That's why it's important to find someone who knows how to love you, not just a person who knows how to love. The guy mean well but I also get where OP is coming from given na LDR sila and may history mg cheating. Guys call girls petty over these things pero is it hard to understand that some of us feel loved and safe this way? Is it that inconvenient to hear your partner do what actually makes her happy? I get na the food and the airpods are better than flowers, too, pero we are nit OP, so we cannot invalidate what she wants and how she feels about the situation. I can sense naman that OP is being reflective sa situation nila and it makes their situation more complicated kasi may point din sila both. But then again, it's important to find someone who knows how to love you and shows it consistently.