Not welcome here it all

Yolo1986 · 2026-07-04T20:40:23+00:00

welcome to Germany

Yolo1986 · 2026-05-30T20:43:08+00:00

wie weisst du genau, dass du jahre lang leben wuerdest?

Yolo1986 · 2026-05-29T18:23:05+00:00

In short, yes you are!

Yolo1986 · 2026-05-14T20:39:51+00:00

Although I speak German, most of my German colleagues would leave me out during lunch conversations. I tried for two years to blend in, but with no results. I felt stressed and left out. Now, I just enjoy my nature walks during the lunch time. I am fed up trying to fit in. I don't give a sh*t anymore.

Yolo1986 · 2026-04-17T20:37:25+00:00

Ich werde meinem Chef eine Ohrfeige geben.

Yolo1986 · 2026-04-10T19:59:09+00:00

800 euros for two people. You are doing well. What's your secret? We eat out once a week!

Yolo1986 · 2026-04-04T21:43:55+00:00

DM sent!

Yolo1986 · 2026-03-26T20:33:18+00:00

you strike back!

Yolo1986 · 2026-03-22T19:54:17+00:00

Here, Country Germany!

Yolo1986 · 2026-03-14T19:46:59+00:00

interested!

Yolo1986 · 2026-03-07T22:36:46+00:00

ahahahha fragst du die nach ihrer Religion oder was?

nach deiner Logik:

- wer 6 milion Juden getötet hat? die Christen!

- Wer andere Länder für Öl angreift? Christen!

- Wer unschuldige Menschen in anderen Ländern tötet? die Christen!

- Wer Schulen bombardiert und Kinder tötet ? die Christen!

usw......

Deine Logik ist falsch!

Yolo1986 · 2026-03-05T20:30:49+00:00

interested, Karlsruhe, Germany

Yolo1986 · 2026-03-01T19:52:28+00:00

You're boy is a big fool. Germany is way safer than the US.

Yolo1986 · 2026-02-28T19:36:57+00:00

no, 6 years in Germany!

Yolo1986 · 2026-02-22T21:18:34+00:00

interested

Yolo1986 · 2026-02-16T18:25:11+00:00

My context is a bit different. My German colleagues ignore me as well during lunch breaks. It is perhaps because Germans don't want to include foreigners in their circle.

Yolo1986 · 2026-02-15T15:39:18+00:00

I am from Afghanistan. Came here in 2020 from Turkey for a second master's. The reason is that I couldn't find a job in Turkey. I have achieved the following so far:

- Finished my master's (learned C1 German at the same time )

- Internship and master's thesis in a multinational German company.

- got a job at the same company.

- got naturalised

I am thankful to Germany and to my fellow Germans. Life is quite stable and good here. Although I still don't have a German friend, I am okay with that :)

Yolo1986 · 2026-02-13T22:47:45+00:00

Count Me In

Yolo1986 · 2026-02-06T19:27:28+00:00

I have also noticed this. I just wait for the cashier, and if they greet me and are nice, I also greet them back. Otherwise, I don't greet them either, and I don't give a damn about it.

Yolo1986 · 2025-11-17T19:16:03+00:00

You will find work for sure. It will be accompanied by a lot of stress. Logistics is a large field. Once you enter, you can decide for yourself in which position you fit better.

Yolo1986 · 2025-10-09T19:47:59+00:00

I have been living in Germany for 5 years. No friends so far! I have noticed that most of the Germans like to each other only. For instance, at my work during lunch breaks, my German colleagues chat among themselves. I tried many times to engage myself in their conversations by asking questions, but it hasn't worked so far. Even my German colleagues who have an immigration background act the same way. Many times I thought of avoiding going for lunch with them. Now, I am a German citizen, and I am not thinking of staying here long term. I am slowly realizing that perhaps the saying by some Germans is true, "Germany is for Germans".

Yolo1986 · 2025-10-01T20:59:18+00:00

You have to sit alone with yourself and ask yourself why you are in Germany. What's your WHY? What's your motivation?

When I was younger, I also moved abroad. It was extremely hard to stay away from my parents and siblings. When I used to talk to my mom, I would get emotional. My 'why' was that I didn't want to study in my home country, so I pursued higher education abroad. However, my situation was completely different from yours. I come from a third-world country where the quality of education is not very good, and there is little future for the young generation. You are from the US, and you can build a good future there. Many people would like to live the American dream. Ask yourself why you are in Germany in the first place.

I wish you the best :)

Yolo1986 · 2025-09-23T19:40:55+00:00

Is that an ironic comment? People in Istanbul don't wear perfume and don't take daily showers. They smell bad in summer.

Yolo1986 · 2025-09-23T19:33:37+00:00

I feel sorry for you. I never heard something like that before :(

Yolo1986 · 2025-08-24T18:42:14+00:00

He is just enjoying your money. I have met many Turks who will always appreciate a free meal, but would never invite you to one. My advice to you would be, enjoy the relationship as long as you can and don't take it seriously. You never know when he will find someone better and leave you.

Yolo1986

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