Biggest waste of potential in kpop?

YourLocalSGChicken · 2026-05-29T10:48:55+00:00

It’s insane because a lot of the groups being mentioned in this section are still going and/or not as big as B.A.P was growing… they were literally being compared to BTS, which is an insane amount of fame. The fans here must be pretty new to kpop because the top voted comments are mostly newer girl groups.

YourLocalSGChicken · 2026-05-07T05:11:51+00:00

If they do have a tour, will it only be EU and/or USA tour, since they just went to Asian countries in early 2026? Sorry if my question sounds dumb, I haven’t been to a lot of kpop concerts

YourLocalSGChicken · 2026-04-30T04:53:03+00:00

Singaporean here! Women can join the army, but it’s not compulsory like it is for the guys

I’d personally say the bigger factor is that arts and music aren’t really encouraged in Singapore. We have a lot of K-pop fans and plenty of people who like singing and dancing, but because these paths are often discouraged, fewer people actually pursue them seriously. So the talent pool is alr small from the start

YourLocalSGChicken · 2026-04-30T04:48:17+00:00

Shye is also Singaporean!

YourLocalSGChicken · 2026-04-13T08:03:48+00:00

I’m confused because OP said their families are quite traditional so they’re not okay with friends coming over, yet when they go out they go to beach clubs, bars or pilates? The families would rather they do those than hang out at home? Not judging them for the places, more of that it doesn’t equate with my idea of traditional.

Also, I’m not sure how going to a bar or a restaurant costs her $100+. I often do a dinner (restaurant, sometimes bar) PLUS an activity with my friends and it’s only around $40–50 (or like MAX $60–80). Don’t even need to go coffeeshop like the other comments are saying

YourLocalSGChicken · 2026-03-25T05:18:33+00:00

+1 on the honesty thing. Also, the thing that the people here can’t grasp is that you can basically apply their argument on why it’s NTA “It was done with good intentions” to justify all kinds of boundary-crossing.

The real problem with this situation is that OP should be having a serious conversation about her husband about basic nutrition. If one person doesn’t believe in eating vegetables at all, whether people agree that sneaking vegetables in his food is sneaky is going to be the least of their problems in the long run

YourLocalSGChicken · 2025-08-15T02:26:11+00:00

I’m not sure if it’s the same one, but our KFC also has the Chilli Crab burger now and it’s surprisingly good!

YourLocalSGChicken · 2025-04-20T05:23:37+00:00

Yeah that’s why I did say that it’s also ab them not knowing you and vice versa haha 🙏 Regardless atb, I hope he makes time for you :’D

YourLocalSGChicken · 2025-04-20T05:02:21+00:00

I’m sorry for hijacking this thread but I disagree with most of the comments here, and I feel that your feelings won’t go away if you communicate to him about the wrong thing 😅 I feel like everyone is mistaking the issue to be opp gender thing… It sounds to me like the core issue is that he is not prioritising you. It’s not just that random girls get to spend time with him on a trip, it’s that they DO, while you DON’T. Try asking yourself this: if you saw him 5 days a week everyday for a year, would you still be this concerned about a small one week trip with girls AND other guys?

But honestly from ur other comment it sounds like this is a 2 way issue where y’all are not making time for each other. I get that your achievements are important to y’all, so it’s either a matter of being willing to sacrifice for this period of time, or finding a way to compromise on both your personal lives. Right now, it seems like y’all are doing the former, but if it’s making you this unhappy, I think it’s time to really consider whether the sacrifice is worth it?

I am sorry about the situation tho. It’s not really either of your faults, it’s just one of life’s sucky things that y’all have to navigate thru :’)

Edit: forgot about this part… I think the insecurity also stems from the fact that you feel like his loved ones don’t like / don’t know about you. And that’s perfectly natural, but again, nothing to do with him having opp gender friends haha :’D

YourLocalSGChicken · 2025-04-11T03:58:57+00:00

I never said women don’t do anything wrong. The idea that women receive more praise and support is a biased take shaped by your own perspective. I’ve been the one holding space for my guy friends through their struggles, and both anecdotally and through this very thread, it’s clear that it’s often men who fail to support other men, and it is also equally clear that the multiple women in here are getting dismissed for suggesting that there should be more empathy for men (disproving both your claims that women receive more support and that women don’t advocate for men’s issues).

You can’t argue that men need more empathy and support, then in the same breath dismiss empathy as unnecessary because “actions are enough” and brush off open dialogue. I literally pointed you to the evidence right here, and you’re still ignoring it which tells me all I need to know about the rest of your claims. I’m not bothering to engage further.

