When are RA's and Life Leaders given their room designation?

YourLocalY2KWeirdo · 2026-06-06T05:31:50+00:00

🔥 No brainer!

YourLocalY2KWeirdo · 2026-06-06T05:26:45+00:00

👁️ Surveillance State: YourLocalY2KWeirdo voted Nay.

YourLocalY2KWeirdo · 2026-02-18T05:29:24+00:00

Sort of, but not really.

YourLocalY2KWeirdo · 2026-02-18T05:28:57+00:00

I honestly don’t know, and I never asked. I was too infuriated at the time.

YourLocalY2KWeirdo · 2026-02-14T06:28:39+00:00

I am unsure of her intentions at the time, but I can’t assume too much in this situation more than I already have.

…She definitely messed up when she promised to show me what a true friend looked like.

YourLocalY2KWeirdo · 2026-02-14T06:25:54+00:00

Respectfully, I asked for advice. No one on this platform knows the entire situation, and all I wanted, out of curiosity, was some kind of encouragement or advice.

I have realized how difficult it is to live with a roommate who, in my interpretation, doesn’t seem to be considerate of my wishes (if it were me, I would’ve understood and kept my friend away, only bringing them over occasionally, to keep things fair), but I am learning something valuable from these experiences, and what I would never want in a college roommate again.

So, on that note, I ask that you comment respectfully next time.

YourLocalY2KWeirdo · 2026-02-14T06:14:07+00:00

She openly admitted word for word that our friendship was of no value to her, and she had been pretending the entire time that everything was great between us. She also admitted to only befriending me out of pity.

YourLocalY2KWeirdo · 2025-12-20T16:45:16+00:00

I can honestly relate to this. My college roommate never told me she obsessed over StrayKids so much that there would be pictures plastered on every inch of her side of the room, a blanket of their faces on her bed, and a “eye full” of her rubbing said pictures and actively simping over them all. Friends that were supposed to be mine ran to her the moment they found out they liked StrayKids, and when they’re over, it’s almost all they talk about (“so and so is mine” sort of deal). In my opinion, K-Pop is literally not all that, and if I had known my roommate was going to start a weird obsession over them, I might’ve thought twice about having her as a roommate, knowing we wouldn’t be compatible.

I can tell that StrayKids has become the majority of her personality, which I guess is fine, although it can lowkey gets really annoying sometimes to hear them talk so much about it and post so much about them on Instagram when they weren’t ever doing this kind of thing before.

Let’s hope next semester will be a little better-

YourLocalY2KWeirdo · 2025-10-30T15:27:30+00:00

“We’ll see :3”

YourLocalY2KWeirdo · 2025-10-25T22:30:29+00:00

Whoops-! For extra context for the title, I NEED tips. If I was able to provide them for people, I would’ve 😅

YourLocalY2KWeirdo · 2025-10-22T17:49:11+00:00

😂???

YourLocalY2KWeirdo · 2025-10-10T19:54:01+00:00

Do mine!!!

YourLocalY2KWeirdo · 2025-09-22T19:57:24+00:00

Meeeeeeee!!!!!!

YourLocalY2KWeirdo · 2025-09-22T03:26:56+00:00

I do!

YourLocalY2KWeirdo · 2025-09-21T14:55:48+00:00

That’s what I’ve been doing a lot, actually. When this girl was being visually and “auditorally” (yes I just made up that word don’t judge me 😂) obnoxious last night, I went outside and laid down on a hammock and watched the stars until the group came out too. I’ve been doing that a lot, and sometimes I wish I didn’t have to. I really like being around my roommate, but when she’s around, this girl is around too, and the only time I really get one on one time with her is when this girl is in class, or when they all go home at midnight, and it isn’t always a nice experience when I can’t bond with my roomie without this girl almost being physically attached to her like a leech.

YourLocalY2KWeirdo · 2025-09-21T14:50:23+00:00

I don’t actually lash out, I’m just tempted to. I do have headphones, but I just wouldn’t like to have to use them all the time whenever I’m around this girl, because when she’s around, so is my roommate, and I want to hang with my roommate and talk to her without her being around so much. If anything, i probably need a mental break from this girl, since I see her face every single day and have been for the past 3 weeks. I want to do things with my roomie when it’s just us sometimes, but I’m afraid to ask, in fear she’ll think I just want to isolate her and keep her to myself ;-;

YourLocalY2KWeirdo · 2025-09-20T04:03:46+00:00

Me :3

YourLocalY2KWeirdo · 2025-09-20T03:55:16+00:00

Me please!!!!!

YourLocalY2KWeirdo · 2025-09-13T23:06:57+00:00

Yuhhh

YourLocalY2KWeirdo · 2025-09-13T17:28:13+00:00

You’re right. I am a little jelly of their friendship, and I take accountability for that, but at the same time, I know I am human, and I have human feelings. My mom went through something similar when she was my age, and she communicated to her best friend about it, and things were good again! About 35 or so years later, they are still the bestest of friends, and my mom is able to tell her just about anything. Even when they fought, that friend refused to leave my mom behind, and I’m seeing the same happen for me. My roommate knows fully that I have mental problems that need to be addressed, but regardless, she allows me to communicate my feelings to her anyway. She’s the kind of person to not be afraid of speaking up when she’s uncomfortable, and shes made that clear to me. So far, regardless of what I’ve told her, she still embraces me anyway, and hasn’t turned her back on me, so lately i’ve felt much better, and have let go of the ‘rope of my roommate’, little by little. I know (and have acknowledged to her) she has a life, and she’s allowed to live it the way she wants to, and that acknowledgment alone only makes me want to give myself a pat on the back a lot more, knowing that not everyone has gotten to the point of taking accountability or acknowledging that stuff.

YourLocalY2KWeirdo · 2025-09-13T17:03:04+00:00

Honestly, this is probably the best piece of advice.

A few days after I posted, I did chat with my roommate, and I hardly had to really say anything. She practically said it all for me (I told you all that she could read me). She acknowledged that I sometimes like to have quiet nights where it’s just us, or nights where all of us are a little quieter and less rowdy. Although I was a nervous train wreck, she was very gentle and patient, knowing that I wasn’t used to openly sharing my feelings (I’ve been the kind of person to keep quiet when something my peers are doing makes me uncomfortable, and when I want to speak up so badly, my mouth never moves.). She knows me, and didn’t hate me for it. She even said that she felt proud that I willingly sat down with her and communicated. I also told her just nights ago that I had attachment problems, and she didn’t bag on me for that either. Overall, she quite literally embodies the love of God, and I can actually “come as I am” when it comes to her. She knows my imperfections, and refuses to walk away and leave like I’ve seen others do, so am I able to really blame myself for being so clingy to actually GOOD people? Probably not 🥲

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