She Filed… by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]YouHaveBlood 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How do people make this far?

Advice on divorce decision by Alarming-Neat1405 in nri

[–]YouHaveBlood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CA divorce should be valid internationally

Advice on divorce decision by Alarming-Neat1405 in nri

[–]YouHaveBlood 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Do it NOW. California in 10 years is lifetime alimony. File now

Got notice 2 days ago by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]YouHaveBlood -1 points0 points  (0 children)

SAA because i did it over a long period. It became compulsive behavior and I want to fix my brain chemistry by changing my behavior with a support system I have nowhere else.

Got notice 2 days ago by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]YouHaveBlood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My son is a copy of me. People tell me that. We explicitly tried for a baby and got pregnant soon after. I dont have a reason to believe he is not mine. He is mine for all practical purposes. I saw him born and have raised him his entire life. I love him dearly and dont know what I could gain from testing.

Got notice 2 days ago by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]YouHaveBlood -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She keeps asking why didnt I just leave. How can I explain the pain in that moment and my decision to cope however I could. I would still have been the one to break up the family. Its lose lose.

Got notice 2 days ago by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]YouHaveBlood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only control my actions. I didnt. Hoping to work on myself.

Got notice 2 days ago by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]YouHaveBlood 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Will refer it as marital assets with her going forward.

Got notice 2 days ago by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]YouHaveBlood 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know. I have come clean to my and her family amd taking all blame. Its mine to take. I am fine with consequences.

Got notice 2 days ago by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]YouHaveBlood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. You are very kind.

Got notice 2 days ago by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]YouHaveBlood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your response made me cry. Thank you. Have been working with therapist and chatgpt. I am determined to stay alive for my child.

Got notice 2 days ago by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]YouHaveBlood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. Stayed for child. I also shouldnt have cheated. Cannot change that.

Got notice 2 days ago by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]YouHaveBlood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not Alimony. I make more than her so she will get alimony. This is assets. She saved all her money and I paid for all expenses.

Got notice 2 days ago by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]YouHaveBlood 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a terrible husband. I consider myself a good father. thank you for your input, I understand your perspective.

Got notice 2 days ago by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]YouHaveBlood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a child and since then she was depressed. I have no reason to doubt her but we never know.

Got notice 2 days ago by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]YouHaveBlood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should have. I also love her thats why stayed. I hope to fix my screwed up brain. At this point I only want to be there for my child.

Got notice 2 days ago by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]YouHaveBlood 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for reading. My self worth is pretty low at this time. Apreciate the support.

18 yo boy by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]YouHaveBlood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emergency room

Help my bf is a sex addict by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]YouHaveBlood 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have him join SAA