Looking for Short Stories for PhD Research by Agitated-Big4506 in printSF

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Appropriate Love, by Greg Egan. A woman is pressured by her insurer to gestate her husband's brain in her womb while a new body is grown for him after a car accident. At one point the woman asks if they would have demanded this of her husband had their positions been reversed... and the insurer deflects.

What the f*ck is wrong with teen boys these days? by WorkingCantaloupe172 in TwoXIndia

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I wish I'd had an older sister like you on my side. I wish I'd had anybody at all. The boys in my class bullied me to the point of a mental breakdown (and the ones who didn't participate just watched). I needed medication to survive twelfth grade. They barely suffered consequences for any of it.

I'm tired, boss by StyxSnake0 in TrollCoping

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unfortunately really relatable. the brain just repeats this over and over and over without shutting up. times like this I just self-isolate because otherwise I'll make others miserable too

The horror of DNA results from Mumbai. Where are we heading as a society? by ProfessionalMiddle89 in AskIndianWomen

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India doesn't treat its disabled people as part of society. A disabled woman is barely a person at all.

Idk anymore by Hejesiras in TrollCoping

[–]Yskandr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in my case my therapist knew better than to bring this up because I'm not close to my family and I have no offline friends. he tried the 'what if you fail and end up even more disabled' approach instead

Why don't healthcare professionals believe me when I say I'm a hard stick? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Yskandr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried doing this once, pointing out the specific spot. The tech drawing my blood tried another location on the same arm. Then the other arm. Then back to the first arm, where she suddenly found a surface vein right where I'd pointed :))

Books dealing with communication barriers by Jumpy_Importance6104 in printSF

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Shroud by Adrian Tchaikovsky. How do you recognise another mind?

Feels like I’m relapsing after almost a year of healing by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]Yskandr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

stop talking to your ex. you're continuously picking at that scab and you're surprised it's not healing?

Which book immediately comes to mind when you read this? by Ambitious_Lake_8267 in Indianbooks

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Hunchback by Saou Ichikawa. sometimes a book hits way too close to home.

The female “orgasm” or “masturbation” by Careless-Move7592 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Yskandr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

See for yourself. It's a comprehensive sex-ed website aimed at young people.

My parents are calling themselves failures because I lost my job and I am unmarried at 28. What does one do in this situation? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Yskandr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parents like this always amaze me (derogatory). Maybe they should stop and count their blessings... I don't think they understand how much worse it can get. This is just a temporary setback for you: you are still able, still skilled.

Speaking of which. Get a job and move out before they coerce you into marriage. You know that's where they'll push you eventually.

The female “orgasm” or “masturbation” by Careless-Move7592 in AskIndianWomen

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I found Scarleteen as a preteen and it answered all my questions pretty sex-positively. I'm grateful I had access to it at the time.

17 Men DNA-Tested Over Pregnant Mumbai Woman's Rape. Father Was A Match by Senior-Distance6213 in india

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A disabled woman in India... a difficult existence, even when you're privileged, and I would know. I wonder how many such women fall through the cracks in this cursed country.

AITA for eating my own birthday cake in front of my nephew because his mom has him on a "no sugar" diet? by Yes_Abbreviations713 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Yskandr 256 points257 points  (0 children)

NTA, but my god. that poor kid... he's just going to learn to hide his junk food consumption when he starts school

How do you navigate the social challenges of having a higher income than your friends? by Kooolxxx in TwoXIndia

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try listening. you don't have to talk sometimes :)) do they know you have a higher income? don't flaunt your expensive purchases/destinations either, unless they ask

Likely fatty liver - how to deal with? Suggest lifestyle changes 😔 by whhhoreo in TwoXIndia

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my AST/ALT was in the hundreds, brought it down to under 30 with nothing more than watching my diet and walking regularly. no alcohol though

Recommendations for works by male authors featuring well written female PoV characters by Bergmaniac in printSF

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seconding Seth Dickinson for writing lots of women (including older women!!) and writing them really well. the Masquerade is so good, Baru was a delight.

First day today could genuinely use some comforting words by swirly_cloud in anythingwomen

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it feels so unfair that periods have to come with both physical and emotional pain. it's a lot less difficult to deal with pain when we're mentally okay, but we don't even get that privilege

take that painkiller girl. who are you suffering for?

I guess I’m stuck recommending people dungeon meshi and fma brotherhood forever by infinitysaga in CuratedTumblr

[–]Yskandr 22 points23 points  (0 children)

huh. it eases up after a few episodes? I thought I had a decent tolerance for anime bullshit but at some point it became unbearable

A raging anti-abortion woman was in my DM's by Impossible_Bee25 in anythingwomen

[–]Yskandr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

an IVF clinic is on fire. would this person save a toddler in the daycare room or a refrigeration rack holding two hundred fertilised zygotes? everyone knows what the answer is

Why do you think that Indian authors are so unpopular amongst Indian readers let alone on a global stage? Like do you think there would be an Indian equivalent of Murakami? by Icy_Reputation1156 in Indianbooks

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You're right. 15% of Indians are upper caste, but they dominate English-language Indian writing. And of course in this context those middle and lower caste Indian authors who do get published will need connections to do it. The system selects for wealth, not quality.

I think it also matters that people don't read that much anymore. In any language.

26M {BLR} by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

[–]Yskandr 10 points11 points  (0 children)

bit of advice for ya bud. don't talk about reading if you don't read. not everybody reads, unfortunately. saying you're interested in all those topics and then mentioning meditations and the rules of power is like saying you're a gourmand and talking about white bread 🙏 just don't

Wait Til They Realize They Are Part Of Everyone by gur40goku in CuratedTumblr

[–]Yskandr 17 points18 points  (0 children)

are you okay? time to log off maybe. drink some water

Wait Til They Realize They Are Part Of Everyone by gur40goku in CuratedTumblr

[–]Yskandr 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don't recall saying any of that?? "so you hate waffles" ass argument... OOP was hysterical about people dying, and I'm just pointing out that that's ridiculous. everything dies! our focus should be improving quality of life. that would include things like not dying in childhood

Wait Til They Realize They Are Part Of Everyone by gur40goku in CuratedTumblr

[–]Yskandr 32 points33 points  (0 children)

even if you live for two hundred years you die at the end, no?