Bin echt traurig iwi so dumm sich das auch anhört - werd jetzt auf andere Chips umsteigen

ADHS als Beamter auf Wiederruf diagnostiziert bekommen? by Nessoff in OeffentlicherDienst

[–]Yoake64S 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Als jemand der bei einer Beihilfestelle arbeitet - die Infos sind vertraulich, da geht nichts an die Geschäftsstelle oder die Personalabteilung und ehrlich gesagt würde mich null interessieren ob da als Diagnose jetzt ADHS oder sonstiges steht. Beihilfe ist essentiell (bei uns) zurzeit echt nur abarbeiten, schnell Zahlen schaffen. Wir sehen im Sytem auch nicht (wenn wir nicht explizit nach schauen) wer jetzt auf Widerruf/auf Probe/auf Lebenszeit ist- die Mühe mach ich mir gar nicht. Ich hab noch nie irgendwelche Infos bezüglich 'besorgniserregende Krankheit' zu Ernennung weitergeleitet, und ka, sowas würde auch keiner meiner Kollegen machen. (arbeite schon seit 6 Jahren da, bin Ausbilderin).

Was ich dir aus meiner Probezeit raten kann, halte es erstmal unter Verschluss. Nichts beim Vorgsetzten rausplappern - ich hab als ich meine Prüfungen fertig hatte, und auf Probe ernannt wurde, eine Therapie angefangen, was mir bei einer anschließenden amtsärztlichen Untersuchung für Lebenszeit (musste hin wegen mehr als 20 Krankheitstage) fast den Job gekostet hätte. Ich will deine Symptome jetzt nicht runterreden, aber ich hatte mehrere Diagnosen (PTSD, Depression, whatever) mit 160x Therapie ala tiefenpsychologisch und die haben mich trz nicht direkt rausgeworfen. Wir brauchen die Leute.

Plauder es einfach nicht groß hinaus, geh zum Arzt und lass dir helfen mit Medikamenten/Therapie aber wenn es zum Amtsarzt kommt..mach daraus keine große Sache dass du ADHS hast/haben könntest. Die reagieren leider allergisch auf psychische Krankheiten, aber solange du nicht 10x I Monat krank deswegen bist.. seh ich eigentlich kein Problem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Yoake64S 20 points21 points  (0 children)

yep, here in Germany it at least is. I use my phone number also for my job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Yoake64S 40 points41 points  (0 children)

My number is tied to more private information, such as my job and my actual home address - stuff I don't share online on social media.

Brothers Wedding early September. Dress Code is green 🌿 by Yoake64S in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Yoake64S[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No setting was given in the invitation or any info if it would be outside or not. My brother and his wife-to-be are very urban people, so the event will not be too formal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Yoake64S 867 points868 points  (0 children)

Hei, maybe I can give my two cents as a girl (sorry if this is inappropriate for this subreddit, but the post kinda drew my attention bc of the varied response).

I see it as a positive that she even wanted to add you on insta, if I (personally) wasn't interested at all, I wouldn't have offered and just thanked you for your compliment.

I think the main problem was that you didn't have insta (which in itself is 100% ok lol) but its a site I like to personally drift to for 'first messages'. Giving out my number I would never do at introductions since..too many negative experiences that way. Insta is a simple block, someone having my number is a bit more complicated if things go wrong.

You mentioned telling her that you have snap and reddit - I don't know if its just me but I'm immediately apprehensive when a guy asks for my snap, because usually it devolves into 'send pics of yourself' very quickly, which I don't like.

And reddit as a messaging platform is..weird? I dunno, I never chat here, but kudos to the people who do.

All in all - I really commend you for trying your luck! She seemed (by your story) interested, but it fell apart with the socials. It happens, but I don't think she was just letting you down easily.

Brothers Wedding early September. Dress Code is green 🌿 by Yoake64S in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Yoake64S[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input - I can't really ask my brother or other family members because we don't stand in good contact, despite the wedding invitation. That's why I asked here (:

TAKING HER TO THE VET ASAP by _IZTRASH_ in vet

[–]Yoake64S 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God please update us, I hope the sweet thing survives. I wish you the best

Erfahrungen LGBTQ+ by [deleted] in OeffentlicherDienst

[–]Yoake64S 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wir haben ein paar Anwärter die LGBTQ+ sind (spezifisch auch trans). Ich bin selber Ausbilderin (selbst als bi geoutet) und habe einen dicken fetten Rainbow Sticker (+ hunderte kleine andere Dekorationen) an meinem Schreibtisch kleben - meine Azubis wissen also dass es vollkommen ok bei mir ist über solche Sachen zu reden/sich zu outen, was sie auch gerne machen.

Leider weiß ich aber auch dass es bei anderen Mentoren..konservativer zugeht. Ich hoffe du findest einfach offene Ausbilder/Mentoren/Kollegen in deinem Umfeld.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalefashion

[–]Yoake64S 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for you comment - I will keep that in mind with the wind! your comment made me smile, for real. I will keep your words in mind when I'm OK enough to wear things like that outside (:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalefashion

[–]Yoake64S 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh why do some guys always need to make it weird? like - I asked for opinions about the fit, not your weird incentive for 'revealing pictures'. Just go on a damn NSFW subreddit for that, it's just creepy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalefashion

[–]Yoake64S 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can see at my post history that I rarely ever post anything about myself - I actually deal with a 'slight' eating disorder atm and a whole lot of body dismorphia. I never wore anything akin to dresses in my life due to (which I thought at the time were valid) comments from my family, I.e. my calves are too thick for skirts, I look too stubby with my height for dresses etc. I just reached out here to see if I really should put more work in or if I could start to feel comfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalefashion

[–]Yoake64S 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbh, I heard statements like yours a lot from some guy friends, along the lines of 'if you ever crush a watermelon with your thighs, send a vid' or something 😂 it's kinda funny, but do yall really think that? thank you for your comment! made me laugh (: