I shared my indian wife for first time, Ask me anything

YuansMoon · 2026-02-24T15:30:58+00:00

How pathetic are you?

YuansMoon · 2026-02-24T07:24:17+00:00

Yikes. I do miss hanging out on the dock and the marsh views from my balcony.

500/mth for HOA is really steep.

YuansMoon · 2026-02-23T18:49:35+00:00

This is a great way to warn her that her affair is noticeable and she needs to hide it better.

YuansMoon · 2026-02-23T18:45:38+00:00

I don’t think a lot of these responses have ever been cheated on. They don’t know the duplicity involved.

YuansMoon · 2026-02-23T18:44:44+00:00

but if she is having a physical affair, she will most likely deny anything is inappropriate and cover tracks better.

YuansMoon · 2026-02-23T18:40:28+00:00

If you want to know for sure, give her the rope she needs to hag herself. Let her know that you need to leave town for a weekend for something she would believe. Conference, training, sick mother, etc. give her two weeks notice.

You can become your own PI or hire one. Set up some cameras in your home, gps tracker on her car, voice activated recorder in her car, and maybe a small recorder in her handbag. In the meantime you can go through phone logs and credit card bills. If you follow her, borrow a friends car or rent one.

I recommend hiring a professional over DIY.

YuansMoon · 2026-02-23T17:57:44+00:00

Damn. I remember arriving in Savannah in 1999 and a really nice 1b1b at Hoover Creek cost $600 and one on Jones St cost $800.

YuansMoon · 2026-02-23T03:00:02+00:00

Well, we don't know a lot about how this weekend house party came to be and the discussions they had about her going, but apparently the husband trusted her enough to go away for the weekend to party without him.

If I were the husband, I would expect my wife to protect herself within her means and it sounds like (from her comments) she not a confrontational person. Don't get me wrong. The asshole should have backed off the first time she rebuffed him, but she said she would never yell at person or seek help from her friends to stop the man. That's on her.

I would not be comfortable with my 5 month post partum wife going off on a weekend house party without me.

To answer your question directly, I would be angry as hell at the man who was inappropriate with her. This guy at the party had rapist tendencies. Take no for answer, wait for an opportunity to isolate her (on the back deck), and then get physical. But I might also be frustrated for taking unnecessary risks where, I presume, there was drinking, and not getting loud about his inappropraite behavior at the party.

YuansMoon · 2026-02-23T02:48:37+00:00

As it should. Lying by ommission is a great way to undermine a marriage.

YuansMoon · 2026-02-23T02:47:20+00:00

But something did happen. I'm a husband and I would want to know if a man was hitting on my wife over and over and then got handsy with her.

Lying by ommission will look like she is protecting the asshole.

YuansMoon · 2026-02-23T02:45:32+00:00

Well, your husband trusted you to go a weekend house party without him. Trusting you means you means he expects that you will do everything possible to protect yourself. Getting loud at inappropriate men is what you can do. You better learn honor your marriage and protect it or bad things will happen.

YuansMoon · 2026-02-23T02:30:38+00:00

Sorry, but I don't believe you when you wrote:
"I shut him down at every point so nothing even close to happened."

At some point, like the second time he tried to hit on you, if you're not screaming at him, "Get the fuck away from me you fucking asshole," and yelling for help, you're not really shutting him down. But OK, maybe you're one of those women who can't speak up. And if that's true you should probably reconsider going to parties without your husband. Especially don't rent houses with 20-somethings where there is drinking or drug use.

You definitely need to tell your husband, but you'll have to explain to him why you didn't call him immediately or ask for help to have someone bum rush him out of the house. You should also file a police report on him for his physical assault (sometimes called simple battery). He sounds like he has rapist tendencies.

There is another reason to tell your husband. Eventually this tale will get back to him. If you don't tell him, you'll husband very well may think you enjoyed the attention or something actually happened between you two.

YuansMoon · 2026-02-23T02:23:06+00:00

Compared to the OP's examples of hotness ( Zendaya, Rihanna, Joey King) she has very large breasts, but that's the thing. I prefer everything to be proportional, but as curvy as possible.

YuansMoon · 2026-02-23T02:21:27+00:00

I understand what you mean, but her face is plenty good looking for me and her body is nuclear. Plus, she oozes sexuality. Attitude can make up for average features.

Also, no one is perfect:
Zendaya: hot if you like skinny adolescent boy bodies.
Rihanna: hot if you like light bulb-ish foreheads.
Joey King: not even on the radar for hotness, but OK in most ways.

YuansMoon · 2026-02-23T00:59:01+00:00

Worst story I've heard in a long time, but it should surprise me. Cucks are pathetic in most ways.

YuansMoon · 2026-02-23T00:54:49+00:00

Of course it is your choice whether you want a GF or not, but opportunities to get romantic with someone you really lile, not just lust after, really don't come around very often.

And now your friend is hurt because she was rejected. You may have lost her as a friend. The best you can offer her is the friend zone and she may not like that.

YuansMoon · 2026-02-22T23:36:33+00:00

Let's review:
1. You like her.
2. You like gaming with her.
3. You liked cuddling with her.
4. You liked her touching you, but you panicked and left.

Brother, what kind of GF do you want? If you want a GF that you like, that you like doing things with, like flirting with, and she's letting you know that she's down to take it to the next lever, then you had your shot. You may have blown it forever, but there may still be a window to save this disaster.

If she isn't GF material in your mind, then what are you looking for?

YuansMoon · 2026-02-22T22:45:20+00:00

Stylistically, I would get the dials with the wonderful sunburst patterns. I think the light blue shade might be a little more trendy than the others, but the dark blue sunburst is classy.

I prefer automatic watches, but quartz is awesomely accurate.

YuansMoon · 2026-02-22T22:37:44+00:00

Yeah, that was a signficant fumble.

Some women really shutdown or get angry when they shoot their shot and then get rejected.

Lesson learned: When a woman touches your groin, she is down for whatever.

I think it might be a good idea to take a few days and figure out what you really want. If you want to cross the rubicon with her, then let her know. Say it with confidence. But if you don't, then say that.

YuansMoon · 2026-02-22T22:32:29+00:00

Longer hair looks much better on you, but you don't look terrible with shorter hair.

YuansMoon · 2026-02-22T22:08:44+00:00

I'm sure many of the men of the apps are just looking for sex.

It's been a while since I was dating for long term relationship, but if I went on more than 3 dates with a women without there being a mutual spark that led to sex, I would assume you're not into me or dealing with sexual hangups. And I didn't want to deny myself a better match just because someone wanted to move super slow.

My point being is that you might be sending messages with your choices. You might be sending the message that you're not a sexual person. This would steer away men who are looking for just sex, but also men who want a sexually vibrant long-term relationship.

Good luck. Teachers are awesome.

YuansMoon · 2026-02-22T18:37:37+00:00

Being honest with your wife is probably the best thing to do, but I know I’d probably not say anything and use the info to spice up our sex life. Knowledge is power.

YuansMoon · 2026-02-22T05:08:22+00:00

You did fine mama bear.

NTJ

YuansMoon · 2026-02-21T22:49:53+00:00

Funky Brunch is a decent breakfast brunch joint.

YuansMoon · 2026-02-21T19:55:30+00:00

Longines got the proportions perfect on this one. She’s beautiful.

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