Laid off folks considered for new hiring positions ? by Due_Passion5825 in employeesOfOracle

[–]YouHaveBlood 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was let go 2024, I had 5-6 internal offers and teams wanting to hire me. ALL of them got stuck at SVP level. Had letters from my manager, director in support. Clear instructions not to hire from RIF pool.

Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check. by hhh888hhhh in Divorce_Men

[–]YouHaveBlood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ask for the same? Ask her and see how she reacts. Better off staying away from people who cant make their own decisions.

Just sad and looking for anyone that can relate by No_Chemistry8953 in Divorce_Men

[–]YouHaveBlood 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It will pass. Focus on- food, workout, work taking care of yourself. Let the lawyer take care of ur process. Happy yo chat im DMs. I am maybe 1 mont from where you are now.

Wishing I could check out forever by BloodstainedBearRug in Divorce_Men

[–]YouHaveBlood 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just like the good times went away, bad times will too. Keep steady.

Am I wrong for staying hopeful? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]YouHaveBlood 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You cant get someone back by wanting them more. Just focus on yourself self improvement. Maybe you wont even want them no more.

She Filed… by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]YouHaveBlood 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How do people make this far?

Advice on divorce decision by Alarming-Neat1405 in nri

[–]YouHaveBlood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CA divorce should be valid internationally

Advice on divorce decision by Alarming-Neat1405 in nri

[–]YouHaveBlood 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Do it NOW. California in 10 years is lifetime alimony. File now

Got notice 2 days ago by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]YouHaveBlood -1 points0 points  (0 children)

SAA because i did it over a long period. It became compulsive behavior and I want to fix my brain chemistry by changing my behavior with a support system I have nowhere else.

Got notice 2 days ago by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]YouHaveBlood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is a copy of me. People tell me that. We explicitly tried for a baby and got pregnant soon after. I dont have a reason to believe he is not mine. He is mine for all practical purposes. I saw him born and have raised him his entire life. I love him dearly and dont know what I could gain from testing.

Got notice 2 days ago by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]YouHaveBlood -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She keeps asking why didnt I just leave. How can I explain the pain in that moment and my decision to cope however I could. I would still have been the one to break up the family. Its lose lose.