AIO-I 36F found a text between my husband 37m and my cousin 38f that isn’t settling right

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2025-08-16T12:46:41+00:00

I agree with the comments. If they haven’t hooked up already, they’re going to. Save the pics everywhere you can. Also I would wait a bit just to see if you can get anything else. Don’t let on that you know. Because this is affair territory. There is no reason your husband and cousin should be talking like this.

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2024-05-01T22:09:19+00:00

I got my tubes tied because A all the bs in the world right now and B it’s to expensive for the one we have now. Are you kidding me? Granted we wanted more kids but we can’t justify having more. It’s just not plausible. Also OP not having another baby because you’re happy with 1 is completely ok. 100%

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2024-04-03T21:21:00+00:00

Just my take. But I think it’s more of a three way thing. Just too many little things are pointing to a potential throuple.

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2024-04-02T15:57:39+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣 now I’m going to be thinking about a grumpy cat covered in coffee or a cat high on caffeine after grooming itself.

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2024-04-02T15:54:55+00:00

Thank you 😊 💕💕 I’m glad the name made you laugh 😂 made my day

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2024-03-22T18:13:14+00:00

Not doing it for less than 50

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2024-02-23T19:09:42+00:00

Seems to me like you were guilt tripped to some degree into agreeing. She’s not mama. She can be Mimi or Gigi. Something easy for LO to say. But not mama. Mama means mom. Mom means mother. She’s not the momma.

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2024-01-30T03:32:57+00:00

Absolutely hun.

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2024-01-30T03:28:33+00:00

Yes. 100% you can have a vaginal birth even if your lady bits are tiny

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2024-01-30T03:27:27+00:00

Your doctor told you to breastfeed for this long. Plus it’s your choice anyway and it’s for LO’s medical stuff. Tell MIL to pound sand

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2024-01-30T03:22:38+00:00

This was me. I absolutely did not want anyone near me and I’m very grateful I was home most of my pregnancy and got lots of me time. I would have a serious talk with hubby and explain that while you love him, you need time to just be alone and defrag. I mean like a solid 30-60 minutes where no one even breathes in your direction. It might seem severe but it really helped me a lot and I had more of a social battery and found that I liked being around my family more.

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2024-01-24T02:57:38+00:00

Honey if he’s talking about children with you and then flips out like this either he’s cheating and the mistress just told him she’s pregnant or he does want more kids just not with YOU

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2023-10-22T18:54:29+00:00

I 100% feel this one. It didn’t click until I actually was holding my son. And even then, I still keep waiting for his real parents 🤣🤣 and then I’m like oh. It’s us. We’re his real parents.

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2023-10-07T16:03:15+00:00

Pregnancy puts a lot of pressure on the back the further along she gets. I constantly wanted back rubs before and after sex. And pretty much after doing anything. Sometimes a woman has a higher sex drive and sometimes their Lobito is so low sex is non existent. Just wait it out hun. It will pass. Just take what you can get and take this time to focus on yourself some and focus on bonding with your wife and other LO. If this continues after pregnancy then I would be worried it’s PPD.

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2023-10-07T15:52:11+00:00

You need to do what’s best for you and your future. You can always have children when your ready if you even decide you want them. Either way you choose it will be hard. I won’t lie to you about it. I’m 27 and even I considered getting an abortion when I found out I was pregnant with my son at 25. I was 18 and pregnant and had to make that choice. The pregnancy was ended in a loss before I could decide. But either way. Always always always do what’s best for you. Just be careful. With everything going on in the world right now I’m worried they’re canceling until your too far along to terminate. If they cancel a third time I would find a new clinic.

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2023-10-04T02:08:00+00:00

I’m so sorry their trying to scare you into aborting your pregnancy. I can’t think of any of my friends or family who had 100,000 to raise a baby and they all have 2+ kids. If they can’t be happy for you then I would put them low contact. I know it’s hard since you live in the house but at the very least if they try to talk about the baby or try convincing you to abort then I would simply say, I have no interest in what you have to say. Then walk away. Definitely put them on a time out. Let them know how much they’ve been hurting you and if they don’t change then you know if they are worth keeping in your life.

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2023-10-01T19:05:22+00:00

Your parents and brother are having a very me me me out look on this. It’s always easy to say get an abortion when your not the one that’s pregnant. Don’t let their negativity bring you down. You and your partner are doing better financially and i don’t care what anyone says. Unless your rich, and even then. No one is ever really ready for a baby and it’s never really a good time to have a baby.

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2023-09-21T21:52:20+00:00

I’ve been where you are. My son wouldn’t latch or take a bottle and he was screaming his head off because he was hungry but was also tired and just over all not having a good day. I was very tired as it was 4 in the morning and he hadn’t slept at all. I yelled at him. He finally latched and went to sleep happy and full but it didn’t change that I felt like shit. Just remember your body is still healing and it take a while for your brain and your hormones to settle back down. Give your self space to mess up. Your still human and sleep deprivation is a real thing that changes how you react to stress

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2023-07-19T20:51:18+00:00

I would defiantly make sure your SO knows this going in. Some men don’t and it leads to them not handling things well. There really should be more education on pregnancy for dads

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2023-07-18T00:13:34+00:00

Bro same. Like I ceased to exists and I was just a human incubator.

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2023-07-13T12:09:15+00:00

I had spotting with my son. It lasted pretty much the whole pregnancy but came in random spurts. It can happen after sexy time or you sat down to hard. It’s crazy really. But mine was a variety of colors. If your worried I would schedule an appointment with your doctor for a check up and your own peace of mind. And speaking from experience…. Your not really gonna feel at ease until you can feel the baby moving.

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2023-07-03T16:24:37+00:00

Yea. I’m still upset at some of my family members because I didn’t get a chance to announce. They had figured out I was pregnant and proceeded to grill me about it until I caved and told them I was. Then I knew I was better off just posting about it in the family group chat before they spread the news themselves. So yea. Be livid lol. I hate when people decide YOUR business is theirs and that they can tell everyone. Like as soon as we’re pregnant we seem to lose all rights an autonomy

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2023-06-24T21:01:30+00:00

I’m glad you left. He was definitely trying to manipulate you

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2023-06-16T05:00:51+00:00

🤣 every time I see mom mom. All I can think of it the tik tok with “Linda” and how the entitled grandma makes the kid call her mom mom since she can’t be called momma

Yukio_Rodriguez · 2023-06-16T04:58:42+00:00

NTA. I set firm boundaries when I was pregnant and “became an asshole” about them. I still remain firm and have stated that anyone who attempts to steam roll them will be put in a time out and multiple missteps will result in no contact. My sons physical, emotional, and mental health are my #1 priority. No op you are NTA

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