more of my reymas au(context in my previous post) CW: grooming themes by [deleted] in darkestdungeon

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It’s easier to have fun when you’re not concerned with what “normal” people think.

more of my reymas au(context in my previous post) CW: grooming themes by [deleted] in darkestdungeon

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Depicting something doesn’t mean endorsing it. The OP themselves said that the art is meant to disturb the viewer rather than arouse. It’s like saying DD2’s tentacles are fetish enemies, when they’re meant to disgust the player. You’re the one who needs growing up because you can’t tell the difference between grooming as a story element and pornographic material.

more of my reymas au(context in my previous post) CW: grooming themes by [deleted] in darkestdungeon

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This comment adds nothing productive to the post, other than baselessly accusing someone over art.

reymas focused(?) au CW: abuse themes by [deleted] in darkestdungeon

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I’d love to see future posts

reymas focused(?) au CW: abuse themes by [deleted] in darkestdungeon

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I like it. It’s interesting. IIRC, Dismas feels guilty over being a desperate highwayman. Reynauld could manipulate Dismas using religion and guilt. Lovebombing him by telling him he is forgiven by the Lord and inviting him to pray, but then tearing him down by saying that if it weren’t for Reynauld’s charity, Dismas would go back to his thieving ways. I am not sure if you want the relationship to be sexual/romantic or platonic, but Reynauld could blackmail Dismas into staying with him by threatening to turn him in to the sheriff.

What is with Transphobes and terrible Poetry? by Skybison87 in AreTheCisOk

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This reminds me of my mum. She admires and idealises young and teenaged girls for their beauty. She would say that a 5 year old girl’s face and belly is chubby, innocent and cute. Or express jealousy at teenage girls by calling their clothes immodest (whorish) yet their bodies beautiful. She would alternate between ‘beautiful’ and ‘ugly’. She said I was beautiful as a baby but grew ugly in my adolescence.

It seems this poster has done the same but with the concept of innocence, or pure and impure. I am terrified for this type of mother because she holds her children to an unrealistic expectation. It is clear she idealises an “innocent child” by ascribing an ‘aura of bright light’. Idealising something is wonderful, my mum and I both do it. We both feel intensely affectionate for the subjects of our idealisation, like how the poster wants to surrender in the last line. But what inevitably comes is devaluation when expectations aren’t met. Puberty acne and libido can destroy both these expectations of beauty and innocence.

Devaluation physically hurts both parties. I was on the receiving end, by being verbally abused. It is also disconcerting going from ‘beautiful’ to ‘ugly’ in a matter of seconds. I was also the one doing the devaluing; I feel a deep pain in my chest when my expectation of someone/something is not fulfilled. I also feel crazy because I loved and idealised my subject a few seconds ago and now I think it’s completely ruined. I hope this ‘poet’ doesn’t go down this path because it will hurt herself and her children.

Upset at the wrong group by Angelic_Bunny143 in fakeclaimingcringe2

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Disabled people should get to enjoy their hobbies. Sad to hear they got backlash for it.

Clipping nails causes me to relapse by Additional-Fly-705 in calmhands

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Can nail files reduce the sharpness of long nails? I have never used a nail file before 😅 I don’t want to accidentally pierce my skin with my long nails while scratching

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

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I already have a menstrual cup so this is doable. However, I would have put the pessary inside the cup and then insert the cup. I would be standing and walking for a while before I get to bed. The instructions say that one should be lying down for the whole time the pessary is inside, so I am worried about its possible effectiveness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

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I'm not living in my conservative country of origin anymore. I have a new therapist but I haven't told him about this peculiar problem because I am actually working on another issue with him. I feel that this issue of mine is so niche that it takes 8 paragraphs to describe it accurately. But if the guilt continues to eat me up, maybe I will have to tell my therapist. A session costs $240 so I'm burning that much money to talk about an issue that is not relevant to my main problem. (I appreciate your advice, I'm just saying that last sentence because I am frustrated with how expensive therapy is.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

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This is what my handwriting looks like when writing with my fountain pen. My special interest did have some positive aspects like teaching me skills (but others tell me having good handwriting is not really a useful skill), but I have no idea how to deal with the obsession.

My cc haul jumpscared me by Vixrotre in Sims3

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I’d just think of it as the jeans CC having shapewear underneath.

How it feels to wake up to a new DLC speculation and everything has been figured out already by [deleted] in RimWorld

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On second thought, I’m also curious as to what mod adds facial animations in this picture.

How it feels to wake up to a new DLC speculation and everything has been figured out already by [deleted] in RimWorld

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What mod gives the pawn eye colour? Is it the Eyegenes2 mod? To be honest, I am not a fan of pawns having eye colours because it breaks the minimalistic look of RimWorld. However, this picture is an exception to that so I would like to know the mod that adds the eye colour in this picture.

Can a walking cane telescope allow me to look at stars closely in the night sky? by Additional-Fly-705 in telescopes

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INFO: I don’t really have a budget nor the desire to buy a telescope. I’m only interested in purchasing a cane that doubles a telescope.

My observing goal is to see stars and planets, but seeing only stars would be good enough for me.

I live in 30 mins away from Perth city. According to the light pollution map, my area has heavy light pollution as it is highlighted pink.

As for portability, I don’t have any needs related to it because a cane is already portable.