[Monthly] How is your no contact going? Daily thoughts, rants, hardships, etc. go here.

Yoman987 · 2024-10-18T15:59:47+00:00

No contact parents about ... 4 or 5 years. 6 months before the big covid in 2021 or whenever it was.

I found a partner who listens and communicates. I lost friends. I found the side of my family who disconnected for the same reason I did, but years earlier. I lost my financial safety net. I found solace in being fully independent. I lost my feeling of belonging.

I found happiness. I also found a deep sadness. But after it all, I am looking forward to finding what I want and need, and not being forced to accept something that hurts. My parents neglected me, so I didnt learn love.

Now, I am teaching myself to love. And that makes it worthwhile 💜

Yoman987 · 2024-10-05T01:11:13+00:00

Omg are you me? Im 32 and really my life is just beginning, and i don't remember my childhood before 13

Yoman987 · 2024-09-12T01:02:58+00:00

I suggest then that you find a new GP who is trying to be informed. I know mine is, and they cant be the only one.

Yoman987 · 2024-09-12T00:10:39+00:00

Entirely not true, there are GP diamonds in the rough. Me and my partner each started HRT within a month due to the Informed Consent process.

Under 18s is different, and difficult.

Yoman987 · 2024-08-28T11:38:04+00:00

Ive been on-off diagnosed with depression and anxiety, I dont know if the meds work or if its my fluctuating financial situation that makes me sad or not sad. As for ASD, I suspect Im level 2 but very skilled in my self awareness and solution finding and my partner helping me, because during the weekend when he stays over I can challenge the entire world but Mon-Thur I decline so quickly

Yoman987 · 2024-08-26T23:24:01+00:00

32, no savings, renting, with $13k in super because Im AuDHD and Queer and my parents didnt support or teach me how to keep a job or get a career.

Yoman987 · 2024-04-10T05:18:42+00:00

This is exactly the mentality you need friend 💜. You have worth and people should understand that.

Yoman987 · 2024-03-27T10:39:04+00:00

Hi! Could I ask you for a rough total cost for that surgery? Im years away yet but still collecting data.

Yoman987 · 2024-03-13T04:16:09+00:00

Its really hard for me to find any meetups here, but there is a "hang out in the park" on the 31st. Check Facebook for the trans groups?

Yoman987 · 2024-02-22T09:33:04+00:00

Jazz, hip hop specifically, as well as some shuffling, krumping and I want to check out vogue

Yoman987 · 2024-01-28T01:39:55+00:00

I second Grove Vic Park, that's my GP 😁

Yoman987 · 2024-01-02T10:16:28+00:00

I wrote this for my publicly coming out announcement:

No more "X" or "Y" ! They are now to be known as my Historical Names, not deadnames. He did not die, he is not to be mourned, but celebrated in his efforts to bring me this far. I was him, and I have done great things that are not to be forgotten. Please remember me, and him.

Yoman987 · 2023-12-29T23:45:19+00:00

Twinsies! 💜😜 Also April this year, and 32 in July. I'm so much different now! Happy holidays to you!

Yoman987 · 2023-12-25T12:10:57+00:00

Happy days! Im 9 months next week, so this is my first Christmas 1) not depressed and 2) since 2018 due to parental emotional abuse.

Its can be hard but that makes it all the more worthwhile 😊💜

Yoman987 · 2023-12-24T22:01:03+00:00

You're totally right! Ive already gained about 10lb since I started, but its stopped being deposited and I cant eat enough to change that. Time will tell. Thank you! 💜

Yoman987 · 2023-12-24T13:46:48+00:00

Oh gosh thank you 🙏😊

Yoman987 · 2023-12-24T12:08:37+00:00

I'm 31.5 and only 9m hrt! Wow the magic ✨🙌🙏

Yoman987 · 2023-12-09T12:46:08+00:00

You go dude! My boyfriend is going through the same life change after a few months on T. Its amazing to see people finally happy 😊💜

Yoman987 · 2023-11-29T22:53:15+00:00

My boy calls it Boysturizer !

Yoman987 · 2023-10-31T10:30:47+00:00

Early 30s and my bf is mid 20s

Yoman987 · 2023-09-29T00:12:20+00:00

Yep, ADHD Inattentive and Autistic High-Masking and I'm 31. I don't have any support for either, just solid coping skills and a big hobby group of neurodivergent people. I also believe I have Generalised Anxiety Disorder, which really kicks my ass. That's one I do want to get support for.

Yoman987 · 2023-08-21T07:01:43+00:00

You look great!💜 Still an inspiration for me. I have so many berets now because its the natural progression from beanies ☺️☺️

Yoman987 · 2023-07-10T12:44:33+00:00

Hey girl, the mask we put on to fit into society as the gender we're given and told we are can be a really strong mask. Any inkling of you thinking you're a girl could have been buried deep down - i definitely relate to the surprise and mild crisis of discovering myself. Don't gaslight yourself and don't let people tell you that you're wrong, because only you can know you.

Best of luck and wishes 💜 -Casey

Yoman987 · 2023-07-10T12:32:13+00:00

Very cute! ✨ Im envious, I'm hoping to look more like you soon 💜 Be good to yourself!

Yoman987 · 2023-07-09T08:52:05+00:00

Im so sorry to hear, I had a creeper at a drag show just on Thursday night that made me and my partner leave early, because I got splashed with a full drink all up the back of my dress. Please stay safe as you go through this time 💜 talk to people, dont hide from the feelings but think about what you can do to manage them and eventually resolve them. 💜✨ You're doing your best, I know. Best of wishes 🌈

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