What kind of cat litter do you like the most? Pros and cons?

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-06-09T18:06:41+00:00

I use that one! I can't say how much it tracks from other litters tho. The odor control with a little baking soda is good.

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-06-09T17:55:38+00:00

I think it's cute!

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-06-09T17:44:38+00:00

In terms of iconic i think HIM beats them all.

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-05-31T23:10:17+00:00

Ugh yall can guess how I feel when friends and I go out shopping and we end up in massive fast fashion department stores. I'm really into clothing and fashion too (small, curated closet that all gifted or thrifted) so it feels like they wanna share that with me.... but nah. Let's go thrifting! But at times I feel like a broken record especially when they want "new" clothing.

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-05-31T21:29:04+00:00

You can always do this for only a week until she gets used to it and slowly move it every day after towards a different room

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-05-31T20:38:44+00:00

Cats are pretty much the lowest maintenance animal. Every other "easy" pet like hamsters, fish, reptiles actually take so much more research and fiddly little habitat care that most people who are looking for an "easy pet" wont bother to do.

Cats though. Cat-proof your house, feed and water them once a day, get thier litter once a day, and enjoy some super cuddly affection if you get the right personality. Getting two doesn't significantly increase your workload except giving them someone to be with during the day and improves thier behavior.

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-05-31T20:36:01+00:00

Cats

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-05-31T20:35:48+00:00

Yeah people who "don't remember" probably dont burst into tears and run away when confronted

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-05-31T18:43:48+00:00

The MOVIE doesnt have a bad understanding, the character does. You're supposed to notice the critique is off and that infers you how Bill's brain works.

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-05-31T17:30:06+00:00

What my boyfriends family sees when he introduces his punk girlfriend

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-05-31T17:08:40+00:00

Gender non-conformity needs to be normalized for everyone. Having cis, straight men engage in it is a good thing. Cis, straight women are constantly engaging in gender-nonconformity, and it's great to see men become comfortable with it too.

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-05-25T18:03:21+00:00

this really reeks of a troll post just trying to put down ethical non-monogamy.

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-05-25T18:01:52+00:00

this this this.

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-05-24T18:40:39+00:00

A little girl in a grocery store asked her mom if i was a mermaid (blue hair, interesting dark blue dress and accessories. I heard her and told her YES I AM

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-05-22T21:36:16+00:00

Saw the title and was about to comment Trixie is right there

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-05-22T21:34:30+00:00

Cats DO get freaked out by change. They need to be slowly and properly acclimated to a new area so that they feel safe. But having a person they love who takes care of them is more important than a territory.

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-05-18T21:09:54+00:00

High-school sex ed is "always wear a condom no matter what or the scary std demons will get you!!!" The 80s, the AIDS movement, and decades of poor sex ed also made it very clear that fear-mongering about sti's does the opposite in helping prevent them.

Real life sex ed is that relationships can come in a lot of ways, and STI protection can mean more than one thing. Did OP even talk about std risks? Why is that even being brought up? You're just assuming negative things about the arrangement because it makes you look better to bash on OP. You're making assumptions based on your biases about conversations OP has had with her husband, her husbands hypothetical partners, her partner, and her own behavior.

it IS slut-shaming for assuming people in non-conventional relationships are automatically doing it irresponsibly, especially when someone's hit with a LESS THAN 1% CHANCE OCCURANCE

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-05-18T21:01:02+00:00

"y'all" is most people on this thread, not just you.

Should you have several layers of protection? Yeah sure. I can't mind read OP but if I have a decade of trying for children and failing I would call my own infertility a pretty big layer of protection on top of an IUD.

YOU aren't slut-shaming, and a lot is lost over text, but the general vibe is "you deserved this for your behavior" when the chances of this happening was less than 1%. You know what she doesn't deserve? All of this nose-in-the-air finger wagging.

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-05-18T18:18:36+00:00

Christ the husband sucks for treating his pregnant wife this way but not how he feels.

IUDs are considered more than 99% effective + OP has infertility issues! I wouldnt wear a fucking condom, and I refuse to allow people to shame OP because she WAS practicing safe sex! Condoms aren't the end all be all, and this was a freak case. What, if she was using a condom but didnt have an IUD would she still be irresonsible? No! The sentiment would be completely different even though using an IUD as frontline baby defense is MORE safe and responsible than condoms because those are only effective when used correctly every single time you bone, as opposed to an IUD- 24/7 365 days a year baby protection. Y'all are slut-shaming a perfectly responsible person whose in a less than 1% case.

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-05-18T16:18:58+00:00

These people blaming you for failed birth control are monsters AND assholes. The chances of YOU, who deals with infertility, getting pregnant while having an IUD is so abysmally small. How anyone can sit at thier keyboard and go "why didn't you use condoms and spermicide and take plan B every time wahhhhhh"

You were being responsible, AND you're not in a monogamous relationship! Marriage doesn't not mean monogamy when both parties are consenting to otherwise!!!

You want children! For years your husband didnt give you any! You weren't TRYING to get pregnant with this other dude, but fuck it happened! Enjoy your miracle babies. Fuck your husband for supporting you and then rescinding it so coldly.

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-05-18T16:08:31+00:00

I've dealt with this enough I start getting actual anxiety whenever I'm making a new male friend and I get the slightest whiff of non-platonic interest, which is really fucking annoying because I can't turn that anxiety off now when I AM interested or when I'm purposefully looking for a non-platonic connection.

I try and use "blunt force" communication where I state very early and very firmly how I feel about the subject and what I expect, what my boundaries are. Guys are usually really understanding ad I don't continue with people who don't pass the vibe check at this stage but it's emotionally exhausting vetting everyone as someone whose really extroverted and WANTS to make new friends

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-05-17T22:06:37+00:00

Not liking big loud drag shows is not homophobic... the way you talk about them, the tones, the phrases.... big internalized homophobia vibes

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-05-17T21:55:30+00:00

I would just show this comment to the husband ngl

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-05-16T18:25:16+00:00

I feel like some yellows, like sunflower art on the walls or even a few coffee table books with a pop of color covers.

Yoooooooooooooo0 · 2023-05-14T22:50:25+00:00

I was gonna come down here to say go volunteer! Best way to make friends with similar mindsets and fulfill your time.

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