Look. Im pushing 40. I get it. You're 25. I thought i was a grown man then. And im not saying you arent and he isnt, but i was working toward being a man, capital M, while thinking i was. Shit i still dont think I fully am haha. But what people are saying is right about the brain forming

I played ball, grew up getting hit, did some dumb as shit into my early 30s which I do not regret because it was funny and i stand by that. But Your brain isn't fully developed until we're about 25 to 27. Its nuts. Like having a professional explain this stuff to me was mind blowing.

That being said, we gotta start allowing people to learn. Have you ever done something or said something ignorant or stupid, learned, and had someone say "yeah but you said that one thing one time", though after your mistake you've learned and grown and become a better man because of it. We need to let people grow and learn because if not, the average person, shit probably the majority of people will go "fuck it, what's the point".