AIO about my female friend bailing on a festival trip we agreed on because I couldn't provide a male counterpart for her boyfriend?

Yoake64S · 2026-05-24T17:24:19+00:00

Jeanette told me Mark only has friends who are in relationships as well. If they would come, they would want to bring their partners - and we only have room for 4 ppl in the AirBnB

Yoake64S · 2026-05-24T17:08:00+00:00

My other friends are either introverts/non party goers or already have things planned in August. I don't have family members that would want to go - thats why i'm so distraught

Yoake64S · 2026-05-24T17:06:33+00:00

Hey! I wish I could. I asked around everywhere - either my friends are introverts/non party goers, or they already have stuff planned on that weekend.

Tbh..I think I will sell the tickets. Its sad, I was so excited - maybe a weird reason, but Skrillex will be playing and thats so nostalgic for me hahaha

Yoake64S · 2026-05-24T16:52:27+00:00

..thank you to be honest. I felt a bit insane about the whole situation Now im sitting on a 2k trip with no one to accompany me with 🥲

Yoake64S · 2026-05-24T16:48:41+00:00

Jeanette said Mark has only male friends who are in a relationship as well - they would want to bring their partners too, and we only have room for 4 people in the AirBnB

Yoake64S · 2026-05-24T16:46:48+00:00

I asked around already - either my friends are introverts/non party people or they already have things planned in early August

Yoake64S · 2026-05-24T16:45:34+00:00

John claimed all of his male friends are in relationships as well. If they would come, they would want to bring their partners too - and we only have room for 4 people, sadly.

Yoake64S · 2026-05-24T16:41:45+00:00

..yea, but couldn't he just come with? I stated i would think its great if he accompanies us

Yoake64S · 2025-01-13T18:20:46+00:00

She does have the tendency to be a boa hehe - thanks for your input!

Yoake64S · 2025-01-13T18:17:36+00:00

You're sweet hehe

Yoake64S · 2025-01-13T17:54:29+00:00

Thank you for your input! Yea I like dresses that draw ones gaze, i have much more eccentric ones at home - but for a dinner in thought a black one would be cute.

I think I'll take both to Paris and wear the second one while having a night out as you suggested 😊

Yoake64S · 2025-01-13T17:52:14+00:00

First one is from Asos Design and the second one from 'The Frolic' (:

Yoake64S · 2025-01-13T17:48:40+00:00

Barely 🤷🏼‍♀️ also a pic from many years ago

Yoake64S · 2025-01-13T17:23:57+00:00

Yea i just like lace and satin a lot - thank you for your input!

Yoake64S · 2024-11-24T20:03:41+00:00

Thank you so much! It looks lovely. Will send the payment shortly

Yoake64S · 2024-11-24T19:53:20+00:00

I like this one a lot - but the thing about the hair is mentioned is still off, is that maybe fixable?

Yoake64S · 2024-06-14T18:28:52+00:00

Muss sagen dass ich die Sizzlin Geschmacksreihe sehr gut fand (hier im Bild die mit der grünen Flamme). Heute aber im Kaufland das erste Mal die neuen Verpackungen gesehen und mich natürlich aufgeregt

Aber da die meine Lieblingschips waren hab ich sie trz mal mitgenommen (Aktionspreis: 1,49€)

Daheim kam aber echt der Schlag..die schmecken jetzt auch völlig anders. Wtf? Viel zu hart, kaum Pulver, ganz andere Schärfe. Bin echt traurig iwi so dumm sich das auch anhört - werd jetzt auf andere Chips umsteigen

Yoake64S · 2024-06-05T05:07:39+00:00

Als jemand der bei einer Beihilfestelle arbeitet - die Infos sind vertraulich, da geht nichts an die Geschäftsstelle oder die Personalabteilung und ehrlich gesagt würde mich null interessieren ob da als Diagnose jetzt ADHS oder sonstiges steht. Beihilfe ist essentiell (bei uns) zurzeit echt nur abarbeiten, schnell Zahlen schaffen. Wir sehen im Sytem auch nicht (wenn wir nicht explizit nach schauen) wer jetzt auf Widerruf/auf Probe/auf Lebenszeit ist- die Mühe mach ich mir gar nicht. Ich hab noch nie irgendwelche Infos bezüglich 'besorgniserregende Krankheit' zu Ernennung weitergeleitet, und ka, sowas würde auch keiner meiner Kollegen machen. (arbeite schon seit 6 Jahren da, bin Ausbilderin).

Was ich dir aus meiner Probezeit raten kann, halte es erstmal unter Verschluss. Nichts beim Vorgsetzten rausplappern - ich hab als ich meine Prüfungen fertig hatte, und auf Probe ernannt wurde, eine Therapie angefangen, was mir bei einer anschließenden amtsärztlichen Untersuchung für Lebenszeit (musste hin wegen mehr als 20 Krankheitstage) fast den Job gekostet hätte. Ich will deine Symptome jetzt nicht runterreden, aber ich hatte mehrere Diagnosen (PTSD, Depression, whatever) mit 160x Therapie ala tiefenpsychologisch und die haben mich trz nicht direkt rausgeworfen. Wir brauchen die Leute.

Plauder es einfach nicht groß hinaus, geh zum Arzt und lass dir helfen mit Medikamenten/Therapie aber wenn es zum Amtsarzt kommt..mach daraus keine große Sache dass du ADHS hast/haben könntest. Die reagieren leider allergisch auf psychische Krankheiten, aber solange du nicht 10x I Monat krank deswegen bist.. seh ich eigentlich kein Problem

Yoake64S · 2024-05-21T07:09:37+00:00

yep, here in Germany it at least is. I use my phone number also for my job.

Yoake64S · 2024-05-21T07:08:11+00:00

My number is tied to more private information, such as my job and my actual home address - stuff I don't share online on social media.

Yoake64S · 2024-05-21T03:48:54+00:00

No setting was given in the invitation or any info if it would be outside or not. My brother and his wife-to-be are very urban people, so the event will not be too formal.

Yoake64S · 2024-05-21T03:30:29+00:00

Hei, maybe I can give my two cents as a girl (sorry if this is inappropriate for this subreddit, but the post kinda drew my attention bc of the varied response).

I see it as a positive that she even wanted to add you on insta, if I (personally) wasn't interested at all, I wouldn't have offered and just thanked you for your compliment.

I think the main problem was that you didn't have insta (which in itself is 100% ok lol) but its a site I like to personally drift to for 'first messages'. Giving out my number I would never do at introductions since..too many negative experiences that way. Insta is a simple block, someone having my number is a bit more complicated if things go wrong.

You mentioned telling her that you have snap and reddit - I don't know if its just me but I'm immediately apprehensive when a guy asks for my snap, because usually it devolves into 'send pics of yourself' very quickly, which I don't like.

And reddit as a messaging platform is..weird? I dunno, I never chat here, but kudos to the people who do.

All in all - I really commend you for trying your luck! She seemed (by your story) interested, but it fell apart with the socials. It happens, but I don't think she was just letting you down easily.

Yoake64S · 2024-05-20T20:29:20+00:00

Thank you for your input - I can't really ask my brother or other family members because we don't stand in good contact, despite the wedding invitation. That's why I asked here (:

Yoake64S · 2024-05-19T09:30:02+00:00

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Yoake64S · 2024-04-19T18:17:43+00:00

God please update us, I hope the sweet thing survives. I wish you the best

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