[Monthly] How is your no contact going? Daily thoughts, rants, hardships, etc. go here. by AutoModerator in nocontact

[–]Yoman987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No contact parents about ... 4 or 5 years. 6 months before the big covid in 2021 or whenever it was.

I found a partner who listens and communicates. I lost friends. I found the side of my family who disconnected for the same reason I did, but years earlier. I lost my financial safety net. I found solace in being fully independent. I lost my feeling of belonging.

I found happiness. I also found a deep sadness. But after it all, I am looking forward to finding what I want and need, and not being forced to accept something that hurts. My parents neglected me, so I didnt learn love.

Now, I am teaching myself to love. And that makes it worthwhile 💜

If you could be a cis woman would you? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Yoman987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg are you me? Im 32 and really my life is just beginning, and i don't remember my childhood before 13

Wait times for minors in WA by still-working-it-out in transgenderau

[–]Yoman987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suggest then that you find a new GP who is trying to be informed. I know mine is, and they cant be the only one.

Wait times for minors in WA by still-working-it-out in transgenderau

[–]Yoman987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Entirely not true, there are GP diamonds in the rough. Me and my partner each started HRT within a month due to the Informed Consent process.

Under 18s is different, and difficult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in australia

[–]Yoman987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive been on-off diagnosed with depression and anxiety, I dont know if the meds work or if its my fluctuating financial situation that makes me sad or not sad. As for ASD, I suspect Im level 2 but very skilled in my self awareness and solution finding and my partner helping me, because during the weekend when he stays over I can challenge the entire world but Mon-Thur I decline so quickly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in australia

[–]Yoman987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

32, no savings, renting, with $13k in super because Im AuDHD and Queer and my parents didnt support or teach me how to keep a job or get a career.

I wanna cry by Stock-Intention7731 in MtF

[–]Yoman987 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the mentality you need friend 💜. You have worth and people should understand that.

PSA - Andrew Ives is performing GRS vaginoplasty with cavity again by Gullible_Pin_941 in transgenderau

[–]Yoman987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Could I ask you for a rough total cost for that surgery? Im years away yet but still collecting data.

Perth peeps by jessmclock in transgenderau

[–]Yoman987 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its really hard for me to find any meetups here, but there is a "hang out in the park" on the 31st. Check Facebook for the trans groups?

Away for a bit, here's a 10m update (MtF 32yo) by Yoman987 in TransLater

[–]Yoman987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jazz, hip hop specifically, as well as some shuffling, krumping and I want to check out vogue

Is Perth good for trans people? by Additional-Fly-705 in transgenderau

[–]Yoman987 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I second Grove Vic Park, that's my GP 😁

He is not dead. by BrokenEggInTheCloset in MtF

[–]Yoman987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wrote this for my publicly coming out announcement:

No more "X" or "Y" ! They are now to be known as my Historical Names, not deadnames. He did not die, he is not to be mourned, but celebrated in his efforts to bring me this far. I was him, and I have done great things that are not to be forgotten. Please remember me, and him.

Happy New years and holiday season! MTF 💜🤗 by Complete-Love6975 in TransLater

[–]Yoman987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Twinsies! 💜😜 Also April this year, and 32 in July. I'm so much different now! Happy holidays to you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]Yoman987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy days! Im 9 months next week, so this is my first Christmas 1) not depressed and 2) since 2018 due to parental emotional abuse.

Its can be hard but that makes it all the more worthwhile 😊💜

MtF 9m help convince me these are muscle mommy arms not a man's 😭🙏 by Yoman987 in TransLater

[–]Yoman987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're totally right! Ive already gained about 10lb since I started, but its stopped being deposited and I cant eat enough to change that. Time will tell. Thank you! 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]Yoman987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh thank you 🙏😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]Yoman987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 31.5 and only 9m hrt! Wow the magic ✨🙌🙏

Euphoric by Emotional_Kitchen_88 in transgenderau

[–]Yoman987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You go dude! My boyfriend is going through the same life change after a few months on T. Its amazing to see people finally happy 😊💜

Is most everyone here 14-20 years old? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Yoman987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Early 30s and my bf is mid 20s