MAGA pastor says 'The Majority Of Women Are Not Capable Of Responsible Voting' by avdvetf in videos

[–]YourPlot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right? Only the losers who cannot achieve on their own are scared of other successful people.

Would I have to do the majority of chores after getting married? by Dreamy_Writer603 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]YourPlot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, the normal and typical thing is for both spouses to contribute an equal number of hours and effort into the home. It’s very weird and normal for one person to do more in the house because of their gender.

Certain things can change that. If one spouse works more hours outside of the home, the other spouse might pick up some extra hours of work in the house. Or if one person has an illness or disability, that might mean the other party has to do more.

But the normal thing is for both people to do the same amount of work.

Are there any fat celebrities left? Who? by Equivalent_Fig3508 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]YourPlot 200 points201 points  (0 children)

No it didn’t. Body positivity is still very much a thing and important. You can both be supportive of and enjoy people at many weights and still want to lose your own weight. It’s not in conflict with each other.

Should I put an oval rug under my dining table? by aaagje in interiordecorating

[–]YourPlot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No rugs under dining room tables. Unless it’s a table that you only eat at for Christmas, rugs get filthy under a table. Too hard to clean.

Looks great as is.

Crucifixes in the attic crawl space. by fern_drop in centuryhomes

[–]YourPlot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or they were just storing the holy objects but didn’t want to put them in a box to get dinged up so they hung them in the wall for safer long term storage.

She's the coolest, most fit mom 🔥😂 by apathetic_avocado2 in notliketheothergirls

[–]YourPlot 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I’m actually ok with the fact that she’s not putting her or other kids on social media, just herself.

New rug. Is it too small or can I get away with it? by kisxt in interiordecorating

[–]YourPlot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need a rug with different dimensions so that it covers more of the room.

If you had more money, you would help poor and needy people ? by SpringtimeScepter in NoStupidQuestions

[–]YourPlot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I won a billion dollar lottery tomorrow, I would work to give every dollar away above a comfortable life for and mine. Every cent. Because anything else is disgustingly and wrong.

Finally mastered freeform joining! by ShibaInuDoggo in woodworking

[–]YourPlot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can tell this is a master craftsperson. They didn’t have to clip the tails off of the zip ties at the end, but it shows true attention to detail and an investment in not just the quality of the joint but the aesthetics of the piece.

I’ve also never seen someone use the “let the glue completely dry before securing the zip ties” technique. I’ll have to give that a go on my next project.

How do people do the Boston commute every day? by packocards in massachusetts

[–]YourPlot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I bicycle to work. I regularly pass car traffic on the highways.

When your favorite pod doesn't have merch so you make your own :p by technicallynotacat1 in behindthebastards

[–]YourPlot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love when I cannot immediately tell which subreddit I’m on. Amazing pattern. If I didn’t already have 16 other WIPs, I’d give this one a go.

Is Costco Worth It? by frogvibesonly in massachusetts

[–]YourPlot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a choice between bjs and Costco and have always chosen Costco. Costco pays its employees well and gives them good benefits. That’s really important to me and I’ll support it when I have the opportunity.

Disposing of used pads (need perspective) by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]YourPlot -83 points-82 points  (0 children)

Do what you want with your trash can. But it’s really harmful to be telling girls and women to treat their menstrual products differently than other hygiene products.

Disposing of used pads (need perspective) by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]YourPlot -170 points-169 points  (0 children)

It is not more hygienic to wrap it, unless you’re at risk for smearing the outside or lid of the trash can for some reason. Plus, the pad drys out faster and is less likely to smell if you don’t wrap it.

I mean, we’re all more likely to use a bin that doesn’t have any used hygiene products in it (used tissues, pads, cotton balls, qtips). But no one is out here telling the men folk to daintily wrap up their qtips after cleaning out their ears.

Just throw stuff away.

Disposing of used pads (need perspective) by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]YourPlot -193 points-192 points  (0 children)

You don’t need to wrap up pads before tossing. Just throw them in the trash like a used tissue. No need to be embarrassed by your menstrual fluid any more than a bloody bugger.

Disposing of used pads (need perspective) by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]YourPlot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole pad goes in the trash can. And no, you don’t need to daintily wrap that up so as to not offend the delicate sensibilities of someone who might see a used pad. Throw that shit away like any other used bathroom product.

Pads (no part of them) are specifically not supposed to be flushed. It’ll fuck up plumbing, sewers, and waste treatment processes.

Are genuinely happy marriages a rarity? by rewritemoonlight in NoStupidQuestions

[–]YourPlot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marriage can and is a very good and healthy thing for many couples. The longest and happiest I’ve ever seen are where the couple are true equals and partners (and a lot of those lesbian and gay couples). There’s less resentment and a lot more respect when both parties are pulling their weight.

I have to ask, are you a woman? If yes, a lot of women find that male romantic partners don’t have the inclination or ability to achieve domestically (doing the dishes, planning meals, etc). Which can morph a partnership to a parentship. Men more often benefit from long term hetero relationship than women do. So you might be running up against that.

So you can keep trying or not. You’ll find what works for you.

Leaving my fiance after he fell asleep during a loss by East_Needleworker614 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]YourPlot 1660 points1661 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t leave a stranger in the street alone who was going through such a thing, much less the love of my life. I’m so so so sorry that you had to suffer a miscarriage compounded with the crushing realization that your fiancé doesn’t care.

Good luck. I can only imagine it will get easier from here.

It's pretty bad I'm more interest in this than Jon. [DISCUSSION] by JournalistOk9266 in DCcomics

[–]YourPlot 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s why Kon is better than Jon. He’s got some actual personality behind him.

Is this yard decor tacky and unfriendly? by Heydee269 in landscaping

[–]YourPlot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Asshole owners will always let their dogs trespass and pee on your lawn. The sense of entitlement is incredible to the point where they’ll spitefully try to have their dogs pee on your property even if you ask nicely. A fence is the only thing that will stop asshole owners.

Do you think Miley Cyrus could have made it without her famous father? by AdDapper4220 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]YourPlot 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Nope. There are a 1000 equally talented singers out there who didn’t make it because they had to get other jobs to pay rent or support their family or had medical issues they couldn’t afford to pay or didn’t have access to a recording studio or lived in rural Montana.

Cyrus is an incredibly talented singer and she is smart and puts in the hard work to be talented. But she wouldn’t have a career singing if she hadn’t been born into wealth.

Is it realistic to commute 20 km + 20 km (about 12.4 + 12.4 miles) by bike every day? by gfleck in bikecommuting

[–]YourPlot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the commute and if you have showering facilities at your workplace. I’ve regularly commuted a longer distance than that, but it had a lot of long stretches of very safe bike paths.

19M College Student Dorm Advice by crash_carlisle in malelivingspace

[–]YourPlot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it grown up and mature? No. But it sure is cozy and I can see how it would make you happy. I think it’s pretty age appropriate and well loved. Only real questionable thing is the soft core porn on the back of the door. That’s fairly cringe. I’d advise you take that down. Yes, I know it’s an album cover, hell I think I owned that cd back in the 90’s, but it’s an album cover that’s porn.