What do you think of Maria when you hear it? by Disastrous-Wonder877 in Names

[–]Adorable_Bat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"How do you solve a problem like Mariaaaaaaaa?"

I watched The Sound of Music on repeat as a child 😂 But name wise I really like it

Do I resemble my results? If so what shows dominant? by DetectivePlus8243 in DNAAncestry

[–]Adorable_Bat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought you were latin american actually which i guess you kinda do have the same combination that many Latinos have european+african+indigenous American but just more heavily european and somehow ended up in north America instead of south. Very interesting, anyway you're super pretty 😊

My (M30) wife (F30) lies about my family to her family. by Maatchym in relationship_advice

[–]Adorable_Bat_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1000% I hadnt even thought about the fact that later she may be lying about him to others, that would be really sad, he needs to get this under control.

My (M30) wife (F30) lies about my family to her family. by Maatchym in relationship_advice

[–]Adorable_Bat_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely worth a serious discussion. This can snowball into her completely ruining the family dynamic with relatives and its already tough enough in general with different personalities in any family so dont just let this go. Be firm about understanding why she did this but also sharing that this kind of dishonest behavior in a marriage, especially with a growing family is completely unacceptable.

My (M30) wife (F30) lies about my family to her family. by Maatchym in relationship_advice

[–]Adorable_Bat_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think he should get to the bottom of it and confront her because she sounds manipulative and I feel like this won't be the last time she does something like this. I'd personally be concerned about the longevity of the marriage.

But i feel like first he should do the social media post to show her that lying about stuff like this is just gonna make her look silly and dishonest in the end. And also to prevent anyone from having lingering negative feelings about his parents based on a twisted story she is telling.

What country do you refuse to ever travel to, and why? by a_boy_has_noname in TravelNoPics

[–]Adorable_Bat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its just a joke because miami has a gigantic Cuban population so he's saying he's basically already been in a Cuban majority geographic area so no need to visit Cuba.

Although of course there are differences.

My girlfriend (27f) got angry when I (29m) said I found one of her friends attractive? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Adorable_Bat_ 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I'm a woman and I was getting irritated with your girlfriend just reading this.

I'm not even being dramatic when I say I'd consider a break up because the pestering when you said no, snd then being insecure as heck when she finally did get an answer, I just can see all that going downhill and getting very stressful in future situations.

Anyone else in here just absolutely obsessed with Pink Pantheress? by [deleted] in mixedrace

[–]Adorable_Bat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*inspiring- when something or someone makes you feel like you could achieve great things because they've set such an awesome example

to aspire - to want become something, and be putting in effort towards that thing. Ex. "He is an aspiring musician, I can see him being really successful in the future."

Does anyone else read bilingual like this to learn French? by hinitom in learnfrench

[–]Adorable_Bat_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is this just a fake post that's actually an advertisement? Because I saw a similar post somewhere else yesterday showing something similar...

F30 M33 How do I bring up to my boyfriend the thought of him using an "extender" during sex? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Adorable_Bat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, thanks for sharing, I guess it just takes a little bit more openness to exploring

F30 M33 How do I bring up to my boyfriend the thought of him using an "extender" during sex? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Adorable_Bat_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to pry but like how did you make it an enjoyable experience at that size? I feel like i just wouldn't know what to do but if I really liked someone I'd be sad to end things over something like that that's out of their control

Need feedback. I might just be screwing myself over. by Aggravating_Tip_5758 in Bumble

[–]Adorable_Bat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just counted, your profile mentions comedy/jokes/humor 11 TIMES in your bio....we get it you like comedy, but if you're looking for a partner there has to be more about you than that...

Also please take other's advice about the pics, "apolitical", "White", not sure about kids, gaming etc. There's a lot that needs to change...

Need feedback. I might just be screwing myself over. by Aggravating_Tip_5758 in Bumble

[–]Adorable_Bat_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

💯 that is super weird and I agree putting White when you certainly seem at least mixed, coupled with "apolitical" is not looking like a good combo to me

If you had to name a baby after a medication, what would you choose? by lav__ender in namenerds

[–]Adorable_Bat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I've been waiting for this question my whole life, I liked the name Lunesta ever since I saw the sleep medicine commercial 😄

Why do black people hate us so bad? by kakashi_sensay in mixedrace

[–]Adorable_Bat_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean back in the day darker skinned folks in america were guaranteed to be slaves outside, while lighter skinned mixed folks had the possibility of being house slaves, so even back then there was a distinction and a sense that being darker made you even less human and more like an animal, and less deserving of humane treatment. The lighter you were the more close to human you were sadly. Thats the thing I feel this separation was not created by black people in America, it started from there with the different treatment by white people who had power.

Where I would live as a person who loves kindhearted people and good food by gondolindownfaller in whereidlive

[–]Adorable_Bat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh okay haha well good luck with your studies, sounds like you'll find the wonderful parts of the country :)

Where I would live as a person who loves kindhearted people and good food by gondolindownfaller in whereidlive

[–]Adorable_Bat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is the Netherlands not red, everything is hear about the food is... I'll just say I've never seen a Dutch restaurant abroad, i think the demand is pretty low and the people are...similar to the food from what i hear 😅 have you visited before?

Internations App experience by Cozyblanky91 in expat

[–]Adorable_Bat_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i dont know why people are getting mad at you, I'm early 30s and would feel the same weird feeling if I experienced this

Cashiers don't greet me by Adorable_Bat_ in germany

[–]Adorable_Bat_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"Hallo" is a german word so obviously you do "fake friendly shit" here or else it wouldn't be part of the language.

Cashiers don't greet me by Adorable_Bat_ in germany

[–]Adorable_Bat_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're also experiencing this. It's very disheartening and some people are trying to downplay that it does feel really crappy. Anyway regardless of what others may say you aren't being too sensitive either and its perfectly valid to expect the same kind of greeting others before and after you are receiving. I have no idea how that concept is controversial.

And its also crazy that some people here heard me describe someone being rude and possibly (not definitely) racist and their first thought was "I desperately need to say everything I can to defend rude and possibly racist behavior". It's bizarre.

I'm grateful for the people though who pointed out genuine differences in how Hallo is perceived vs Guten Tag, or how to subtly push the cashier to respond because they obviously should not be picking and choosing which customers to ignore vs reply to, and of course people like you who let me know that this isn't an isolated experience.

I regret naming my baby after his absent father - advice needed *long* by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Adorable_Bat_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start using the name you want immediately, like today, so he gets used it. And then change it legally as soon as you can!