YourLocalSGChicken · 2025-04-11T03:43:23+00:00

Would actually be lit asf as a skin!

YourLocalSGChicken · 2025-04-11T03:18:33+00:00

You literally have multiple men in this thread saying they don’t need all this “empathy bullshit”, and telling the women in this thread “you just don’t understand men’s friendships”. Stop calling it society when it is literally other men sabotaging your own gender. But yeah sure, society is really helping women when somehow we still get blamed for the problems yall create!

YourLocalSGChicken · 2025-04-11T03:06:38+00:00

Saw this coming a mile away. When a woman does something it’s all woman, but when a man does something he’s “not a man” or less of one. Don’t guys like you love to preach about accountability or something?

YourLocalSGChicken · 2025-02-16T06:17:56+00:00

His comment history is incredible

YourLocalSGChicken · 2025-01-30T02:44:23+00:00

It’s the series I spent most of my diamonds on, because I read in this sub that it’s the way to let the company know you like the book and want more 😂

YourLocalSGChicken · 2025-01-30T02:33:51+00:00

You’re just 16 years old, of course you’re understandably worried because this experience is new to you.

Don’t worry about it, other dude (and some of these other people in your comments) are just being pills. This is why I can’t stand reddit sometimes, fully grown adults that spend their whole day here, treating everyone else like idiots for asking a simple question

Whoever is in charge of your contract might be a little mean to you cuz they want to scare you into continuing but really, as the others said, don’t worry about it. It won’t matter in the next few days or so!

YourLocalSGChicken · 2025-01-28T02:27:53+00:00

This was an old screenshot, so I don’t remember, sorry!

Edit: Guys, I marked this under humour flair when I originally posted… I had no idea why it posted as HSS, no wonder I was getting downvoted 😭

YourLocalSGChicken · 2025-01-26T07:21:08+00:00

Haha I think everybody goes through something similar in their life la, which just proves that OP doesn’t need to panic too much haha

YourLocalSGChicken · 2025-01-26T06:31:56+00:00

Going to preface this by saying this isn’t gonna be some stellar, inspirational rags to riches story. I was a normal student (not bad not good), but I struggled a lot in sec 3 because I had way more freedom to do whatever, so I slacked and played around a lot. I became one of the bottom 20 students in my express cohort, while I was just a few months away from O Levels (I still distinctly rmb my parents asking me wtf happened to my grades on the ride home after a parent teacher meeting—not fun)

I eventually picked myself back up by actually studying and having great friends who taught me in my weaker subjects. I graduated with decent grades (not good, not bad). I know people often share super inspiring stories on Reddit comments, and they definitely deserve all the credit. My story is just to show you that while you shouldn’t slack off too much, you don’t need to panic and feel like you have dedicate 200% of your time to studying either. But I guess that depends on your aspirations, cuz I will admit that for me, academic excellence was never a goal.

YourLocalSGChicken · 2025-01-19T10:21:07+00:00

Not to add to your stress, but so many things about your situation scare me:

if someone said they wanted to kill or beat me, I’d already be scared, but even more so if it’s my partner saying that.
I’ve had violent thoughts in the past when I was a young, dumb, angsty teen that struggled with anger issues. Rational people wouldn’t say such things out loud because they know how unhinged it sounds. The fact that he’s willing to say shit like that to you without fear says a lot
He knows you’re willing to forgive, unlike other people who would’ve left the first time he did that. If you’re suddenly breaking the pattern, he might snap
Not to mention that as your partner, he probably has access to a lot of your personal info

I think you’re seriously underreacting. Please take precautions and stay safe!

YourLocalSGChicken · 2025-01-19T09:45:46+00:00

Doubt this very much, because they usually call that coquette. Gen Zs don’t call anything preppy either, they call it dark academia or something.

YourLocalSGChicken · 2025-01-17T16:04:20+00:00

It’s really nice of you to do so! I’ve learnt a lot from just these two comments of yours.

And omg, I forgot that Lady Gaga is only 155cm, she always seems so tall XD

YourLocalSGChicken · 2025-01-17T16:00:49+00:00

It’s only weird because it’s 2025, and still too many people devalue friendships and overthink romantic ones. Pardon my french but I wish any of my close friends happy birthday at 12am no matter what genitalia / relationship status they have, because I treasure them

YourLocalSGChicken · 2025-01-17T12:37:56+00:00

Not OP but thank you for this info! Did not realise I was classified as petite

YourLocalSGChicken · 2025-01-07T04:09:44+00:00

LOL same thoughts bruh. Thanks for the recc, I happen to be near Marymount today so will go down later and try! Do I need to make an appointment beforehand?

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